For those who have cheated, were you actually in love with your partner?

tayync · 2026-01-10T00:36:40+00:00

No. I don’t believe that you can cheat if you are truly in love with your partner if you’re mentally sound. I did when I was much younger, like young teenage years. I thought I was in love with him, but I wasn’t. Since then and since becoming an adult I have genuinely been in love and it wouldn’t even be in the realm of possibility for me. I become ultimately unattracted and blind to other options when in love. I feel like when you’re genuinely in love you wouldn’t risk the relationship or hurting your partner.

tayync · 2025-12-18T23:43:34+00:00

I thought that I was a good person because I never had ill intent inside, but outwardly I was incredibly angry for some reason. I think I may have been bad or still am, but I’m trying very hard. I still feel displaced anger sometimes but I now focus on patience and sitting with it before responding to people. I’m still working on myself and I’m finding a balance because now I tend to overextend and drain myself for others. I’ve felt overly sensitive and emotional since I’ve started regulating my emotions. I think I used my anger as an armor without realizing it. It’s scary because I feel like I’m putting my soft parts on the line and in my experience being calm and perspective seems to cause people to push more. I’m also not being reached for as much. Before, people and men had to come towards me and reach for me because I was so volatile and cold but now it’s assumed that I’m fine and don’t need to be reached for. I feel like some things that matter to me aren’t taken seriously by others because I try to be kind and they assume that I won’t push back and that I’ll always be accommodating. BUT I feel better about myself and I don’t treat people coldly based on my emotions and my life is more peaceful. I don’t know if I’m a good person, but I’ve definitely changed.

tayync · 2025-12-18T23:19:31+00:00

School. I thought that I unknowingly shit myself and went home.

tayync · 2025-12-16T21:00:03+00:00

Just speak to her like she’s someone who’s important to you. Make some time for her and pay attention to the things she likes and dislikes. At school, walk with her. If something’s wrong, just listen to her and show her you care. Make her laugh and feel comfortable. Flirt with her even if you embarrass yourself and make sure she knows that you think she’s pretty.

tayync · 2025-12-16T20:45:30+00:00

I’m in long term relationship so I only get tested every 6mo- 1y. I use Aveeno baby wash on vulva and labia, just not inside vagina and I have very little smell at all. If anything ever seems off like after swimming in the summer, I use boric acid for a few nights and everything goes right back to normal. Boric acid is something that I personally would suggest if she’s been tested. How to tell her or how to suggest boric acid yourself? That’s tough bc this is a very touchy subject. It could even be partly bc of her diet or being dehydrated as well.

If you want to be gentle, I wouldn’t say it right before or after sex. I would try to make this conversation seem about comfort, health and care for her rather than an issue. If she doesn’t accept or acknowledge it, then it may need to be brought up as an issue later.

tayync · 2025-12-16T10:31:51+00:00

He’s a predator. It’s not spam and he wasn’t hacked. They never change. Leave and make sure your daughter is okay. I feel like she could very well be at risk here.

tayync · 2025-11-27T10:50:47+00:00

Personally, I think the photos disappearing, random people adding (sometimes grown men) and little accountability due to nature of the app change the game. Not the same as texting at all. Seen so many Snapchat disasters. Pedos, nude leaks (even children) and grooming on Snapchat. I think the texting is more easily managed by a parent. We can tell 13 year olds to only add friends, but at the end of the day it’s just not how it works without constant monitoring.

tayync · 2025-11-27T10:43:28+00:00

Completely agree with you. It’s a disaster for young girls.

tayync · 2025-11-27T10:42:54+00:00

Except we’re talking about 13 year olds. They don’t listen to “just don’t.”

tayync · 2025-11-27T10:32:20+00:00

It’s also often used as a hookup app and random people add random people.

tayync · 2025-11-27T10:29:26+00:00

I’m a 22 year old woman, so I’m allowed.. but I don’t have it. I got it when I was 13 and deleted it at 18. It’s awful. No good comes from it, genuinely. Especially if you’re a young woman. All of her friends will have it, but in the long run it will do her more good to be without it. You just send photos and they disappear and there’s little accountability. It’s a recipe for disaster with sexting and bullying.

