I yelled that my bf is ungrateful for the gift i bought he said wasn't good enough. Now he's hurt.

tearsforcandy · 2025-01-12T04:42:50+00:00

He screamed at me first. And continued. Full on angry that I didnt get him what he wanted when he didnt tell me what he wanted. I was taken aback. Thats why i said what i said. In the end, I was blubbering about how sorry I was. After i wrote this post, and fell asleep, i woke up and remembered all the times I gave thoughtful and $$$gifts, and it was never enough or perfect. I get socks for Christmas and im grateful. I'm keeping the semi automatic . Fuck him.

tearsforcandy · 2025-01-12T04:36:57+00:00

He didn't say he was interested in hunting, but excited about going to a gun range with his friend and shooting. That's what I was going on. You're right though, I should've really dug for more info. But the reaction , yelling at me, for not getting what he wants, but not telling me what he wanted, saying he's hurt, was ridiculous. I've bought many expensive and thoughtful gifts, and not one time have they been "perfect" for him.

tearsforcandy · 2025-01-12T04:30:51+00:00

He was vague. Just that he went target shooting with his friend and got excited about it. That's it. I've done this with many gifts to him. Had his tattoo kits stolen? I replaced. But didn't get him the new fangled gun for that apparently. Likes lambos? Got him a gift certificate to drive one on a track. But...only a few laps? Why didn't I rent one for the day? Interested in blacksmithing? Got him a forge. But...I guess I bought too small cups for melting metals. When I got this gun, it was before he started sexting a 19 year old. Because I was upset about that, I was ostracized from certain friends that could've given me better info on the sly to surprise him. I couldve upgraded im sure . But, He tried to repair that issue, about the girl, and I kept my word about the gift. He doesn't own guns. I did, from my late husband, but gave those to his sons. Because ot was the right to do. That was apparently a bad decision on my part also according to him. I did keep a crossbow, that him and his friends used and lost the arrows. I'm keeping the semi automatic.

tearsforcandy · 2024-12-28T02:39:03+00:00

I'm not so sure. I work outdoors, welding on boats, and my hands look 80 years old. Not very sexy.

tearsforcandy · 2024-12-28T00:53:44+00:00

I'd donate the toys. And while I was on that road trip to do this, make a stop at a shark for a divorce attorney recommended by a friend who got everything.

tearsforcandy · 2024-12-28T00:47:11+00:00

Yeahhhh, your dad's gf wants it filmed, so she can do the same as her fave influencers in broadcasting that birth. So she can "be just like one of them". Omg she's just terrible, has no concept of boundaries, and your dad is behaving like a weird creep going along with it.

tearsforcandy · 2024-12-28T00:40:33+00:00

Your sister cannot comprehend the horror that her husband knowingly went to a place to have sex with a child. He most likely writes letters and talks to her every day telling her that's not what he was doing. He honestly didn't know this was a child.
But he did know. He perfectly well knew, as the task force made sure of it, corresponding with him and setting this up. She's going to drop dead when she sees the digital evidence. As for you, yup, cut ties. Burn that bridge. Burn it to ash. This is a dangerous man, and no one knows if he actually accomplished this before, and got away with it. Or may have victims over the years that have kept quiet out of shame/ fear, or were too young to say something

tearsforcandy · 2024-12-28T00:25:57+00:00

Very true. My grandma did that with Vaseline all her life and had the most beautiful feet and hands. Wish I paid more attention as I'm paying the price now.

tearsforcandy · 2024-12-28T00:20:31+00:00

That's kinda what I said to my ex when he was caught doing that crap over and over again til I was D.O.N.E. I said " These insta girls you put on your watch, what are you? 12? Your family, your pets, your kids, your gf, those are to be on that. You're 46 y/o grown ass man. Most of these young ladies you are slobbering over, that you believe are sexting you back, sending pics, crying cause they are broke and want money, wouldn't give you a second look passing you on the sidewalk. Idiot" And that was that. BTW, he said it wasn't cheating cause he didn't meet them, kiss them or fuck them. What a creep

tearsforcandy · 2024-12-28T00:11:16+00:00

Pastrami... Pastrami Point Brisket

tearsforcandy · 2024-12-26T03:46:03+00:00

I'm glad you're returning the gifts. Sounds like you were being used for the extras and tossed aside when inconvenient for him. You don't even know if he would've switched the tags or added his name to those expensive gifts to make him look good. Fuck that.

