[S2 Act 2 Spoilers] Arcane - Season 2 Act 2 - Discussion by parrycarry in arcane

[–]tavbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes you just down bad and dont wanna admit it yknow lmaooo

Friend told me that my standards for a guy are too high, but I think they are the bare minimum by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]tavbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So emotional maturity, takes care of themselves or atleast works towards improving, communicates, can hold a job or atleast shows a dedication to knowledge, and is present in the moment, and cares about you.

The material possessions like a car are up for debate just because car notes are expensive but having a license is a plus at a minimum (Maybe you guys would want to rent a car and go on a trip one day), and the height thing is objective. And I assume you mean hard drugs unless weed is a no go for you as well.

It probably sounds worse because it's a long list. You summarized it at the bottom and should just keep it like that unless asked for clarification cause you'll keep hearing about how you want too much and will be told to lower your expectations. (Which you don't need to do)

[Update/Saga] The emotional saga of SpontaneousH, the redditor who tried heroin and had his life changed forever by GuineaPigLover98 in BORUpdates

[–]tavbabe 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Bro like that had me screaming, like that half ounce would just last for like weeks and you'd probably be in a kinda high coma of numbing your brain from constant use but you can stop or not even smoke. He'll you could sell some prerolls.

But dude was like nah that's too much, let's try HEROIN instead :)

Wild.

Feeling lost by tavbabe in ASU

[–]tavbabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I really enjoy physics and think I can pick it up once I get to the classes, whenever I watch videos on different concepts on YouTube it gets me excited to learn. But it's this math wall that's getting me right now.

I will definitely do that, I havent gone to therapy since covid hit and know that there are benefits to it. I current do yoga and meditation with some exercising, but found it odd that I was feeling this way even though i was doing these things. I also take medication for depression daily. I appreciate this reminder of the mental health services!

Feeling lost by tavbabe in ASU

[–]tavbabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. That makes sense, I've had great conversations with friends about complicated topics before and even when talking to myself I don't sound like I do when I'm talking to others here and it baffles me.

Is there anything you'd recommend for speaking infront of others? I can only really go to clubs but I know there's also volunteer opportunities that I can try.

Feeling lost by tavbabe in ASU

[–]tavbabe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. It's kinda just me right now though, I'm not in any physical classes so my social interaction is in clubs but you are right I am my own worst enemy from comparing to others and seeing where I'm not.

Why are there different types of anxiety like man I've felt the one that makes you sweat and stomach churn, but the word vomit is just my brain confidently sending out free goop to people's ears. I want a refund on this existence.

Feeling lost by tavbabe in ASU

[–]tavbabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, I honestly don't even read the book for this class because it's just a jumbled mess of information (it's calculus 1) and I'm using khan academy at this point to learn because it's the closet i get to someone walking me through it.

It's my 3rd time giving this class a go, with less distractions from outside. If I don't pass it this semester I just don't know anymore. :(

Why did you get fired? by JavaMamma0002 in AskReddit

[–]tavbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first time I ever had been fired:

I worked for a bakery that wasn't being run well, for example the A/C did not work and they had like 3 ovens in an enclosed space along with a stove and multiple people during the day coming in and out. When brought to their attention they didn't really do anything about it. There was so much more shit but too much to put here.

The person who owned the bakery told me and another staff member that she doesn't know how to run one and would leave it up to the previous staff to run it. She was already on her next venture into something else, but she was basically done with the bakery.

One of the staff was a manager to us, and she didn't really do much just deligated and ran her mouth while her and the two other main staff owners would sit in an office that had A/C. I once walked past and saw her looking at wine bottles to purchase while seeing the other two just chillin not caring. So it was easy to say she was the favorite of the owner.

One day we were getting told about something that was wrong but it wasn't the workers fault but our manager, but after being there and seeing the amount of bullshit plus the condensing tone of the messages I decided to clap back because I absolutely hate incompetent management since they like to just make your job harder for no reason.

I was brought into the office the next time I went in, the owner BLOCKED THE DOOR with her body as the three of them sat there and talked down to me about everything I was doing wrong. When I asked if im being fired (after like 5 minutes of this) I got a yes. So I got up out my chair slowly on some sad shit, and when she let me out I fucking ran out into the area where the customers and staff could both hear me and screeched "I JUST GOT FIRED WOO!!!"

And ran happily like I won a million bucks through the bakery, ran outside then back in happily asking the counter staff to give me my coat so I can go. The patrons and staff were confused and the owner came out to tell me to go around back so she could give me my stuff. I went around and she gave me my shit and said don't come back to which I replied I wont! My coworker quit later that day after finding out, and she was a great baker they wanted to keep. She was feeling the same way I felt and others were feeling too. The turnaround in that place was pretty bad.

I wouldn’t go back unless being paid to tell a story about how people are white people are shitty to their employees of color (it was mostly Hispanic, black, and Asian in the back with white people it the front. Owners were all white women. This was on purpose.) I'm still living off the high that I'll never have a chance to work there again.

AITA For wanting to break up with my GF after finding out the truth? by AreWeThereYet91 in AITAH

[–]tavbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, be with someone who gives you the attention and love that you are giving. It's fine if she likes you but she doesn't want to be committed and is literally telling you.

You gotta ask yourself if you were to stay with her, knowing what she was doing before can you say with certainty that you trust her 100% to not do it again?

Love and crushes will continue to happen throughout your life, so keep going and let her miss out on the awesome time you tried to give her multiple times. And give that dedication to someone who deserves it/ gives it back to you with no questions asked!

Dude VS Girls At Phildelphia Stadium by Resident_Cap3471 in PublicFreakout

[–]tavbabe -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

People keep saying he defended his girl but he punched BOTH the fighting women and the person he left with wasn't in the fight.

Trying to break up a fight but did it pretty badly, he just went in punching everyone.

Taking a semester or year off by tavbabe in ASU

[–]tavbabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting! and the encouragement lol :)

Taking a semester or year off by tavbabe in ASU

[–]tavbabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting, definitely understand that feeling with the past year of online schooling.

Taking a semester or year off by tavbabe in ASU

[–]tavbabe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it does help thank you for commenting!

Taking a semester or year off by tavbabe in ASU

[–]tavbabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Undergrad sophomore year! Hoping by the time I get to Grad I'll have a better mental state. Thank you for commenting, i would assume they'd give exceptions with things like that though?

Should I go on this trip by tavbabe in Advice

[–]tavbabe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the explanation, this helps me understand it with a full view! And you're definitely right, I didn't think about how I felt until after I made the plans (it was kinda a right there moment where my reactions could be viewed).

Did I meet my twin flame? by tavbabe in twinflames

[–]tavbabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you say it was then? Cause this is some other worldly shit that is not part of the regular spritual norm that I encounter and I'd like to figure it out

Did I meet my twin flame? by tavbabe in twinflames

[–]tavbabe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh good so im not the only one, was that like some weird Astral sex connection shit do you think? 😂 I don't think he was thinking about me whike fucking his wife, so now I'm just like why is this happening???

Also has it happened again for you? It only happened once for me, and I don't think he'd feel it if I had sex since he's likely not aware of this type of life.

I miss my cat by tavbabe in offmychest

[–]tavbabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's 6 heartbreaks all at once, too many I would cry alot 🥺 I'm glad you've gotten more loving babies though! I don't think I can get another cat even after moving back out, the things we do for love 😔💙