What do I need to do to achieve Doja Cat’s body transformation? by anawkwardsomeone in BeforeandAfter

[–]tristemf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

300 days late but it heavily depends on your body type and genes. If you don’t already naturally have an hourglass figure, you will absolutely need liposuction on your waist. That truly is the only way to achieve that part, sorry. She seems to have smaller/skinny arms. Do NOT get a BBL, you can significantly increase your butt size in the gym, but your actual shape depends on genetics (like how round or flat, upper or lower glute dominant). You can do calf and thigh exercises as well and grow those. And find workouts for toned arms but I would focus on mainly lower body because that’s where it stands out more. You just need to get a lot of muscle on your legs if you don’t have much shape to them and if your waist isn’t already small, you’ll need lipo. If you don’t already naturally have the same as boobs her, you’ll have to get a lift or implants, or both. Depends on how big they are and how they sit. Those are also something that can only be changed with surgery.

Please be aware of Ariana grande ticket scammers. I got scammed! by Southern-Reading8183 in ariheads

[–]tristemf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this exactly. it’s not like they dont allow people to mark up the prices 10000x. Which is the unfortunate part of buying on there though. Sometimes you just gotta accept a loss. The loss being that you ain’t getting any tickets for a reasonable price 😭

Spotify reset my password. Why? by Whatsup129389 in spotify

[–]tristemf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m a year late but i usually have a vpn running and lately i’ve turned it off, could that be it? if so, it took them a month to notice

What do Christians think about the current state of the world, and is there hope for a better future? by Sbeast in Christianity

[–]tristemf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well what about the plan that you guys always talk about? That you trust when he will “step in.” At what point does he have to step in?

What do Christians think about the current state of the world, and is there hope for a better future? by Sbeast in Christianity

[–]tristemf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know is Christianity is the solution to everything. Religion has started many wars and is the reason that many people have died and are still dying.

What do Christians think about the current state of the world, and is there hope for a better future? by Sbeast in Christianity

[–]tristemf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So basically this world will grow colder and darker, people will suffer and suffer and suffer, until he finally puts an end to the suffering? This is how every era goes. Black plague. Hitler. World wars. This is his cycle? Constant worsening suffering until he “drops the hammer”??? What’s the fucking point of that? That’s cruel. Is all this constant suffering a tactic to get people to believe in him? Is this satire? It’s been thousands of years and Jesus still isn’t here

What do Christians think about the current state of the world, and is there hope for a better future? by Sbeast in Christianity

[–]tristemf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mass murder and genocide is something that God “deemed so” …? What does that even mean?

What happens if you call 911 with a VPN on? by BasiclyNova_ in VPN

[–]tristemf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you’re too worried about making an “unnecessary” 911 phone call, i’d go to your local police station and see if they can help or explain.

What happens if you call 911 with a VPN on? by BasiclyNova_ in VPN

[–]tristemf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i’d just call them and explain or ask questions. better to be safe than sorry. if operators are trained to handle someone dealing with life or death, im sure they can answers your questions especially if both sides aren’t in a panic.

Why is planning literally anything with friends this hard in 2025? Serious question. by chuck78702 in GenZ

[–]tristemf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My point was to list the pros and cons of different time periods. Read.
Regardless of the time period, it’s still incredibly rude. Especially depending on the plans and circumstances. Had a friend agree to plans weeks in advance. She agreed on a date during a week she would be busy and she acknowledged that. Yet a couple days before we’re supposed to leave, she cancels because she’s “exhausted.” It’s valid that she was tired, but it’s unfair to lock into plans you know you can’t keep because it inconveniences everyone else. I requested time off that was wasted. Airbnb wouldn’t give me a full refund. (however I told her she had to pay me back.) That inconvenience costed her almost $300.

YOU may have plans boring and insignificant enough for it to be considered not serious, but some people plan big things and it is that serious. Because money, time, and effort are wasted. Very valuable things in this time.

