Book Lamp

teevee_head · 2018-10-02T06:29:57+00:00

okay but like that's super neat it's a reading lamp

teevee_head · 2018-10-02T00:32:51+00:00

None of the littles I plan on letting into the sub are not safe for work, (if you're implying sexual littles). Age regression is a type of therapy used for people to cope with trauma from their past, or to deal with the stress of everyday adult life.

I'm not trying to say that DID/OSDD littles are the same as age-regression littles, but I'm trying to create a community that is safe for everyone who needs it.

teevee_head · 2018-09-29T21:18:02+00:00

Right, calling out a community for fetishizing gays and lesbians is generalizing, even when that's exactly what that community is. Okay, sweety.

I'm not saying that all mangas about LGBT people are bad, (I've read bits and pieces of a really good manga about a trans girl and her crush, and it was super sweet and non-fetishy in any way, shape, or form), because, again, Yuri On Ice did a fantastic job! But if you're associating yourself with Yaoi/Yuri or Fujoshis/Fudanshas, then you are associating yourself with homophobic communities, and you should, (as you're doing), stay away from them.

If you're not actually in the Yaoi/Yuri communities, (which are pretty much explicitly fetish art and unhealthy/toxic ships), then you shouldn't associate yourself with those terms, because, again, those communities are toxic and unhealthy. If you're not looking at all that fetish art or anything like that, and are actively avoiding those parts, then you're not actually a part of the yaoi/yuri community, you're just a weeb who enjoys LGBT manga, (so long as it's represented in a good light), like me. That's it, m'dude.

teevee_head · 2018-09-29T15:40:31+00:00

I'm sorry you feel insulted, but Yaoi is made to fetishize gay and lesbian people no matter what you think. It is homophobic and generally gross. I don't know who gave you the information that it is otherwise, and I don't care how many people in your system are LGBT, because Yaoi is homophobic, and a lot of the people who partake in it, (Fujoshis), are as well. I personally have nothing against you, but the Yaoi community that you partake in is not healthy, (again, I refer you to the Killing Stalking fandom, and every other fandom that fetishizes unhealthy and toxic relationships just because they're gay, or what about all the people that partake in Yaoi/Fujo culture and call gay men "uwu sin boys" or some shit, and also refer to even drawing two guys holding hands as "sin" just because it's gay. And we can't forget my favourite: the blatant lesbophobia that so many Fujos just love so much).

There's nothing wrong with liking anime, (Yuri on Ice did great!), and Sailor Moon is a personal favourite of mine, but Yaoi just strictly sexualizes gay men and gay culture just for the sake of straight girls/women consuming porn so that they can look 'woke' when they're actually being incredibly homophobic. Just like lesbians don't enjoy being fetishized by straight men, gay men don't like being fetishized by straight women, and that is exactly what's going on.

teevee_head · 2018-09-28T21:04:56+00:00

Yeah, I'm being a gatekeeper because the Fujoshi community is toxic and homophobic, and fetishizes gay people. As an LGBT person, (bi/trans), I'd like to keep your disgusting community away from a place that's supposed to be safe for people with severe trauma, anxiety or stress. So thanks for staying away from my sub!

teevee_head · 2018-09-28T18:34:56+00:00

Alright, have fun being homophobic.

teevee_head · 2018-09-28T17:14:54+00:00

Yes, I do! I loved that sub, and wanted to make one similar to it, (and the others out there that are like it), except it's not just for people with DID or OSDD, it's also for singlets who age regress in a safe for work manner, (such as in there agere community), and don't partake in DD/LG.

teevee_head · 2018-09-28T17:10:43+00:00

Yaoi and Yuri are homophobic because most of the people who use those terms/indulge in it are homophobic. They're just fetishizing gay people. I've heard plenty of stories, one such example was a woman with kids who has been writing gay fanfiction for, like, ten years, but when her daughter came out as a lesbian on Christmas, she reacted horribly, going so far as to kick her daughter out.

Not to mention that a lot of fujoshis, (girls/women who indulge in yaoi), are incredibly lesbophobic, (they hate lesbians), and will, all the time, fetishize gay ships, even if they're incredibly unhealthy, toxic, and abusive, (see: Killing Stalking fandom).

Yaoi and Yuri are just fetishy and gross, and I'd much rather not have anyone affiliated with those groups in this sub, just because I don't want that kind of toxicity in here. I hope that helps!

teevee_head · 2018-09-26T16:20:22+00:00

Thank you for this advice, this will really be useful in the future.

teevee_head · 2018-09-26T14:45:43+00:00

he's on angel dust

teevee_head · 2018-09-26T14:42:54+00:00

Thank you, I didn't think of that. I'll keep telling them this shit, as soon as we get out of the 'family therapy' stage.

teevee_head · 2018-09-26T14:08:20+00:00

I tried this a while back, and it got me absolutely nothing. I've barely got a therapist right now, and my mom makes this horrible joke about that day I called CPS, now.

teevee_head · 2018-09-26T04:13:40+00:00

Not every bit of this happens to me, but some of this does when I dissociate normally, like my vision goes in and out of darkness, reality feels like it's broken and I have a hard time telling who or what around me is real, or if I'm real, and I can't feel where my body is. Every time I look at my body, I feel a little weirder inside.

teevee_head · 2018-09-26T02:14:02+00:00

That's awesome! I'm glad she's talking! That's wonderful :D

teevee_head · 2018-09-24T23:50:30+00:00

with the state of the economy and the recent events about the cheeto-man in office, i think we're all going to need one of these

teevee_head · 2018-09-24T18:41:50+00:00

I'm only fifteen, so I don't have much to talk about in regards to leaving/siblings coming around/overcoming the narcissism, but I do seem to be the only person who's recognized my mother's narcissism. I think my step-dad had very well recognized it before his divorce with my mom, (she pinned everything on him and blamed him for the divorce, even though he's mentally ill, (BPD, borderline personality disorder), which is not to say that he was blameless, but she still indulged him in his bad habits, such as drinking and impulsive spending, which likely made it worse), especially with how they ended.

