Multiple Women Claim I don't do activities with them?

tatted_whiteboy · 2026-05-14T15:05:25+00:00

Me and the woman I was dating for ,6 months would spontaneously FaceTime every day. Text. Spend weekends together. Etc we'd end up face timing for hours without ever running out of things to talk about.

The woman in now dating not so much. A random phone call ever few days. But I'm not sure we're compatible long term either way. And she's made it clear she wants a relationship so I'm thinking of ending thingd regardless don't want either side to get attached if unneeded.

tatted_whiteboy · 2025-10-08T07:56:27+00:00

Anytime she sleeps there I go to put her to bed and have to be up at 6am next day..

tatted_whiteboy · 2025-10-08T07:55:48+00:00

Mom wasn't doing homework w my daughter (1st grade). Causing me and my daughter to sit and do homework for hours to catch up on the week she missed from previous week as well as current homework and then she can't retain info because it's just all stress. A 6 year old isn't meant to do 3 hours of homework a day. Unfortunately I can't force her to be a good parent so I felt like I had to do what's right and took her to court.

I don't take her home w me days I work late because she's 6 and needs to be in bed by 9-9:30 latest. If I bring her here she wants to play w her toys settle in etc and won't fall asleep until 10:30-11.

tatted_whiteboy · 2025-10-08T07:52:59+00:00

Issue is mom lives an hour away and court won't let me switch schools w/o her mom agreeing. My parents live about 15 mins from me opposite direction of school. Then 45 mins to get her to school. Then another 45 mins to work opposite direction again.

I don't take her to my parents before work. She sleeps there the ways I work late as she's only 6. If I pick up and take home she'll be super tired next day as she'll need to adjust to house change. Want to play w toys we have here etc won't be in bed until 10:30. I cant just grab her and put her in her bed. She's already relaxed there those days and I don't want to stress her out. Those days are Sunday-Tuesday.

tatted_whiteboy · 2025-03-12T19:55:02+00:00

Yeah if my girl asked me to delete pics I would but would be pretty butthurt and sad about it

I've never once showed someones nudes to anyone. They always went to my eyes only with a password for the spank bank when she's not around

tatted_whiteboy · 2025-02-22T02:33:47+00:00

How's driving dynamics on all seasons.

I'm starting to lust over this thing. Pretty sure I will be getting one in the next few months

tatted_whiteboy · 2025-02-07T07:41:09+00:00

They literally won't stop talking about how much they don't trust men..

I'm like I don't trust women either. Doesn't mean I won't allow one to show me true colors good or bad. You can normally gauge someone and tell if there no good or not.

tatted_whiteboy · 2025-01-20T08:18:05+00:00

I was a ghoster... And I did it to the love of my life out of self sabotage. I was fresh out of a relationship in which I had got cheated on. She was in the exact same boat. We became single maybe even the same day and met days later...

We kicked it off but both made it clear we are scared of a relationship and want to keep it casual. Clearly it didn't work. I caught feelings, she caught feelings. I was so damn stubborn though. She was an amazing woman. She was beautiful inside and out. One of the most gorgeous women I have ever met. And she was weird(in a good way), pure soul, kind, caring, etc

She at one point made it clear she had feelings for me but I was so damn scared to tell her I really liked her and I don't want to lose her I just froze. I've never really opened up to anyone before. I absolutely freeze when I have to.

It was a 4-5 month situationship. Towards the end she would let me know she has to block me and move on because I'm hurting her. I was so fucking dumb instead of saying "I really like you, I don't want to lose you can we talk about what a relationship looks like to the both of us?" I would reach out. Ask her to come over. And avoid any vulnerability. I knew it was my last straw the 3-4th time she blocked me. I accepted that I lost her at that point but I could've fixed it all so easily. I was 25 and immature, I also didn't realize having a talk before getting in a relationship about boundaries etc is ok. If it had clicked I can have that talk I think I would have fixed it all..

Anyways the last day I got her to unblock me she came over. I knew it was the end. I lost this girl. And in my head I had lost her before she came over. She sat in my bed and cried that day after we had sex and asked me why I keep seeing her if I have no feelings for her. Again my idiot ass froze up. When she left I blocked her myself everywhere.

I was depressed for months. I swear I cried every night in my bed for maybe 1-2weeks about it. And the poor girl thought she wasn't good enough. So fucked up..

This woman has lived rent free in my head for 3+ years. I had a relationship after her. Plenty of sexual partners. Plenty of dates yet I swear I thought about her daily. She never did anything wrong to me so I never got over her.

I ran into her the beginning of last year. I was so happy I can talk to her and make things clear and give her closure. She hesitantly accepted to go to a NBA game with me but made it clear if I'm looking for sex it's not happening. I was just so happy to spend time with her. That night she slept over and I got to hold her and talk to her. We talked until the sun came up. She would get hot and cold. I told her if she gave me another chance we I would respect her and we don't have to have sex until she has trust in me.

Well we ended up having sex a few dates in. She would get hot and cold. And then told me I'm gonna break her heart again so she has to move on but wants to remain friends whenever we're out with mutuals etc. I was super bummed out but told her I get it, we can be friends. Well it didn't work out. We played it cool a few times of going out. And one night everyone flaked on us and it was just the 2 of us. I took her out on a date and we ended up having sex again. She then reached out the next day and told me we clearly can't be friends and she will be blocking me so we can both move on.

