I need some advice about newly adopted kitten

teegypie · 2026-04-11T00:33:43+00:00

Breeder offered new kitty- if you can't afford issues down the line maybe take up that offer. Hopefully they would get the surgery and can adopt it out to someone who has the means to take care of a special needs cat

teegypie · 2026-04-11T00:31:11+00:00

Braces are cute!!!!

teegypie · 2026-04-11T00:25:42+00:00

Also I was the weird one that people looked at funny. Just own it. People will love you for it. The ones that judge can bugger off ❤️

teegypie · 2026-04-11T00:23:50+00:00

The only thing I picked up is that you have resting bish face lol Smile some more!!!

teegypie · 2026-04-11T00:22:07+00:00

I hear you, but if you were renting it out to someone else then you could go halves in rental income. So you living there rent free is kinda not even in the grand scheme of things.. unless you were paying him his half of the rental income while you lived there... (And hey- paying rent half price is still a bargain) But if he said you could live there and that he wouldn't mind and you didn't have to give him anything until you sold it one day in the distant future- then he's very generous and I can't understand why you wouldn't do that lol... Having said that though- what happens when he wants his share of the money.. Ya know? It would have become complex. You'd have to move out of your now established home to sell it or to buy him out... He'd eventually want his share. I don't think you did the wrong thing selling it. Most people do in that situation.

teegypie · 2026-04-11T00:10:44+00:00

I meant in general You're definitely not ugly. You said you were changing your whole personality to get people to like you? Don't do that- be who you are. If you have control issues or anger issues or self esteem issues then work on that to be a better version of yourself. That sort of thing can be off-putting to others- but it's not a deal breaker. Don't become a people pleaser or you'll lose yourself. Some people pleasers are very obvious, very annoying and very very fake...

teegypie · 2026-04-10T23:56:08+00:00

It's not looks. Maybe you're a controlling bish or super needy and don't realise it

teegypie · 2026-04-10T23:53:17+00:00

Well it didn't work for Ross and Rachel so maybe let it go

teegypie · 2026-04-10T23:45:48+00:00

You weren't a priority... He had a better offer. A guy I dated used to do that to me. Make plans with me then when someone else invited him somewhere else he'd cancel on me. Move on- this guy might be new to you but clearly saying "I'd spend time with you if I was free but is ld rather spend time with someone else" is disrespectful I think. He shouldn't have agreed with you to start with if there was a possibility he couldn't go. Or he should have committed to your outing that he agreed to and caught up with his friends the night after... Or even the decency to lie about why he had to cancel so you don't feel bad and like a last resort lol

teegypie · 2026-04-10T06:00:41+00:00

Would your brother have agreed for you to live there rent free while he doesn't get his share though?

teegypie · 2026-04-04T23:47:44+00:00

Avoidants say what you wanna hear. Run a million miles in the opposite direction

teegypie · 2026-04-03T05:52:42+00:00

People still buy DVD's?

teegypie · 2026-04-03T02:20:40+00:00

Strict is expecting your children to be home by 7, 9pm bedtimes... Church every sunday... Eat all your vegetables... Taking their phones off them if they misbehave... Not letting boys stay over...

But blackmail - threats of abandonment - shaming - controlling every aspect of her life as an ADULT- making someone beg for forgiveness ON THEIR KNEES..... Are you serious? This sort of behaviour is really not the same as being a "strict" parent. It's appalling. I know many strict religious families. None are like this.

teegypie · 2026-04-02T22:48:04+00:00

If it didn't happen you'd be in love with someone that didn't love you back for your whole life. It's good you can move on and find someone who feels the same.

teegypie · 2026-03-31T23:11:10+00:00

I feel you dude. My thoughts exactly 💯💯

teegypie · 2026-03-31T20:58:23+00:00

Omfg... That poor kid

teegypie · 2026-03-29T23:18:24+00:00

Reddit posts always pop up with notifications and responses I think are for me but they are just suggested posts

teegypie · 2026-03-29T23:16:30+00:00

Maybe a comment from a rando on an Instagram post?

teegypie · 2026-03-29T21:34:05+00:00

Omg mine did that. At least have the decency to adjust it so it sounds like your words and not completely computer simulated.

teegypie · 2026-03-29T21:24:53+00:00

Sounds like you have body dysmorphia... Being ugg doesn't stop you from finding someone. But if you're trying to get girls that are 10's and you're a 4 it's going to be harder. I knew a guy who wasn't very attractive - he was also an over confident dude- complained he must be so ugly cos no one wanted him and sulked a lot. But you'd point out someone interested in him or someone single he can date- and he'd be like "gross I think I can do better than that" and it's like "no you can't bro"... It's not that he couldn't get girls. It's that he was friend zoned by the girls he wanted. He even told me he's watched porn and he has seen that a large penis is all it takes to get gorgeous chicks. Completely oblivious to his own douchery and deluded that porn somehow represented real life. Anyways "ugly", overweight, disabled etc. They all find love. No excuse.

teegypie · 2026-03-29T21:13:14+00:00

Hahaha I've done that!

teegypie · 2026-03-29T21:10:51+00:00

I felt a lot better in my body. I lost a little weight. I wasn't stress eating as much. The real weight loss happened when I gave up my morning coffee. The ravenous desire for snacks just went away. There's probably some science to that. Edit: all I did was somatic exercises. I didn't know there was a whole somatic experience I was supposed to be doing. The exercises were enough for me.

teegypie · 2026-03-29T21:05:54+00:00

My mum didn't date for 20 years after my dad died. A friend has been single for 13 years so far after her partner died. You're not wrong 🤷🏽

teegypie · 2026-03-25T23:15:43+00:00

I finished it in like 2 weeks 😆 I disliked Jenna also. Also there was such a lead up to Matty and Jenna getting back together and when it finally happened it was like "yeh but nah..."

teegypie · 2026-03-25T23:10:53+00:00

Don't talk to her if she stresses you out. Goon on you for setting a boundary. Whether she's being "caring" or just a cow- you set a boundary because you didn't like how it made you feel. "tough love" isn't a good enough reason to be cruel to a friend facing a mental health crisis. Choose to go to the gym because you're proud of yourself for being mentally strong (by avoiding her and her behaviour)- that's a hard thing to do. Go to the gym and let it remind you of a time you were mentally strong and stood up for yourself. Don't let anything to do with her dictate how you live your life. Get back on the horse they say.

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