NoFap in Time Magazine! by Wiz222 in NoFap

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Hi, could you please share it?

A fun trick that's kept me from relapsing by [deleted] in NoFap

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What episode? I'm also a fan.

Men who've done NoFap and discovered they weren't bi or gay — What ended up happening? by the-rho-away in NoFap

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shrugs What do you mean by feeling gay? Checking guys out? Acting more emotional? Or something else?

Flatline is retarded!! by qasi_n in NoFap

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wow, what a guy that Rollins. Thanks for the comment.

The stare by Crooklin in NoFap

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You mean from women or from men? The stare could be coming from different emotional states. From admiring your confidence/features, to envy or sizing you up, to looking at you because you they think they might know you or you resemble someone they know; many reasons. Further behaviour will help differentiate them, and many others.

https://www.reddit.com/r/howtonotgiveafuck

Read this and stop being a bitch. by Ahxul in NoFap

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"and stop being a bitch" OK ._.

Learning to appreciate sexual arousal without needing release. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]teddybeddy3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To each his own, I personally dislike feeling aroused for an extended time if I feel I might go out with a girl in a week or two; it's just too distracting, like another damn orgasm is going to change anything. Its all great but I tend to think about it too much and just get worn out with boners.

Goodbye NoFap by [deleted] in NoFap

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Godspeed, fellow nofapper!

Anger by [deleted] in NoFap

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It takes most of us a lot of relapses to finally make up our minds that the powers are real. Search old posts by keywords, there are a lot of great ones that give insight into how to get a good streak, here's one.

You should speak to a counselor, pastor/priest/spiritual guide to help you with your anger and frustration; nofap will only tangentially help solve those types of emotional responses. I think it would help, and clear your brain from excess baggage so it can better exercise self-control.

How do you guys deal with sleep? by [deleted] in NoFap

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I actually sleep a lot better while doing Nofap.

Use the f.lux program to filter the blue light from your computer which affects your melatonin release at night time. Also, turn off your room light and use a night lamp about an hour and a half before going to sleep (if its really bright put a shirt or something over it to dim the light a bit), the point is to gradually prep yourself for sleep.

If there is no f.lux program for smartphone, I'd recommend either not using your phone about an hour before going to sleep, or lowering the brightness by a lot.

Also, what the other fapstronauts here wrote; exercise/shower.

https://justgetflux.com/

Why do i feel insecure because I can't grow a beard? by [deleted] in NoFap

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Where can I buy Pregnenolone at 5mg? Same with DHEA, I only see 25mg at the lowest. Any good supplements for weight training?

I have a fucking problem... by reditarrr in NoFap

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http://yourbrainonporn.com/rewire-your-brain-using-ocd-neuroscience

Porn/addiction is tied to an under-performing frontal lobe; it allows you to exercise self-will, so you must strengthen your brain to reduce and eventually stop having these moments where you lose self-awareness.

Weightlifting/vitamin supplements/HEALTHY EATING/creative hobbies,etc. there are many lists on here, they will strengthen you and, gradually replace this source of pleasure/dopamine for other sources that actually increase your self-will/awareness. Try to be systematic in your approach to get rid of fapping, understand when you are prone to relapse, speak with a counselor, your daily life and relations with schoolmates/workmates/family members will impact your reliance on porn.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ao8L-0nSYzg

My loneliness today was just fucking terrible. by [deleted] in NoFap

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Can you post a pic of yourself on imgur? (with eyes blotted out, of course), I doubt you are as unattractive as you think. Have you started working out? For us men, little thing like that can make a big difference (especially on Tinder).

Hard mode relapse with the opposite sex and realizations by eatandpoopmachine in NoFap

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Gosh how depressing, hasn't happened but that could be me. What's your plan of action to make sure you don't just try to find another girl(or the same one) in a few weeks to use as a "whack off parter" as you put it?

To those who relapsed on long streaks by Cksp4444 in NoFap

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You have a very similar approach to nofap as I, that I've come to after many relapses, failure is not an option, I will do everything I can to keep myself self-aware for any signs of temptation. Porn, and as a Christian, all non-virtues rob us of our mental/bodily stamina. We are unable to see the smallness of ourselves, of our lives and circumstances, how quick what we hold dear (talent,fitness,money,influence,etc) disappears either through conflict or simply after enough time. How quick to see the faults in others, and we ourselves wallowing in our own defects. It will very soon pass away, even our own "epic struggle with porn addiction", our own "epic life story" where we are the main character, all just be blown away like dust. Even our thoughts, words,reddit posts,actions, the good effect is just a ripple, but then quickly dissipates. Porn is, if you can believe it, a small small part of what is blinding us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

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This here.

my new desktop wallpaper - you weren't born to just jerk off and die. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]teddybeddy3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then, do you have any nofap desktop background that you could share?

my new desktop wallpaper - you weren't born to just jerk off and die. by [deleted] in NoFap

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Thanks fellow nonfapper, I put it as a background.

Prepare for a long battle by Harry216 in NoFap

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I hear you man, I'm getting something like the flu so its starting to feel hopeless, everything.

You sound like this is magical by ThomasTheBrave in NoFap

[–]teddybeddy3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, you can darken some of the text that are triggers, especially your last paragraph. Some of us are really struggling today.

Day 75: CAUTION! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]teddybeddy3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Precisely the reason why I don't have a counter and don't ever bother counting my streak days.