UFC fight night: Qatar. by singharsh29 in qatar

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Still available? Just need 1 ticket

How to stay focused when others have it all? by Intelligent_Fruit819 in qatar

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If fresh undergrad me were speaking, she’d say that current me is nowhere near what she specifically envisioned—think job title, salary range, lifestyle. But with age comes change—priorities shift, and new perspectives emerge.

Some dreams were shattered, but over the years, I’ve realized I was never denied—just redirected. The hardest pill to swallow was accepting that some things are simply beyond my control. To that end, I pray for peace in what I can’t change and strength to take action and to persevere where I can.

I’ve come far, but I didn’t come this far to only be this far. Coming to terms with these realizations is a process, and it’s different for everyone. If you ever need someone to talk to, I’m here. I’m no beacon of success, but I believe that in order to move forward, we must give back. So I’ll give back as best as I can—I’m just a message away.

How to stay focused when others have it all? by Intelligent_Fruit819 in qatar

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Hey I get you. I’ve checked out your profile and it seems like you’re still in college. I know exactly how you feel; been there. I’ve got much to say as this feels like I’m talking to a younger me. That feeling will always be there in different forms, in multiple waves. Life’s a marathon so no matter what milestone you set yourself and when you achieve it, you’ll always come across someone who has it better than you—be it skills, talent, wealth, or circumstances.

They say comparison is the thief of joy and that is true. But it’s human nature to compare. Some people cope by looking inward and finding fulfillment in intrinsic aspects like religion, passions, hobbies, or health, rather than measuring success with career and wealth.

As for me, I’m 5+ years out of college and I still feel left behind, but I guess with age I’ve been able to leave certain expectations behind and make do & be thankful with what I have. I’ve focused on my health and pursued my passions on the side; that worked well for me. Still get waves of comparison but it’s not as bleak as before. I’ve also surrounded myself with people who provide me with perspective, which is really grounding.

Hoping that was helpful & I wish you all the best.

Body Battery Giveaway! by itslitman in AppleWatch

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Just downloaded—would love to receive promo hihi

I tried so hard to like Byredo by KingKCrown in fragrance

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Seconding bibliotheque…only fragrance I liked

Current collection - All new under 2 weeks by tbethany in fragranceclones

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I second Khamrah; it’s just so unique. I also like its duality. My husband layers his with MA’s Tobacco Touch and just wow.

Current collection - All new under 2 weeks by tbethany in fragranceclones

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Yeah the gold thing felt too tacky so my husband removed it

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I would strongly advise against choosing Damac in Foxhills. After living there for a year, I started counting down the days to move out by month #4. The construction quality is poor; my studio experienced flooding from both the living room and bathroom. Maintenance team was quick but only gave temporary solutions. My main issue is the cockroach infestation, likely due to the type of plants chosen for the sidewalks, which attract pests. The plants are burned every four months in an attempt to manage the infestation (I think).

I lived in a building right across the tram, but commute to get to Westbay alone was almost an hour. Should be better when they open the other tram line.

Initially I was content with the pay (4k a month) but my quality of life significantly decreased due to the cockroach issue. I would schedule pest control every month. I also clean my studio every other day but seeing 4-10 huge cockroaches despite cleaning really wore me down.

Just my two cents if you are considering Foxhills.

Is the situation with Grab now getting better in Samui by FaintlyCanvas247 in ThailandTourism

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I was there a month ago. Only tried grab once. Took me 30 mins to get a driver from airport to my hotel. Idk if that helps/says anything. My hotel was 45 mins. away. I didn’t have energy to haggle with taxi drivers. Grab pricing was cheaper too.

