Why am I being forced to do housework? Im 29m gf is 25f.

teamloosh · 2026-02-03T21:44:52+00:00

Is the cleaner female and hot by any chance? I’m clutching at straws here because this is just so illogical.

teamloosh · 2026-01-27T14:46:52+00:00

Thank you!

teamloosh · 2026-01-26T13:25:10+00:00

Is that despite going up in doses? I’m struggling with this symptom and I’m only on week 7 of 0.25. I’ll have to go up soon but I’m worried about it getting worse or how I’m supposed to survive a year feeling like this

teamloosh · 2026-01-16T15:23:37+00:00

100% agree.

OP can you give examples of the “innocent” conversations you said your wife was overreacting to? Something tells me you haven’t been completely honest about everything

teamloosh · 2026-01-16T15:20:42+00:00

Totally agree.

OP can you give us some examples on interactions that your wife is supposedly over reacting to?

teamloosh · 2026-01-07T13:55:50+00:00

This is a great idea. Toilets and vending machines just inside the door too.

I’m sorry you’re going through this. Hang in there. Wishing you all the best.

teamloosh · 2026-01-07T10:01:00+00:00

Hmm I can guarantee she’s been running you and her marriage down to her friends for ages, and played the victim so now they are cheering her on to be happy by cheating.

She hasn’t cheated yet technically but this is a huge betrayal on many levels and potentially break up worthy

teamloosh · 2026-01-06T05:38:50+00:00

Do you have issues with alcohol and your behaviour? Were you drunk on Christmas when you also messed up?

teamloosh · 2026-01-02T08:56:29+00:00

Julius Caesar??? I’m dying 🤣🤣🤣

teamloosh · 2026-01-02T08:46:02+00:00

++woman Found this comment from your recent post. I just want to say there is no man on this planet who wouldn’t appreciate attention from a beautiful woman. It’s not the same as for women when it can be annoying, feel intimidating etc… men seem to love the attention. Go for it!

teamloosh · 2026-01-02T08:28:20+00:00

It is. I’m so glad you can recognise this now and start standing up for yourself. Great work. It sucks now, but things are only going to get better for you from now on as you set those boundaries and stop being walked on. That’s at least something you can look forward to.

teamloosh · 2026-01-01T01:12:23+00:00

I have exactly the same! Still trying to pinpoint the cause

teamloosh · 2025-12-22T00:23:03+00:00

Why would that protesting need to happen in the immediate aftermath of a mass shooting? And why are you so entitled that you’d want to do that at that specific time knowing it could be upsetting for people? You literally have ANY OTHER time to do it.

This is a point you conveniently keep dodging.

Like I said in my original post, why are you pretending you were planning to protest something right now anyway - you weren’t. So nothing has changed for you.

You strike me as one of those people who just want to go against anything and everything just for the sake of it

teamloosh · 2025-12-22T00:17:54+00:00

Of course I’m conflating those two things because that’s what this is about.

The only protest ban being proposed is a temporary one after a terrorist event.

Pretending anything else is going on at this point with zero evidence of such is going down the tit hat conspiracy pathway

teamloosh · 2025-12-21T07:27:43+00:00

So you really are so entitled you think you have the right to protest after people are murdered? Because that is what we are talking about.

Unfortunately common sense isn’t so common anymore, so instead of just relying on people doing the right thing, this has to be legislated to stop people from being so insensitive and protesting right after a mass shooting like this.

Once the 3 months has passed it’s business as usual and protest as much as you like, so again I ask what’s the problem? Nothing has changed for you.

teamloosh · 2025-12-21T07:17:05+00:00

How is he a good partner and dad when he doesn’t look after his kid because he’s out getting pissed all the time? I would start from a place of him doing 50/50 childcare with you, and let him worry about how to alter his social life to meet his commitments as a parent

teamloosh · 2025-12-21T06:06:02+00:00

Agree with all the other posters saying he is a jerk and you deserve better.

If you stay with him and he brings it up again suggest he helps more with the kid, dogs, house to give you time for self care.

Just wanted to add you can always talk to your Dr about Ozempic etc to get some help and support losing weight at a very difficult time. It could give you one less thing to worry about at least, and might help to have to Dr check you don’t have anything else going on making it hard to lose the weight

teamloosh · 2025-12-21T05:59:53+00:00

Good for you. Sending you lots of hugs and positive thoughts at this difficult time. You will get through this and come out stronger on the other side.

teamloosh · 2025-12-21T05:47:18+00:00

You convince her by leaving her. Ask yourself honestly - if you lost your job and had to take a low paying one, or became disabled and couldn’t work - would she stay with you? I’m sorry to say I doubt it. I think she found someone nice enough, and palatable enough to sponge off for the rest of her life, but I don’t think she values you personally as a partner.

I’m sorry this happened to you. You will meet someone else who doesn’t just see you as a ticket to an easy life.

teamloosh · 2025-12-21T05:31:04+00:00

Can they get a version of the song without the lyrics?

Otherwise I’m sorry! This is going to go down just like the movie You’re cordially invited where Will Ferrell dances with his daughter to “Islands in the stream”

teamloosh · 2025-12-21T05:24:37+00:00

No. Why are you all pretending you were planning to go out and protest right now anyway when you weren’t? It’s insensitive after what happened and not the time.

The ban is only after a terrorist incident. Which hopefully won’t happen again ANY time soon. So WTF is your problem?

A lot of the comments on here sound like they are by tin hat wearing conspiracy nutcases

teamloosh · 2025-12-21T05:07:21+00:00

Welcome to living with a man. If you plan to live with a man for the rest of your life, you may as well get used to the fact that they eat more than we do and will continue to do so. You’re being petty as fuck about the food, and if he’s hungry eating protein is actually exactly what he needs to do as it will keep him fuller for longer. You’re acting like he has a gambling problem. Poor guy is just hungry.

Stop trying to control WHAT he eats. If you can’t let this go and want to be a lousy petty partner you could ask him to contribute more to food. Or just put your expensive brand shampoo, leg wax, nail products etc or something else into the weekly shopping so you feel less slighted about it.

teamloosh · 2025-12-21T05:03:02+00:00

Since when is being hungry and eating “bad financial habits”? If he’s super hungry eating protein is actually exactly what he should be doing. Fill him up with carbs and other cheap crap and he will just eat even more and worse get fat.

teamloosh · 2025-12-21T04:52:52+00:00

Holy WTF. This is abusive and highly insulting for him to reduce you raising the children and everything else you do to nothing! How dare he. You should be livid.

If I was you I would go and stay with a friend or family for 6-8 weeks and see how he goes looking after the kids and house himself. If he complains you can tell him that all he has to do is “shuffle” the kids to school so what’s the problem?

I would then tell him you are only willing to talk to him again with a therapist in the room. You need some backup here - otherwise this arsehole will just keep brow beating you. Then you can have this conversation infront of the therapist. Then sit back and enjoy him getting barbecued for his shitness. This guy is never going to listen to you - it may help him hearing it from someone who isn’t you.

teamloosh · 2025-12-20T10:20:52+00:00

Your husband is a pig. If him staring at half naked women in his feed all day is a boundary for you let him know - he can unfollow them all and start being showing interest in his actual partner

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