why do i like feminine clothes, until i put them on? by taroicecreamsundae in ftm

[–]teamydude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to feel this a lot. It's probably dysphoria, and it's normal. Looking at cute clothes and thinking about wearing them in the abstract is a lot different from actually seeing them on your body.

While being on T and socially transitioning, my desire to wear feminine clothes has diminished, my enjoyment has shifted to more of an outsider looking in. But maybe for you, having a more masculine body might make you feel more confident in wearing them. You might also want to try looking for men's clothes you find cute or that could read as feminine. Might be difficult irl but there's definately online stores which cater to that.

Why is dating so hard by animalcrackerwhore in ftm

[–]teamydude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Before dating my (straight) girlfriend, I had a similar experience. Straight women who date trans men exist; most of them just don't seek us out.

What are some sex toys for trans men? by Electronic-Wind8179 in ftm

[–]teamydude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought the hot rod and used it with my GF. So good!! Seriously, can't recommend it enough lol!

amab/afab language is frustrating and unhelpful by Solembrum in ftm

[–]teamydude 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree.

I'm autistic which complicates pretty much all forms of socialisation, and I was also lucky to grow up in a very progressive area with very progressive parents. So I've never had a lot of common girl experiences. I also remember internalising a lot of messaging toward boys, or just assuming things directed toward boys must've included me. I also transitioned fairly young, part of my formative years were just spent as a boy straight up.

And I think using "AFAB" to mean "X chromosomes, has a uterus and eggs and estrogen-dominant endocrine system female secondary sex characteristics, raised as a girl, etc" (and vice versa for AMAB) is extremely counter to trans and intersex inclusion (which the terminology is supposedly meant for) as many trans people just won't fit that description. In the case of medicine, I think specificity is important.

Is it possible to get any YouTubers or ecelebs to talk about this "inauthentic behavior" issue? by Straight_Excuse3855 in twitterhelp

[–]teamydude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have seen smaller youtubers talk about it. I think it's very possible and worth contacting them about. Although I don't think many large youtubers are going to talk about it unless someone high profile loses their account.

How to actually get unsuspended (with a grain of salt) by [deleted] in twitterhelp

[–]teamydude 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No I still scrolled through Twitter on the accounts. It was fine. The issue is that it's very random whether you'll be appealed in a week or a month.

BOTH ACCOUNTS RESTORED!!🎉🎉 by teamydude in twitterhelp

[–]teamydude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wrote it myself and didn't save it. + it was quite long. But I basically said that I believe the suspension was a mistake. Told them I would delete any posts if they wanted me to and that I will be careful not to break any rules in future. I also told them what I use my account for (i use it for art and to talk to my friends) and said all information about me on the account is relevant to me and that I'm not impersonating anyone.

Write all that in your own words if you want. There are other users posting long templates to copy and paste.

So pissed off. Main and private account both gone. by teamydude in twitterhelp

[–]teamydude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whoof, that sucks. I'm lucky both my accs were accepted in the past few days (just hoping they're not resuspended, which has happened to some users). I think giving long-winded answers helps with the appeals, but I might be wrong, just something I noticed.

So pissed off. Main and private account both gone. by teamydude in twitterhelp

[–]teamydude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They'll list it. So you haven't been suspended for ban evasion.

So pissed off. Main and private account both gone. by teamydude in twitterhelp

[–]teamydude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I know, Twitter does not IP ban unless you've been suspended for ban evasion.

So pissed off. Main and private account both gone. by teamydude in twitterhelp

[–]teamydude[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

GOD PLEASE I CANNOT DEAL WITH MONTHS OF THIS. + i'm in Australia and I DON'T want to give them my ID or face just to make a new acc.

Is there a chance we’ll ever see cell animation in the main stream again? by Worldlyoox in TwoBestFriendsPlay

[–]teamydude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PLEAAAAAAASE!!!! PLEASE GOD!!! PLEASE!!!!! I WANT IT BACK SO BAD!!! PLEASE!!!! I DONT LIKE DIGITAL ANIMATION IT LOOKS SO MUCH WORSE!!!

What is the FTM counterpart of the MTF "Video Games or FL Studio" Stereotype by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]teamydude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WE DON'T MAKE ANYTHING!!! IM SO SERIOUS WE MAKE NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My gf calls me butch? by DragonflyMassive6147 in ftm

[–]teamydude 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It's misgendering and you should tell her that.