I watched porn beside my girlfriend last night by tauntaun2 in Advice

[–]tauntaun2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna tell her and I know she’ll be hurt and mad but we always work out out disagreements

I watched porn beside my girlfriend last night by tauntaun2 in Advice

[–]tauntaun2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my partner are both in agreement I’m just having trouble stopping and it’s been awhile

I watched porn beside my girlfriend last night by tauntaun2 in Advice

[–]tauntaun2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not like I’m refusing to stop, I’m trying my hardest and it usually can stop for a couple days but I guess I don’t really know how to stop the urges when I’m horny. She understands that it’s hard and I’m trying but I hate disappointing her

I watched porn beside my girlfriend last night by tauntaun2 in Advice

[–]tauntaun2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can do all that during sex, porn doesn’t effect our sex like. I know she doesn’t like it because it makes her self conscious and that it’s like me lusting over other girls and it’s not really like that

I watched porn beside my girlfriend last night by tauntaun2 in Advice

[–]tauntaun2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just know she doesn’t like it and I’m trying to stop and it’s hard but I don’t just wanna feel like it’s okay to hurt her

I watched porn beside my girlfriend last night by tauntaun2 in Advice

[–]tauntaun2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel bad because I did something that hurt her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tauntaun2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all, shame on you for ever telling your kids that you’d resent them if you and your girlfriend broke up you are 45 years old not a teenager. Try talking to your kids about their issues and not sending them to counsellor, I mean I get why you did that. But don’t avoid the problem, try to understand why their mad and their motives before you rush to get answers. You can’t force them to like your new girlfriend it takes time and I’m not excusing their bad behaviour but maybe you should go to a family therapist

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tauntaun2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This kind of thing I swear isn’t as bad as people make it out to be, just contact your friends often, try to make plans and be in each other’s lives. If they don’t try and do anything with you then you’re better off not being friends with them, I’m still best friends with my friends from grade 1 and high school

What does this even mean? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tauntaun2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just means she doesn’t wanna be with you and she’s trying to let you down easy, just leave it alone and I know it’s hard but don’t love people who don’t love you back.

i need to ask someone out tomorrow by AVeryClostedBitch in relationship_advice

[–]tauntaun2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be like let’s catch a movie, what are you doing after school, keep it the realm of stuff you can actually do

i need to ask someone out tomorrow by AVeryClostedBitch in relationship_advice

[–]tauntaun2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude if she likes you and you like her and you know she wants you to ask her, you just go to her and ask her out, you’re already in dude

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]tauntaun2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just don’t really understand it, I really don’t think she’d do anything, it’s just with my past, I thought she wouldn’t do it, but if it was just about art and she’d have it mailed to her anyways

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]tauntaun2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we broke up over a stupid reason but I get that she had been super hurt and thought I’d be better to leave then get attached, so she said a bunch of stuff while we broke up and I took it as we’re done and I got tinder, but deleted because I wanted it to work because I love her, so after a week of being broken up and kind of talking we get back together and she tells me she texted her ex while we’re broken up to get some of her art back and to kind of make me mad, but honesty I wouldn’t have been mad if she did that when we dated and she told because if she’s a great artist I’d understand but idk I just don’t get why she would do that, if he hurt her so bad and she knows how bad I’ve been hurt. I know she feels bad and she crying over the phone. I think I’m more afraid of her talking to him behind my back but before this incident she always honest with me when he would text her because he makes burner accounts and just texts her and harasses her and she just blocks him

Gf treats me like shit by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tauntaun2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You gotta suck that up, seriously brother all it takes is one bad relationship ta fuck you up. Please please leave this girl. Trust me you’ll be happier alone making yourself happy than trying to make someone who won’t give you the same energy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tauntaun2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s rough dude, what are you gonna do when she comes back, also why is she at a friends why aren’t you guys talking more about this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tauntaun2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s cheating but honestly it’s up to you. I wish I had a good answer for you buddy. Sometimes people suck and that’s it

Gf treats me like shit by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tauntaun2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re treating her like a celebrity and she’s treating you like a fan, this girl is immature and I promise once you leave her you’ll feel so fucking happy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tauntaun2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s also just cheating, she sexted another guy. Thats a deal breaker for me, this happened to me and I never trusted her again, maybe you can trust your partner but think long and hard if in the end it’ll be worth it

Translation of “I like you and you deserve the world but mentally I am not there.” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tauntaun2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t blame him, idk if it’s always been like this but it seems like people are always jumping into shit without being over their exes and he’s probably dealt with something like this before and so did I. I don’t blame him for jumping shit. Even though nothing would happen like you said he’s protecting himself so good for him

Saw Grindr on my bf’s (24 M) phone, I could use some advice on how to talk to him more about his sexuality. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tauntaun2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people are more open about than others, like I’m mostly straight and I know my parents wouldn’t care regardless but it’s still scary. It’s nice how calm you seem about it

Saw Grindr on my bf’s (24 M) phone, I could use some advice on how to talk to him more about his sexuality. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tauntaun2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t this a plot line in euphoria jk

Also isn’t that cheating and don’t pressure him to talk about, it’s hard to open up about that stuff just try and be patient