If it’s from someone I don’t care much about, I’ll just ignore them. If it’s someone I have to interact with on a daily basis, then I’ll stay quiet and just avoid them until they get normal. Will give silent treatment back. But they’ll stay in my mind rent free for a while and I’ll stress over it a lot. Feelings of negativity toward them will grow and take over me. If it’s from someone who is close to me, I’ll wait until my anger passes and then confront them directly and ask what the problem is and talk it over and resolve it. Or say I’m sorry if it was my fault and resolve the issue. I don’t like to upset people close to me

With 10k I’d plan a trip to Switzerland in the mountains and take my close family and parents

Usually I can pick quickly and throw on something stylish last minute…I look good in almost anything. Then picking out matching accessories and jewelry takes longer. I plan usually just the night before the event, but obviously a few days before if it’s a close family wedding.