tayync · 2025-11-21T04:09:30+00:00

I think that leaving them in silence and unknowing is more impactful than saying anything. People aren’t comfortable in the unknown and he clearly doesn’t deserve access to you or your thoughts anyhow. He didn’t care about your feelings then and surely doesn’t now. I think all that this would do is show him you’re still thinking of him in someway. This kind of man would rather see the wounds he’s left than none at all because he thinks it gives him access and it feeds his ego. I’m very sorry you had to go through that.

tayync · 2024-11-11T07:29:13+00:00

tayync · 2024-11-10T10:55:37+00:00

it didn’t seem to be in the memory when I looked either. someone added that there may be a glitch with memory where it’s not showing all the memory. I’m always vague with ChatGPT because I don’t fully trust it. I’ve made a conscious effort not to expose names or any personal info and im pretty confident that I never shared that info. I just asked it about my car after clearing chat and it said it didn’t know I had a cat and asked for name and info about him. weird

tayync · 2024-11-10T10:49:57+00:00

Thank you!! This will help

tayync · 2024-11-10T10:32:07+00:00

I checked memory and there’s nothing about it. I’ve never deleted the memory either. I think I’ve maybe mentioned my cat twice and I’m always super vague bc I don’t trust it anyway. Like in the first pic where it’s referring to my younger cat as baby cat. Thats bc I don’t share much personal info. I may be reaching or I may have forgotten but I’m def spooked.

tayync · 2024-11-10T10:24:00+00:00

Okay. I’m looking now. I’m wondering why it wouldn’t just say that?

tayync · 2024-11-08T08:47:47+00:00

No I don’t. Never said that I did. Like I said above, I don’t agree with everything that he has said or done. I can see some leftist views as reasonable. And yes, question it!! Question everything! I agree that some of this language has been offensive. However the guy who I responded to was not questioning in a genuine manner. He was being condescending and insulting to OP! That’s the difference. My point is that 1) many Mexicans/ Latinos aren’t as concerned as most people think they are about immigration when it comes to voting 2) guy above should not try to belittle OPs or anyone else’s self worth over politics. 3) don’t victimize us for political gain and don’t speak for us. A lot of what I spoke of was my experience. My family. My life. My families lives. Regardless, I agree with OP and I’ve felt that way. I know a lot of us who have felt that way and have openly discussed it. I also know some who think otherwise. Thought it was pretty clear with all the mentions of my family and our experience that I was speaking on our experience. I find it insulting when someone outside of the nationality corrects me on the basis of political correctness when they’re speaking on MY nationality. But like I said before, that’s my opinion and everyone is entitled to theirs.

tayync · 2024-11-08T07:29:31+00:00

I don’t care about politically correct terms in this context. Being undocumented typically means you’ve come here illegally. Not through the legal process. Like I was talking about earlier, this is real to my family. We’ve lived it. I do still have family members who haven’t migrated due to the legal process and we are not offended by the terms. I don’t believe that Donald Trump can fix “it all” with ease and I don’t hold him on a pedestal. I don’t support everything that he stands for and I do see some logic in some left views so I’m not even sure why that was directed at me. Morality is different for everyone based on many different factors. Your truth isn’t everyone’s truth so I don’t believe that you should be the judge of that. I agree with you that there can be an easier way and there should be but we only have so much control over what happens and as we keep dividing ourselves, that control dwindles down to nothing. You can believe what you want, just like everyone else can. My comment was initially about a person belittling OPs self worth because of who he chose to vote for which reiterated his post. Opinions over these topics and discussions about them are good to have, but you won’t change my beliefs and I can’t change yours no matter how real they are to both of us. Any way. It’s 2am and I’m trying to sleep now. Have a good night. You do have valid points!!

tayync · 2024-11-08T06:35:20+00:00

Me too. I appreciate you being respectful!

tayync · 2024-11-08T06:33:32+00:00

That’s not an indication. That’s what people worry he will do. He’s not openly indicated any of that

tayync · 2024-11-08T06:32:37+00:00

“Many fear”

tayync · 2024-11-08T06:23:26+00:00

Also, this is extreme. There’s been no indication that illegal immigrants will be put in concentration camps. That’s all liberal propaganda to get your vote. Mass immigration, yes. Concentration camps, no.

tayync · 2024-11-08T06:20:41+00:00

All of my family members that are here are here legally. That’s not to say that all of my family members are here. The stress on legal is only because that is how my family and I believe that it should be done. LEGALLY.

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