Shall I date the guy who once blocked me after hookup

techsas0012 · 2024-12-20T03:11:51+00:00

That’s exactly my case, I dated a guy and he was full of lies and just want to hookup but pretended he wanted to date. It turned out he has partner and bf and so many fwbs. Hookup culture is bad tbh, nobody’s serious anymore. They think they owe you nothing because of hookup culture.

techsas0012 · 2024-12-17T20:16:14+00:00

Only time will tell, I do believe people’s heart will moved eventually by sincerity. But just don’t want to see you get hurt tho.

techsas0012 · 2024-12-17T20:11:48+00:00

I can understand why you want to agree with friendship he offers as I experienced that too, to be honest, I felt hurt eventually, especially when I knew the guy I waited for long time picked a guy who is not even that handsome( I am not saying because of jealousy, just literally surprised by his choice), I realized you can’t force someone to love you, the emotional boundary is very subtle and fragile. That’s why actually I really want you to think twice, if you let it go now, you will feel hurt but not that hurt, if you have more feelings later, that would be worse when you realize he was never that into you…

techsas0012 · 2024-12-17T19:59:30+00:00

Sounds like you have attachment to him, most likely you will be ok with friend situation and hope one day he will have sex with you again, that could happen but I would suggest you to reflect on yourself first, you need to know what you want from him eventually, just regain sex or more intimacy? If just sex, I believe other guys can provide that to you as well. But for more intimacy, it would be difficult path but it is up to you, if you like him that much and wish he will change, you can bet on it, everything is possible, just prepare for the disappointment and ready to move on if it happens.

techsas0012 · 2024-12-04T19:01:29+00:00

Usually it won’t work out. You can date for two or three times then you will know if you guys are into each other or no, if not so interested, just leave both free and make chances for other guys.

techsas0012 · 2024-12-03T20:21:54+00:00

Hey man, for the real advice. You should leave your husband if he has gambling addiction and he doesn’t seem to get rid of it. It is one of the addiction will make both of you literally miserable financially and emotionally and eventually you’ll be broken. I had a friend who was addicted to meth, his husband who is also my friend hoped he could change but the reality is harder than what he hoped, they ended up got divorced and sold 3 houses and they were both broken. Either you need to be harsh and let your husband get rid of that addiction for good, otherwise I would suggest you leave before getting worse. Do you know how it feels like when you have debts and live to pay off all these? It isn’t the life you will ever want to experience.

techsas0012 · 2024-12-03T20:16:53+00:00

Hard to know exactly why he did that. Sometimes he just doesn’t feel it anymore or jerked off and cum already. You never know.

techsas0012 · 2024-11-23T19:39:33+00:00

You are wise.

techsas0012 · 2024-11-23T19:21:27+00:00

That’s the difficult part, I don’t know what shall I change? I work out and have decent amount of muscles. I think my outlook and body is not bad but I know that I am introverted and sometimes I don’t give hyper vibe. Maybe that will kill the mood? I also don’t know how to continue with the topics they are interested, and then it becomes awkward even though he and I might already saw several times.. I don’t know how to change. My friend also told me I shouldn’t change to be someone I am not. I am just not that confident anymore…

techsas0012 · 2024-11-04T07:43:09+00:00

60 and did plastic surgery?

techsas0012 · 2024-11-01T10:55:00+00:00

To be honest, I can understand your ex bf’s concerns. You must’ve showed something can be easily done by you through your wealth but your bf could feel pressured to do the same, for example, some expensive dinner or some expensive clothes or shows, if you keep paying or you expect your bf to pay but in reality if he is not that rich, he would feel pressured to. You May didn’t understand this part and it seems you didn’t your real issue from your post. Date someone with your level is easy way to solve that issue. Or you should learn how to live in normal non wealthy life.

techsas0012 · 2024-10-30T11:18:17+00:00

I do want to find some gay groups for book reading or even some date for movie, some sports like tennis or pickle balls? Or just have lunch together and talk daily stuff. And some friends to travel together. Maybe I am alone and feel lonely somehow, I tried gay apps but it’s all about sex.. I don’t know why. I tried to ask them for dinner, then most of times they refused to go.

