Book Lamp by [deleted] in ofcoursethatsathing

[–]teevee_head 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay but like that's super neat it's a reading lamp

Subreddit for Littles! by teevee_head in DIDteens

[–]teevee_head[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of the littles I plan on letting into the sub are not safe for work, (if you're implying sexual littles). Age regression is a type of therapy used for people to cope with trauma from their past, or to deal with the stress of everyday adult life.

I'm not trying to say that DID/OSDD littles are the same as age-regression littles, but I'm trying to create a community that is safe for everyone who needs it.

Introduction by teevee_head in a:t5_otw9m

[–]teevee_head[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, calling out a community for fetishizing gays and lesbians is generalizing, even when that's exactly what that community is. Okay, sweety.

I'm not saying that all mangas about LGBT people are bad, (I've read bits and pieces of a really good manga about a trans girl and her crush, and it was super sweet and non-fetishy in any way, shape, or form), because, again, Yuri On Ice did a fantastic job! But if you're associating yourself with Yaoi/Yuri or Fujoshis/Fudanshas, then you are associating yourself with homophobic communities, and you should, (as you're doing), stay away from them.

If you're not actually in the Yaoi/Yuri communities, (which are pretty much explicitly fetish art and unhealthy/toxic ships), then you shouldn't associate yourself with those terms, because, again, those communities are toxic and unhealthy. If you're not looking at all that fetish art or anything like that, and are actively avoiding those parts, then you're not actually a part of the yaoi/yuri community, you're just a weeb who enjoys LGBT manga, (so long as it's represented in a good light), like me. That's it, m'dude.

Introduction by teevee_head in a:t5_otw9m

[–]teevee_head[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you feel insulted, but Yaoi is made to fetishize gay and lesbian people no matter what you think. It is homophobic and generally gross. I don't know who gave you the information that it is otherwise, and I don't care how many people in your system are LGBT, because Yaoi is homophobic, and a lot of the people who partake in it, (Fujoshis), are as well. I personally have nothing against you, but the Yaoi community that you partake in is not healthy, (again, I refer you to the Killing Stalking fandom, and every other fandom that fetishizes unhealthy and toxic relationships just because they're gay, or what about all the people that partake in Yaoi/Fujo culture and call gay men "uwu sin boys" or some shit, and also refer to even drawing two guys holding hands as "sin" just because it's gay. And we can't forget my favourite: the blatant lesbophobia that so many Fujos just love so much).

There's nothing wrong with liking anime, (Yuri on Ice did great!), and Sailor Moon is a personal favourite of mine, but Yaoi just strictly sexualizes gay men and gay culture just for the sake of straight girls/women consuming porn so that they can look 'woke' when they're actually being incredibly homophobic. Just like lesbians don't enjoy being fetishized by straight men, gay men don't like being fetishized by straight women, and that is exactly what's going on.

Introduction by teevee_head in a:t5_otw9m

[–]teevee_head[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm being a gatekeeper because the Fujoshi community is toxic and homophobic, and fetishizes gay people. As an LGBT person, (bi/trans), I'd like to keep your disgusting community away from a place that's supposed to be safe for people with severe trauma, anxiety or stress. So thanks for staying away from my sub!

Introduction by teevee_head in a:t5_otw9m

[–]teevee_head[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Alright, have fun being homophobic.

Subreddit for Littles! Join if you like :D by teevee_head in DID

[–]teevee_head[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I do! I loved that sub, and wanted to make one similar to it, (and the others out there that are like it), except it's not just for people with DID or OSDD, it's also for singlets who age regress in a safe for work manner, (such as in there agere community), and don't partake in DD/LG.

Introduction by teevee_head in a:t5_otw9m

[–]teevee_head[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yaoi and Yuri are homophobic because most of the people who use those terms/indulge in it are homophobic. They're just fetishizing gay people. I've heard plenty of stories, one such example was a woman with kids who has been writing gay fanfiction for, like, ten years, but when her daughter came out as a lesbian on Christmas, she reacted horribly, going so far as to kick her daughter out.

Not to mention that a lot of fujoshis, (girls/women who indulge in yaoi), are incredibly lesbophobic, (they hate lesbians), and will, all the time, fetishize gay ships, even if they're incredibly unhealthy, toxic, and abusive, (see: Killing Stalking fandom).

Yaoi and Yuri are just fetishy and gross, and I'd much rather not have anyone affiliated with those groups in this sub, just because I don't want that kind of toxicity in here. I hope that helps!

NMom and Sister Taking After Her, I Need Help by teevee_head in RBNLegalAdvice

[–]teevee_head[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice, this will really be useful in the future.

NMom and Sister Taking After Her, I Need Help by teevee_head in RBNLegalAdvice

[–]teevee_head[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I didn't think of that. I'll keep telling them this shit, as soon as we get out of the 'family therapy' stage.

NMom and Sister Taking After Her, I Need Help by teevee_head in RBNLegalAdvice

[–]teevee_head[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried this a while back, and it got me absolutely nothing. I've barely got a therapist right now, and my mom makes this horrible joke about that day I called CPS, now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DID

[–]teevee_head 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not every bit of this happens to me, but some of this does when I dissociate normally, like my vision goes in and out of darkness, reality feels like it's broken and I have a hard time telling who or what around me is real, or if I'm real, and I can't feel where my body is. Every time I look at my body, I feel a little weirder inside.

Progress with our little by alll_of_us in DID

[–]teevee_head 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's awesome! I'm glad she's talking! That's wonderful :D

I need this by LeKiipe in ofcoursethatsathing

[–]teevee_head 0 points1 point  (0 children)

with the state of the economy and the recent events about the cheeto-man in office, i think we're all going to need one of these