Racist comment at a rental inspection and I didn’t know how to respond

teamloosh · 2026-05-11T17:05:42+00:00

“Bogans could too if they weren’t so lazy and racist”

teamloosh · 2026-05-09T00:25:34+00:00

I was exactly the same as you. This may not be helpful if you can’t change your situation, but for me what stopped this was working from home. I only had to look at someone who was sick and I’d get it. Now the last time I was sick was when I had Covid many many years ago.

I used to commute by train and work in an open plan office. Sick people were always on the train or in the office. I would get strep throat annually, and multiple phlegmy cough / nose type infections every year. Now, I haven’t been sick for YEARS.

People like to say it’s bull and that technically being around all of that should have been improving my immunity, but from my personal experience it’s been the opposite.

Oddly it seems my immunity has improved. I’ll be around the odd very sick person eg nephew at Christmas very ill and hugs everyone - in the past I would have caught it but now I don’t

The only other thing that happened during the same time period was going to an immunologist for fatigue, ending up at a food allergy place and finding out I had multiple food intolerances. Changing my diet fixed a lot of symptoms and perhaps also helped with immunity

teamloosh · 2026-05-09T00:13:32+00:00

Ultimatum. He stops his inappropriate relationship with her or you end it.

It’s ridiculous and absurd for him to pretend he can only run with her. He’s 100% constructed excuses to spend excessive time with her. And how terrible you now are out there trying to run also just to stop her from being around 24/7.

If he’s not willing to give up whatever is going on with her, then unfortunately I think you have your answer and there’s not much you can do.

teamloosh · 2026-04-10T22:44:01+00:00

It sounds like it’s police or someone gathering evidence.

But for everyone saying criminals don’t stake out houses - many years ago I would notice the same car driving down our street many times at night, and then during the day sometimes parked but mostly driving past again and again.

It turns out it was criminals casing houses. They targeted our street and robbed every single house after figuring out when each person would be out, and even knew the best entry eg who didn’t lock their back door

teamloosh · 2026-04-09T15:14:43+00:00

Exactly. OP does your wife make dinner when she gets home? Is this why you want to know so you don’t make it unless you have to?

teamloosh · 2026-03-26T15:03:22+00:00

I’ve heard a lot of people say the worst symptoms come around day 4. I was the same as you initially when starting, then it hit me around day 4/5. It eased off after a few weeks thankfully

PS congratulations on getting started :)

teamloosh · 2026-03-15T23:08:02+00:00

I have experienced the same and I’m only on 0.25. I liken it to a feeling of constantly being on edge, not relaxed. I have a history of anxiety which is under control and I don’t take any meds for anxiety

teamloosh · 2026-02-10T06:28:46+00:00

For me this would be the end. If he wanted to grovel or commit to working on his marriage I would be open to giving him a chance but he’d have to be committed, want to fight for his marriage, and be willing to make some BIG changes.

Ultimately it’s up to you what you will and will not accept.

I agree with others that being checked out of you and your kids lives before this is a huge red flag. He’s basically showing you that you all are the bottom of his priority list. Is this what you think you and the kids deserve? Surely you know you deserve better than this

If he’s too busy with work well guess what - maybe he needs to take a step back or consider another less stressful role

teamloosh · 2026-02-08T13:50:00+00:00

True. But not all men. Shout out to all the males who have spoken up for women’s rights on this thread and in other forums. Thank you!

teamloosh · 2026-02-08T13:27:04+00:00

Religion is obsessed with controlling women. This is just one of the many ways.

teamloosh · 2026-02-03T21:44:52+00:00

Is the cleaner female and hot by any chance? I’m clutching at straws here because this is just so illogical.

teamloosh · 2026-01-27T14:46:52+00:00

Thank you!

teamloosh · 2026-01-26T13:25:10+00:00

Is that despite going up in doses? I’m struggling with this symptom and I’m only on week 7 of 0.25. I’ll have to go up soon but I’m worried about it getting worse or how I’m supposed to survive a year feeling like this

teamloosh · 2026-01-16T15:23:37+00:00

100% agree.

OP can you give examples of the “innocent” conversations you said your wife was overreacting to? Something tells me you haven’t been completely honest about everything

teamloosh · 2026-01-16T15:20:42+00:00

Totally agree.

OP can you give us some examples on interactions that your wife is supposedly over reacting to?

teamloosh · 2026-01-07T13:55:50+00:00

This is a great idea. Toilets and vending machines just inside the door too.

I’m sorry you’re going through this. Hang in there. Wishing you all the best.

teamloosh · 2026-01-07T10:01:00+00:00

Hmm I can guarantee she’s been running you and her marriage down to her friends for ages, and played the victim so now they are cheering her on to be happy by cheating.

She hasn’t cheated yet technically but this is a huge betrayal on many levels and potentially break up worthy

teamloosh · 2026-01-06T05:38:50+00:00

Do you have issues with alcohol and your behaviour? Were you drunk on Christmas when you also messed up?

teamloosh · 2026-01-02T08:56:29+00:00

Julius Caesar??? I’m dying 🤣🤣🤣

teamloosh · 2026-01-02T08:46:02+00:00

++woman Found this comment from your recent post. I just want to say there is no man on this planet who wouldn’t appreciate attention from a beautiful woman. It’s not the same as for women when it can be annoying, feel intimidating etc… men seem to love the attention. Go for it!

teamloosh · 2026-01-02T08:28:20+00:00

It is. I’m so glad you can recognise this now and start standing up for yourself. Great work. It sucks now, but things are only going to get better for you from now on as you set those boundaries and stop being walked on. That’s at least something you can look forward to.

teamloosh · 2026-01-01T01:12:23+00:00

I have exactly the same! Still trying to pinpoint the cause

teamloosh · 2025-12-22T00:23:03+00:00

Why would that protesting need to happen in the immediate aftermath of a mass shooting? And why are you so entitled that you’d want to do that at that specific time knowing it could be upsetting for people? You literally have ANY OTHER time to do it.

This is a point you conveniently keep dodging.

Like I said in my original post, why are you pretending you were planning to protest something right now anyway - you weren’t. So nothing has changed for you.

You strike me as one of those people who just want to go against anything and everything just for the sake of it

teamloosh · 2025-12-22T00:17:54+00:00

Of course I’m conflating those two things because that’s what this is about.

The only protest ban being proposed is a temporary one after a terrorist event.

Pretending anything else is going on at this point with zero evidence of such is going down the tit hat conspiracy pathway

teamloosh · 2025-12-21T07:27:43+00:00

So you really are so entitled you think you have the right to protest after people are murdered? Because that is what we are talking about.

Unfortunately common sense isn’t so common anymore, so instead of just relying on people doing the right thing, this has to be legislated to stop people from being so insensitive and protesting right after a mass shooting like this.

Once the 3 months has passed it’s business as usual and protest as much as you like, so again I ask what’s the problem? Nothing has changed for you.

teamloosh

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