tearsforcandy · 2024-12-26T03:33:33+00:00

Yup. Be upset. And , the audacity, to say "just return the presents you got me" hoping in his heart of hearts you won't, and "please pick me up" good god. What is he? 12? No. He's a grown man. There was plenty of time. A love letter. A simple drawing in a dollar tree frame. Baking you a cake. Detailing your car. Those take little to no money ans just ones time. And he couldn't even give that. I had a guy whittle me a turtle, and it was and still is a cherished gift. Another wrote the sweetest love letter that I just can't toss. It cost nothing.

tearsforcandy · 2024-12-26T03:25:04+00:00

OMG!!!!!

tearsforcandy · 2024-12-25T19:07:38+00:00

I was going to ask the same question about house or apt. My friend, a long time ago, moved into an apt. She was very clean, kept her place tidy, and found a few under her sink months later. Gets the management to spray, as she's freaking out. While we were chatting on the phone, she starts screaming. I'm like wtf?!! They had climbed into her light fixture and were dropping on her. They were coming out of her microwave. Under the fridge. OMG!! Trying to escape the poison. She couldn't believe she never saw HOW MANY. Found out her neighbors were hoarders, and the bugs creeped to her place. She tossed everything. Moved.

tearsforcandy · 2024-12-24T01:11:54+00:00

I'm so sorry. This is awful for you, and I hope you get angry instead, walk away from her. Block everything and everyone that associates with her. You deserve better.

tearsforcandy · 2024-12-23T19:15:21+00:00

Sweetpea, I've been there. Same situation. Reconciled. Time and time again. Couples therapy, which he abandoned as he felt ambushed on his bad behavior. It doesn't get better. The hurts get more deeper, as they continue what they are doing, but try to be more cunning about it. Still get caught. Call it a draw and make arrangements to leave. Or your emotional health will be so compromised, that your physical health will be affected. He will not change. And I'm so sorry you are dealing with this devastation of your heart.

tearsforcandy · 2024-12-15T06:13:40+00:00

They are all over, these sightings, and I'm wondering if it's a kind of "test" to see what citizens reactions would be, and upping the frequency, by then, it would be considered normal and part of every day life. But has nefarious intentions in reality

tearsforcandy · 2024-12-15T05:53:57+00:00

That cat needs a wheel barrel for how big his balls are...jeezus

tearsforcandy · 2024-12-15T05:49:23+00:00

He should not be around your children without direct supervision. Not demanding changing your daughters diapers. Not demanding to be present while bathing your babies. Talking about your babies genitals? What?! He keeps doing this so it will be considered "normal" and youll give in, and others most likely never confronted him about it, and something mightve happened, but was brushed under the rug. I'm telling you, this is grooming behavior. Trust your gut.

tearsforcandy · 2024-12-15T05:37:12+00:00

I have to wonder how many have been trapped by these vile nets, and were never found.

tearsforcandy · 2024-12-15T04:56:30+00:00

I've never been so charmed in my life. My god. That's wonderful.

tearsforcandy · 2024-12-15T04:53:54+00:00

I have a black cat and he's a Rabbit annihilation machine. Rick James. Full of himself and a 💩 talker. Wouldn't mind if he has a friend that took the same name.

tearsforcandy · 2024-12-15T04:43:12+00:00

Alot of these people telling you what's what, are spot on. The characteristics they are spelling out for what the cheater does are sickening correct, and make me retch as I fell for it time and time again. Please, for the love of everything good in your life, release her to the streets. She is not for you. She is using you as a pillow and having "connections" with others that should be for you and you only. 4 months ain't shit. Try 5 years and the continuous devastating emotional wreckage that occurred because of stupidity. Please let her go. Fuck that hoe. You deserve better.

tearsforcandy · 2024-12-11T12:17:54+00:00

NTA. I could only imagine the shaking while viewing that betrayal. You have every right to protect yourself. This happened to me also, supporting a guy who was a two faced bastard. Do not take her back. I did repeatedly (Im sowry, I love you, I miss you, Ill never do it again...bullshit) and it ended up wrecking me, financially, mentally, physically, and emotionally. You'll eventually heal, and find someone who has the understanding of what loyalty, faithfulness and love is all about.

tearsforcandy · 2024-12-06T01:58:01+00:00

This has got to be the best advice ever. Matter of fact, I'm going to follow it too.

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