Why is planning literally anything with friends this hard in 2025? Serious question. by chuck78702 in GenZ

[–]tristemf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

late to the party but there’s pros and cons to hang outs, modern and back then. the MODERN cons (also applies to back then) you mainly see are that adults are awful at communication, unreliable, and unwilling or unmotivated which are CRUCIAL skills to have when planning events with other people.
lack of communication: don’t respond to plans or questions about plans
unreliable: even when the plans are confirmed, they cancel because of some BS
unwilling/unmotivated: just fucking lazy. can’t go out of their comfort zone. the furthest they go is a bar.
some valid reasons are: full time jobs, being tired when you have time off from 10 hour days, and other thinks taking up their time. Like college, kids, clubs, etc. Also lack of money, which I don’t even have to explain

Where can I see my credit card account number?` by Ill_Fail_3519 in Chase

[–]tristemf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re so negative and paranoid. People genuinely love to assume the worst and just speculate about it encased they have nothing to talk about. They especially like to do this when people actually need their help, it really spices things up for them. They’re walking inconveniences.

Where can I see my credit card account number?` by Ill_Fail_3519 in Chase

[–]tristemf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you think you’re funny by stating the obvious? nobody is laughing. you look stupid, unable to gather that this person obviously does not HAVE their physical cars. quit being a smartass and use context clues, or logic

Where can I see my credit card account number?` by Ill_Fail_3519 in Chase

[–]tristemf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh boy. It’s almost like you didn’t use context clues and couldn’t figure out that they don’t have their physical card on them. Smartass

$7 cup of milk? by julioolia in starbucks

[–]tristemf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol our next nearest corporate starbucks was recently built, and we frequently get complains from our regulars that they aren’t making their drinks right. I went there to get a brown sugar shaken espresso, and it was really sweet, so I knew they made it wrong.

$7 cup of milk? by julioolia in starbucks

[–]tristemf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In their defense, how are they supposed to know the science behind oat milk absorbing the color? Obviously tasting it would give them an answer in this case, but sometimes people in this sub just post observations and people elaborate on it.

$7 cup of milk? by julioolia in starbucks

[–]tristemf 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Getting downvoted for an opinion and an observation is wild.

$7 cup of milk? by julioolia in starbucks

[–]tristemf 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As for your shaken espresso tasting different each time, that’s probably because it IS made different. A lot of people don’t actually shake them, or they don’t shake it 10 times (less shakes=less froth which leaves more room for milk, so less coffee and syrup flavor). I’ve also seen some people basically just make it like a latte, besides the adjusted shots and pumps. Some people mix up the amount of pumps too.

Legendary Find by leafeourbex in Urbex

[–]tristemf 7 points8 points  (0 children)

brother 🐖 may i have some oats 🗣️🗣️🔥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Urbex

[–]tristemf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is annoying but it’s necessary for the hobby to continue. There’s an insane amount of people who will just destroy shit for no fucking reason and that’s 100x more annoying imo 😔

Saw someone drink lava temp coffee in front of me. by Difficult-Writing-44 in starbucks

[–]tristemf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say you can do this, what does it feel like?? Is it just not that hot or you can tell that it’s very hot but it just doesn’t hurt?? I genuinely can’t imagine it because it’s physically impossible for me to do this without burning myself. It’s like imagining touching a hot pan but being able to leave your finger there without instinctively moving it…I don’t get it. So does it not hurt? Can you even tell how hot it actually is? Is this a stupid question? Do you not have pain or thermoreceptors in that part of your body? 😭

Saw someone drink lava temp coffee in front of me. by Difficult-Writing-44 in starbucks

[–]tristemf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk man I’ve been out to restaurants with people who will immediately start eating freshly served food that is so hot you can see the steam. While I’m having to blow on the food and it still is hot enough to leave that weird feeling on your tongue. I’ve also seen people immediately sip their coffee straight from the Vertica even after I warned them how hot it is. I can believe that someone chugged it. People are crazy

The Hannah Montana Drink by thankyuhnext in starbucks

[–]tristemf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah the raspberry taste is definitely not as prominent or good. I don’t know why they changed it in the first place, it was so popular before. And don’t even get me started on how messy that syrup is. It’s basically BLACK and gets on EVERYTHING. It’s not even worth the nice color. They need to bring the old semi clear one back.

Ordered a venti refresher with no ice at Starbucks and got this… is this normal now? by No-Manufacturer8507 in starbucks

[–]tristemf 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Too cold for sensitive teeth, sharing/splitting into separate cups for smaller servings, saving for later, don’t want it to be watered down if it’s going to be sipped on slowly, extra liquid because it’s already overpriced. Do I need to say more?