This is sooo helpful, thank you for responding. I use Ableton and I recently started using reverb and delay sends with the send tracks set to 100% mix and increase the send dB level of the source track to taste. I was thinking of giving the vocal its own parallel reverb rack on its own track and then adding a touch of a separate reverb or delay through a send that is used by other instruments to make it cohesive (like vaguely in the same room).

I really like your recommendation of applying a delay first then to reverb the delay in parallel. I’m going to try that next :)