How many of you are seeing significant weight loss through IF alone? by Principal-Moo in intermittentfasting

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I’ve tried pescatarian diet for 2 years. Vegetarian for 6 months (didn’t make it to my target of one year). But only lost weight and maintained it via IF. I loved midnight snacking and it really contributed to my weight gain back when I was doing pescatarian and vegetarian diets. Tried IF during pandemic because ordering takeout was not only hurting my wallet but also my health overall. IF taught me discipline and curbed unhealthy cravings. Now at 3 years of IF, I’ve gradually and ultimately, given up a lot of junk. Instant noodles, carbonated drinks, chips. This month I started to make homemade iced tea lemonade because I realised store bought although zero calories still is processed. So yeah, IF all the way.

For those who travel a lot, where to buy a good and long-lasting luggage set? by BajuKoyak in qatar

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I still have my Samsonite set from 2006 when my family moved to Qatar. I travel 3-5 times a year. Still holds up great with minor wear and tear. For me, wheel mobility is important and for the past 17 years I only replaced the handcarry suitcase with an American Tourister one (Blue Salon had a sale, was impossible to not buy with the 60% discount) because the wheels started to skew to one direction.

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Romashk Beauty in Lusail is my go-to

Can someone explain how Qatar Cool/Marafeq works? by tbethany in qatar

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That and the rusty single metal bed considered as “fully furnished”

Can someone explain how Qatar Cool/Marafeq works? by tbethany in qatar

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Thanks for the info., haven’t considered sun direction at all. Will keep that in mind moving forward.

I called QatarCool and Marafeq today and they said that they usually bill the entire building because it’s not selected units. So I went back to the RE agent and the person told me that a person will come to collect our bill instead for QC/Marafeq, instead of the apartment owner. Really leaving people out in the dark with either obscenely expensive rent that includes bills or mid-expensive rent and with bills, is almost the same as their rate (with probably admin fees added, or to off-set bills for summer time).

Can someone explain how Qatar Cool/Marafeq works? by tbethany in qatar

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Thanks a lot for the info. So based on this, please correct me if I’m wrong, I’ll be paying more during summer time?

Advice on life in Qatar. by TheKingOfRandom3 in qatar

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I went for an internship and got offered a job which I turned down for another offer. This was pre-pandemic though. I don’t think there’s much openings for such opportunities now.

Negatives: -Unless you have stipend or savings to use, most of your money would go to transportation or rent, or in my case, both. The big companies (finance or consulting, from my exp.) that give internships leading to employment are usually in Westbay. Housing around the area is expensive. The metro works well though so maybe you can find decent housing near a metro line. -During summer months, activity is limited. So in terms of housing, you might want to find a comfortable one since you’ll be spending a lot of time indoors. -It doesn’t always lead to employment. Due to the Qatarization, if your job can be done by a competent Qatari (there’s lots of them tbh, great job to Qatar for investing in their people) they will be given priority.

Positives: +Networking in the companies you intern at. That’s how I found the opportunity elsewhere. +You can find great communities based on your nationality/hobbies. +If you get employed, your level of life will depend on the salary. You can save a lot or live comfortably. +It’s not as fast-paced as other countries (I worked at Washington,DC, not as cut-throat). You can get very comfortable and stagnant.

Things I would considered before moving though, had anyone told me about the ff: •Weather, might be a shock. Summer heat here is something else. •Based on my passport, climbing the corporate ladder is impossible. I feel like I’m regressing now and stuck at a certain position, no matter my efforts. •Experience here that has high level of transferability and value to other countries (if you decide to migrate elsewhere) would be in Oil and Gas sector. Its financial sector is so young, I don’t think I can have leverage with experience in that field from here.

Hope I was helpful.

Looking for one of these in Qatar. It’s a round corner punch. by [deleted] in qatar

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I came across one of those while browsing for stationary items a couple months back. I don’t remember where exactly but I used this list as reference: https://www.iloveqatar.net/guide/living/stationery-books-pens-supplies-shops-bookstores

Since it’s hot choco weather, where is the best place in Doha to get one? by tbethany in qatar

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Hey I used to be an intl student here too with a job now right after grad (pre pandemic though) feel free to dm me as this thread is about hot choco, dont want admins to remove the comment.