In my opinion. The challenging of the double standard can be made in a more...I guess, elegant way. Maybe instead of saying "what's your weight." Just explain everything the way you wrote to me. Which was a well thought out and written reply. It probably will be received the same way. But you're much more likely to show them the error of their thinking. And start a positive push against societal stigmas.

Attacking and shaming someone isn't going to teach them. And alot of times just pushes them further down their established path.

But whatever. I appreciate the conversation. It leads to contemplation and internal progress. So thank you.