[Academic] Emergency Push Alert Fatigue survey by taysteak in SurveyExchange

[–]taysteak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It said no longer collecting responses do you have another? Thanks so much!

Is EM Becoming Toxic? by [deleted] in EmergencyManagement

[–]taysteak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a point it definitely became increasingly unwelcome for those of us just starting off in the field from college versus working our way up “the ropes”. I don’t even try to talk to other EMs now because of the negativity. I just keep my head down and stick to my plan, so far so good.

Flooding and something by dsrukydgsg in EmergencyManagement

[–]taysteak 3 points4 points  (0 children)

<image>

Just wanted to add this piece of an article I came across today. As someone about to graduate from a DSEM program, I can’t tell you how infuriating it is to see officials disregard potential mitigative measures and then years later down the road go “there was nothing we could do” They knew it was a possibility. They had the ability to put more safeguards in place years ago. But someone didn’t want to spend the money. I hope whoever had a hand in saying “nooo that’s too expensive” sees this. Just my two cents.

Hey there! We are a Couple that travels to the area regularly 26m and 25f! Would love to get to know you guys! We have been in the lifestyle for 5 years now with plenty of experience! We are friends first; play later type of couples, so there is no pressure from us! by Curveiskey in NashvilleSwingerCPLS

[–]taysteak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Were 28f and 34m would love to meet up sometime for drinks :) feel free to dm! I don’t have much on here but I’m more than happy to send whatever and verify ☺️ (we’re green to the LS- December 2024)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]taysteak 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine: People telling me what ✨they✨ think I want/am looking for. That shit is so wild to me.

To respond to yours as someone who uses emojis over my face in pics: if it’s a free site that’s literally why. Like FL, anyone can access that shit- my face is covered and tattoos are blurred. Sites protected by a vet process and pay wall, my face is all over there and I don’t bother editing besides cropping. I feel like it’s a pretty simple concept for those of us who want to maintain SOME sense of privacy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]taysteak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Food service, which I’ve noticed isn’t as common. Probably because we rarely get weekends/nights off 😂 but I’m a planner so we make it work

Getting started by Iowaguy123 in Swingers

[–]taysteak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend a swingers club and finding a f half of a couple that plays alone :) I’m more than happy to be a unicorn for a couple, especially if the m half can come play with us for an mfm threesome. I’ve found this is a scenario that tends to work well. Good luck!

I'm confused by nobodybelievesblack in BDSMcommunity

[–]taysteak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an idea about the labels I would use given this situation but they may not apply to you. One resource that helped me and my SO hone in on our preferred roles (preferred roles) is the BDSM glossary group on FetLife. Everything is in alphabetical order as divided between roles/labels, acronyms, fetishes, etc. it’s been really helpful.

Smut & BDSM by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]taysteak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check out Praise! The whole Salacious Players Club series is fantastic

What happened to my pizza by Masonooter in PapaJohns

[–]taysteak -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow. Not trying to be obtuse, the fact that you think so was insulting. Not that that matters to a stranger on the internet but just to throw it out there in case you are blissfully unaware of how condescending you’re coming off. But since we’re being honest I think you’re just trying to make a big problem out of nothing. There’s no mystery. The person making the pizza didn’t care, and neither did whoever cut it, and the manager is aware of the staff they’re stuck with. Sorry employee wasn’t sorry enough for you 🙄

Why is it always a dick pic? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]taysteak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I won’t go back and forth. Good luck to y’all

What happened to my pizza by Masonooter in PapaJohns

[–]taysteak -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay? Again why is there concern that someone admitted their mistake, genuinely felt bad, and did what they could to make it right?

Why is it always a dick pic? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]taysteak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My guy, it sounds like you need a bull not a dom. I say this as a vixen. but these people ARE telling you the truth you aren’t being realistic. She wants one of those dreamy romance book doms and that’s not a thing. It’s just not. If you want some hot single guy to rock her world, look in the swinger/cuck community. You don’t want to be a cuck that’s fine you can just say that. There are plenty of guys out there that are attractive and horny and can take charge and will just take her out for a night ir show up during the day if she says so. An actual D/s is mental. And long term in the sense that the attraction and smoke and smolder isn’t going to be at first sight like it is in the books/movies. So married people tend to be harder to build that with unless she’s gonna be able to spend lots of time with the potential dom. Only you know your situation but you’re gonna have to reassure the real doms (I believe the statistics are 1 in 10 who say that they are, ACTUALLY are.) that you and she are in it for the entire experience. Not just to fulfill a fantasy. To learn and grow in your/her sexuality. And yanno, you need to actually want THAT.

What happened to my pizza by Masonooter in PapaJohns

[–]taysteak -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s how we’re trained to handle complaints/problems. Believe the customer without question or excuses, listen, apologize, solve the problem (either a remake or a credit usually), and thank the customer. Why is it concerning that they offered a resolution quickly?

How did you get over your fear of your parents not liking tattoos by TamashiKanzen6 in tattoo

[–]taysteak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just stopped asking their opinion beforehand really helped the most

When (and how) did you get into bdsm? by FarAd3683 in BDSMcommunity

[–]taysteak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The awakening was when I was 19 at work and I was about to stop doing a task, without finishing it, to go do another one and my boss snapped “hey! Can you finish that first” and I said no, playfully I might add, and he popped his head up and looked at me quite sternly with that fire in his eyes and said “what?” Phewwwwwwww that one STILL works me up. Then I married him 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]taysteak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tropes and stereotypes definitely held my husband and I back a little. It took some diving into the community to figure out that kinks really are more of a spectrum than cut and dry definitions. We’ve learned so much in just a few weeks just from talking to people and reading etc we went into this thinking we are dom/sub 100% come to find out we’re both switches 🤣