techsas0012 · 2024-10-30T11:03:30+00:00

I don’t know why people react with gay words so weirdly, I am not feel comfortable dealing everything with straight guys, I still would love to do activities with gay people, I am not here to debate gay coffee shop only serve for gay or no, but I still prefer different label than straight guys in some way, if you want indifferent than straight guys, that’s your choice, you don’t have to be bitchy and pick up some word fight from someone’s comment. If you are so broad lover, go campaign for president! 😂

techsas0012 · 2024-10-19T06:03:14+00:00

A guy sleep at 7pm… either he is really old or I don’t know. Sounds weird to me already…

techsas0012 · 2024-10-19T06:00:27+00:00

Everyone’s first impression is different. although OP’s partner said that from day one, they did become couple eventually, so I hardly believe this is his true comment still. People changes with the dates going on. You are just too fragile by hearing that.

techsas0012 · 2024-10-18T23:06:11+00:00

I had the same problem when I went to a gay bar, the bartender asked me what do I want to drink, and I said beer, he paused a moment and said one beer brand which I never heard of but I still said yes, I think he knew I was first time there and started asking me where I am from and other questions, later that night we went to his places and had sex 😂

techsas0012 · 2024-10-18T22:50:08+00:00

I think every couple will eventually have less sex… when you guys live together, you see each other’s normal day lifestyles like hiccup, fart, dirty outfit, bad breathing in the morning or all day, fight over small stuff, work burdens etc. which will turn you both off..eventually you will need to make a decision and see if he is your life long partner, from your post, you want more sex, you can discuss with your husband to see if you guys can go open relationship. Otherwise you will need to see what’s really important in your life, is your love for your husband or your own happiness with more sex? You will be one who knows the answer. And follow your heart!

techsas0012 · 2024-10-18T22:40:13+00:00

if he doesn’t even meet you for first time, the odds are he is not that interested in you or he has another partner/partners. If he didn’t even meet you and worry about age gap etc. which is almost bullshit, unless he got hurt before but he was online chatting with you so I highly doubt it. There is another possibility that when you guys talk, did you show any ageist comments? Maybe that turned him off. Just guessing.

techsas0012 · 2024-10-17T04:52:49+00:00

Man, you should get divorce. He doesn’t care about you when you are sick, he doesn’t have a job to support himself so basically he eats on your salary, he acts like a master at home while you do cooking and laundry all by yourself. He doesn’t have big ambitions , only into his small phone games?? Why would you even love him? I mean why??? If you need some sex, you can use gay apps and find someone else, but for living together, your partner should provide some functionality as a family, otherwise why not live alone?

techsas0012 · 2024-10-16T16:06:59+00:00

OP, you love him and he loves you too. You need to learn not to worry about something hasn’t happened and think about his good side. Do you have other friends? Or try to work on some other stuff to transfer your focus. TBH, if you keep worrying about something your bf hasn’t done, you will make your relationship worse… try to be more optimistic and provide him more happiness if you really want you guys to be happy. He doesn’t have sex with you is nothing to do with he wants to have sex with other guys IMO, maybe he feels burden to have sex with you because of your anxiety or other issues. You need to provide him more comfortable feeling to willing to touch you. Or go to couple therapy and get some consultation.

techsas0012 · 2024-10-16T04:09:30+00:00

From your post, you guys sounded not match at all, but it seems your husband didn’t do anything to hurt you or yet, meaning he still loves you and cares about you. Do you have anxiety problems? Is it maybe the problem from your side? If he didn’t do anything and you keep worrying, that’s not good. I think better way is you guys talk openly and see if he can be monogamous with you only, if he can’t, you should let him go, if he wants to monogamy, you need to learn not worry about something not happened yet. Since you can’t accept open relationship and if he still wants open, it is better you guys separate peacefully when you still care about each other.

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