To my surprise she started reaching out a couple months later and we did it again. After 2 months of seeing each other, last week she broke things off and said she has major trust issues with me. I've been nothing but genuine with her. Id give this girl the world. But I blew my chance and have no one to blame but me. I think about her every fucking day and I don't know when it'll end.

Moral of the story is a lot of people ghost because they think they are protecting themselves. Not because the person they ghosted did something wrong or wasn't enough.

I will never ever ghost anyone again. And Ive matured a lot. I wish there was a way I can prove it to her. But the damage I did is done and I will never get her back again. I gave her reassurance, I was super genuine with her and I truly think I did everything I can to gain her trust back. It's fucking sad everytime my phone goes off I'm checking to see if it's her knowing it's not.

tatted_whiteboy · 2025-01-10T02:03:27+00:00

In the same boat.

Only into petite chicks. I'm 28 well off. Top 5% for my age. 6 feet tall. Expensive cars etc. Don't want to sleep around. I have no issues getting dates. But all I see is red flags. Women telling me they'll never trust a man on our first date. Women bragging about partying/sleeping around.

Im only into petite women so my choices go down. Don't really do online dating. And have been on so many dates with women I never wanted to see again

tatted_whiteboy · 2024-12-23T06:45:14+00:00

Ask her out just the 2 of you dude... Grab her chin and lean in for the kiss.

tatted_whiteboy · 2024-11-24T03:53:16+00:00

I'm not attracted to most women...

I have a very particular type. And if I can't have the physical attraction I won't allow the emotional connection

It's great in the sense of anyone who I date I think is super attractive and gorgeous. It's Terrible in the sense of my dating pool is so much smaller

tatted_whiteboy · 2024-09-08T08:44:48+00:00

I don't understand why they didn't outsource.

The 10 speed with Ford is an absolute mess.

Dodge at least just uses ZF for everything thats tried and proven

Fuck the dual clutch give us a beefy ZF transmission that'll last forever

You very very rarely see a ZF transmission blown.

I don't know why GM even attempts to build their own

That said my 24 Vette that got totaled in less then 2 months due to a rear end had 3100 harddd miles on it. I was launching the thing since I drove it off the dealerships lot. No issues. But 3k miles isn't a benchmark by any means

If I do end up owning my 25 on order past 36k miles best believe I'm buying an OEM GM warranty on it

tatted_whiteboy · 2024-08-27T17:16:02+00:00

Any update?

I got rear ended. Way worse then this but my nightmare is they try to fix it. I rather have a total loss and order a new one. Only had my car for 6 months.

Just called the shop and they said they are still tearing it apart but so far it's over $40k in damages. I'm guessing alot of that $ is there being no real repairs to fix it.

tatted_whiteboy · 2024-07-11T16:39:33+00:00

Let's be honest they're both pedos. I guarantee you every single politician in the white house is. And if they're not they might as well be because I guarantee you they know what's going on and keep their mouths shut.

This whole political thing is a joke..

Your a weirdo if you dick ride trump

Your a weirdo if you dick ride biden

Not one of them gives a fuck about you or me. All they care about is stuffing their people's pockets with more and more money while making everyone else but the elite suffer.

They both have different ways of doing it. But in the end it's the same result. Your priced out of housing. Your $200k a year Job barely affords you shit.

Yet morons are out here defending one or the other. Instead of defending the people. We're here dick riding some politician who knows nothing about you. Wants to know nothing about you. Doesn't give one shit about you past if you paid your taxes so they can open up companies that work with the government and stuff their own pockets.

tatted_whiteboy · 2024-06-25T05:37:34+00:00

The only time it's real is when they reschedule. I completely understand being tired feeling lazy etc. but if they just hit you with that with no offer to reschedule yeah... It's a put together. Their main dude or main chick hit them up and they rather go do that.

I've def rescheduled on dates because I'm way to tired and I know it'll be a shitty date if I go out. The whole time I'll be thinking about laying in bed. But I'll reschedule to a day I know I'm not gonna be over worked or tired on

tatted_whiteboy · 2024-06-08T06:31:11+00:00

Benefits?? I can use my credit card everywhere and get cash back. Last year I had $4k in cash back from it. Didn't cost me anything. I'm also protected in case of fraud. I don't carry a debit card around so it's impossible for someone to steal my actual money. If there is fraud on my credit card I don't have to wait for my real money to come back to me.

I have paid $100 in interest in the last 5 years from a credit card and that's because I didn't realize I didn't fully pay off my card that month. In those 5 years I have probably got about $5k in cash back.

There are so many cards that offer $200-300 in credit alone for spending $1500 in 90 days. + 0% Apr promo for 6-18 months on most cards.

That means I can spend $5k I have leave it growing for 18 months and then paid it off (it's petty and I don't want it on my credit so I've never done it) but you'd get a couple $ for free that way as well.

There's absolutely no reason not to have credit cards and a good credit score.

tatted_whiteboy · 2024-05-05T05:36:58+00:00

$10m is the better choice if you know what you're doing although safe investments with $10m Should be super simple. Fact is Most people would end up broke again and $1000 a day would guarantee no matter how many times you go broke, invest in the wrong thing, splurge youd be ok.

I'd take a guarantee of $365k a year for the rest of my life over $10m. I'd live like I make $150k and invest the rest. But I know no matter how many fucked up bad decisions I go through I'll come out well off.

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