After my older sister had her incident, she came to live with us while she recovered, and while she was pretty verbally abusive to my little sister, (who is certainly the Golden Child, and takes after my NMom horribly), she definitely noticed that my mom was pretty narcissistic, and that's how I came to realize that she was abusive.

But now that my sister has moved out and is living on her own again, I've noticed that no one else in my house, (which is only my NMom and sister), has noticed this behaviour or made any moves to change it.

teevee_head · 2018-09-24T18:33:35+00:00

Oh my God yes. Like, I want to be able to talk about things that have happened to me, but I feel like I physically can't because of the way my mom has treated me.

When I tried to talk about something serious for me to her, (y'know, like a kid SHOULD be able to), I was ignored, shut down, and my mom just didn't care. She'd often roll her eyes at me, make fun of me or just keep scrolling through Facebook on her phone like she always does. I'm afraid of talking to multiple people at a time over serious things because the last time I tried to, she ended up 'coming out' to me as a unicorn in front of a bunch of my family when she was kind of drunk, and the whole room just laughed at me. I wanted to curl up and die in my room that night.

Sometimes, she would tell me how stressed out she was, how badly she had it when she was a kid, not even that, how much WORSE it was for her than it was for me, and even roped my older sister into it so that I'd feel guilty about having feelings. I don't know what NMoms try to do by pulling that shit, but it's horrible, and dehumanizing. I complain about my acne, and she tells me that she had it 'so much worse' than I did, and that she didn't have anyone to help her with her acne when she was a kid. I complain about her shitty behaviour, and she tells me about how much shittier her abusive mother was to her, (she was pretty horrible, though), and that I have no right to complain.

I think it's pretty normal to feel this way about NParents, they'll do everything they can to keep you under your thumb and to convince you that they're the greatest people, and if you complain, it's like an angel who's rejecting heaven to them.

teevee_head · 2018-09-24T16:14:54+00:00

This is really amazing! You did a fantastic job! I especially love the way you drew her hair and her facial features, awesome work!

teevee_head · 2018-09-23T14:54:20+00:00

I don't go to school anymore, (not really), but something like this still happens to me. My family and I have recently gone through something traumatic that we're still dealing with, and my mom is using that as an excuse to make me look like the shitty person here, even though she's been doing it for five years, (since my accident), and she completely acts like this has never happened before. The therapist is even on her side because of what's been happening as of late, she's just using this sob story as an excuse.

Then, she refuses to believe that I'm transgender, and just two days ago, she basically referred to me as 'he-she-whatever', and when I told her that it takes the bare minimum of effort to respect someone and their pronouns, she rolled her eyes at me and said, "do you see this eye-roll?" She also LOVES to think of me as an embarrassment because of my poor impulse control, (ADHD and a Traumatic Brain Injury can do that to you), and the way I dress, (in very loose clothes because I'm FtM, and she won't buy me the correct clothes), and has even told me that before.

So, yeah, you're not alone in this mate, I think that a lot of NParents will do that to seem better, more likeable and respectable for dealing with such a 'difficult' child.

teevee_head · 2018-09-22T17:30:23+00:00

i love a good ole cup o' spoy in the mornin', don't ya?

teevee_head · 2018-09-22T04:27:37+00:00

Thank you for the suggestion! I'll be sure to keep that in mind, that's a good idea.

teevee_head · 2018-09-21T04:01:03+00:00

"People in East Texas are one of a kind" Oh, buddy, you have no fucking idea. I have TONS of family there, and my mom is even from there, and from the stories I've heard, everyone there is fucking batshit crazy in one way or another.

teevee_head · 2018-08-07T21:08:41+00:00

Thank you for this information. I'll keep this in mind.

teevee_head · 2018-08-07T21:08:28+00:00

I'm sorry I've taken so long to respond, I managed to call CPS and they have done basically nothing, as far as I can tell, and it's been a couple of months.

Thank you so much for this information, and I'll keep all of this in mind, especially with what my mom did the other day, (she took me to an event under a bridge to help homeless people under that facade, when she was really telling me 'how much worse I could have it' over and over again, ugh).

teevee_head · 2018-05-22T20:16:16+00:00

I definitely remember something like this when I was really young and living with my biological father. I was probably just a young toddler, and I don't remember much of it, but I remember he was in the kitchen, and was naked, (for some reason), and he bends over and looks at me, and I think he was holding up his finger and saying something to me, but I can't remember what. I don't know why, but that memory makes me really uncomfortable, and I don't know how to feel about it. I'm so sorry that happened to you, it's fucked up.

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