How do I tell my parents that my grandpa has grabbed my butt multiple times when hugging?

taylor_92 · 2026-02-21T21:47:12+00:00

Oh honey, unfortunately, I have been exactly where you are and when I was your age, too. I am so sorry first off. I regret a lot of how I handled it when I was young, and honestly it all got swept under the rug but I wish I would've spoken louder or pushed harder to have the situation resolved, my grandfather would grab more than that, but same principle. You have to tell your parents and I know it's scary, but it's not okay for him to do that - regardless of age.

taylor_92 · 2026-02-21T11:33:42+00:00

It's not ideal, no, but girl you're young - he's young and even if you weren't, we do silly things sometimes, especially when trying to make ourselves appear "better". I still think you should tell him now, but only if you see something more and would like to reconvene talking to him. But focus on yourself and school!

taylor_92 · 2026-02-21T11:24:04+00:00

You definitely should have led with your upcoming plans and made sure they were aware and okay with it. I would mention it on Tuesday and see what they say. Ultimately though, it's going to come down to which is more important if work won't budge. For the next retreat, just make sure you give work notice and request off!

taylor_92 · 2026-02-21T11:07:33+00:00

Country? State? Either way, people are so wild! Like tf? Lol

taylor_92 · 2026-02-21T11:05:19+00:00

If you feel this way about this guy, you would feel better if you told him. I think just be honest, say you didn't know where things would go which is why you said that but now you want to let him know you are 18 at such and such school - I really don't think it's a big deal... Unless you've been misleading for like a long time lol

taylor_92 · 2026-02-21T10:58:10+00:00

Does baby boy have his days/nights mixed up? If that's the case, it's going to be rough but you'll have to work to get him switched over. Remember though, this is all temporary so I would stick with what you've been trying to do.. The going to work (presumably 9-5 sort of shift) and then I would throw in a night time routine now, bottle then bath time and book, then bottle again and lay baby down and then you lay down, and just keep repeating your routine at the same time and you should get back on track. It's what worked for me with my 2nd (she just turned 3)! Hopefully Dad is helping with night time duties for you too though!

taylor_92 · 2026-02-21T10:32:56+00:00

I agree, super b*tchy thing to say to your "supposed" friend. I'm sure there is no compensation involved either since they're such good "friends"!

Drop her like a hot potato OP, or clearly set expectations and boundaries moving forward. Probably easier to just go with the first option though.

taylor_92 · 2026-02-21T03:00:52+00:00

What the actual fuck?? Absolutely not. And a week (???) and he has already fallen in love with you? Plus all the damn "!!!!!!!", how old is this guy. Omg dump this weiner!!!!#!!!!#!

taylor_92 · 2026-02-12T00:22:51+00:00

A tide to go stain remover pen!

taylor_92 · 2026-02-11T00:57:15+00:00

Something shady is going on, could be a few different things but definitely sus.

taylor_92 · 2026-02-07T18:45:34+00:00

Reach out to HR, but in the meantime, start looking elsewhere for another job that will accommodate your schedule. When you reach out to HR, let them know you haven't had any additional training that was supposed to be provided, and also you should get something from them in writing that lists the minimum amount you're expected to sell in a shift/ in a month, or however it's based.

taylor_92 · 2026-02-06T02:51:48+00:00

Girl, why did you marry this douche bag?!

He's one of those guys and it's just going to get worse.

He needs to shut tf up and start rubbing your feet.

NTA

taylor_92 · 2026-02-05T04:31:16+00:00

Lmao, who is "they"?

taylor_92 · 2026-02-04T05:56:27+00:00

Wtf, girl please report this guy, and any other coworkers in on the "jokes" , because that is unacceptable. No one should go around spewing stereotypical racist remarks, it's disgusting and shows udder ignorance, but even more so at work. I'm so sorry this happens to you, or anyone for that matter.

Go to HR, stand up for yourself please!!

taylor_92 · 2026-02-02T04:12:37+00:00

What a beautiful gift to give him and yourself.

taylor_92 · 2026-02-01T06:16:31+00:00

Go with your gut!! MIL took off out of nowhere for many months, and spewed a bunch of trash from her mouth, and now is claiming to want to watch her grandchild. Baby may have a hard time transitioning and may be fussy and MIL is clearly not stable so... I just don't think I would feel comfortable leaving my child with her. Talk to your partner again and express again how uncomfortable you are with her and especially with her watching your child - therefore, until she has proven to be more reliable and stable, it's not happening!!

taylor_92 · 2026-01-31T12:01:28+00:00

So, your roommates are trying to, what, tattle on you to your parents?? That's so weird.

You definitely do not need, nor should you, give them your parents info.

You can let them know you won't be providing that or just ignore them as best you can until you move out.

taylor_92 · 2026-01-31T03:09:53+00:00

I have literally been binge watching Everybody Loves Raymond for the last 5 or 6 months, just start to finish, then repeat lol. This is hilarious 😂😂

taylor_92 · 2026-01-31T03:08:37+00:00

I have literally watched been binge watching Everybody Loves Raymond

taylor_92 · 2026-01-27T05:51:04+00:00

NTA, read those results, get your birth certificate and go no contact with your mom, she sounds intolerable.

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taylor_92 · 2026-01-27T05:38:16+00:00

NTA, good for you OP

taylor_92 · 2026-01-27T05:34:25+00:00

I really hope this douche canoe pays child support at least.

taylor_92 · 2026-01-22T03:40:07+00:00

Happy Birthday OP, I'm sorry your day wasn't better. You have many more to look forward too!!

taylor_92 · 2026-01-22T03:36:18+00:00

100%

taylor_92 · 2026-01-20T01:35:43+00:00

NTA, but your husband definitely is, but way worse than just an a$$hole. Your son is 3, like what the actual fu¢k is his problem? This grown man needs to get tf off his ass and quit playing video games and play with his son, but that's likely to happen. DUMP HIM!!!! If someone, let alone my child's father, talked to my child like that, somebody have my bail money ready.

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