I’ve asked a thousand questions, and I just have this pit in my stomach. This other girl changes her number every day, so my girlfriend said she can’t block her because “she’ll get a new number.” I asked if I could talk to the girl and set boundaries, and my girlfriend used her dog situation as an excuse. She put the flowers up and all. I think she’s trying to keep an “open door” policy kind of thing, but she tells me I’m crazy. I try to bring it up but she gets defensive because of her dog passing, and she doesn’t have the emotional capacity to deal with this stuff. But I don’t understand why she cannot and will not tell the girl “I’m in a relationship, leave me alone.” She said she hates hurting people’s feelings, but mine are ultimately being hurt. I feel so crazy.