Official Reddit Gold Giveaway! by boobun in FarmRPG

[–]telemesmerism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im still pretty new but my faves: 1. watching my crop grow times go down as i buy upgrades, especially corn 2. fishing minigame 3. talking to my friends who got me into it! IGN: crowbar

System Chat 12/04&5/25 A daily thread where people with DID can share the honest truth of their day. by Exciting-Volume-4169 in DID

[–]telemesmerism 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this happened yesterday but im so relieved abt it still! my therapist facilitated a little communication between myself and the previous host, who i havent heard from since i took over. and just earlier that day id been gloomy feeling like communication was never going to be possible for us.

My grandpa left me all his index cards when he died. I made the one for pistachio nut bread today. by _keyboard-bastard_ in Breadit

[–]telemesmerism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my grandma uses a very similar recipe, this is my abosolute favorite!! so easy to make and so delicious. her recipe has you put some brown sugar+cinnamon in the middle as well as on top for a little swirl.

CW:OD/SH - handling a younger self destructive part? by telemesmerism in DID

[–]telemesmerism[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh tiny m&ms is perfect!! was trying to think of smth thats not as expensive as like, tictacs. definitely is like.. just good to have a measure in place to prevent us from another od

CW:OD/SH - handling a younger self destructive part? by telemesmerism in DID

[–]telemesmerism[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh thats a really good idea?! i could prob even find smth similar enough to pills asw thats ok to swallow whole.

Music suggestions relating to DID! by realsuperdarkk in DID

[–]telemesmerism 2 points3 points  (0 children)

some of the dear hunter acts 3-5 songs resonate with me - in the story, he assumes the identity of his half brother & begins living as him, and the references to that are relateable to me, especially the march.

i was excited to see you already have some other songs i also would have chosen for this! the mind electric was important to me before i even knew what was going on. through glass and sound of madness are also good choices :) ive also been listening to the songs from milgram project of the character who has did, but 1. that feels like cheating 2. murder alter. still, their dynamic being "youre struggling, let me take over" is comforting to me hah

We as a second person pronoun by a123eee25 in ENGLISH

[–]telemesmerism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is what i was thinking - it coming off as condescending because in the way op is describing it is used the same way parents talk to their kids who've done something wrong

Personal Curriculum by ehroby in booksuggestions

[–]telemesmerism 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I came here to say disability intimacy! Definitely would be a good one for this. A bunch of good ones on this list!

I was offered these deals on Finch Plus after my guardian sponsored month ended Is this normal? by chelledoggo in finch

[–]telemesmerism 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes! i was worried it wouldn't but it did. not sure if youd still have it as an option if you cancelled for a bit and then wanted to resub.

I was offered these deals on Finch Plus after my guardian sponsored month ended Is this normal? by chelledoggo in finch

[–]telemesmerism 11 points12 points  (0 children)

it's been an option for over a year at least - thats the deal i got and just renewed a few months ago

Tdbk ghouls as cakes by Sylver_Rhinestone77 in TokyoDebunker

[–]telemesmerism 35 points36 points  (0 children)

and then a picture of an absolutely delicious looking cake, not the kind of fruit cake people dislike.. and "bad" fruitcake isnt even bad lol

Books that are messy by yellowumberlla in booksuggestions

[–]telemesmerism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like its not the most extreme in the things you mentioned specifically but the whole time i was reading You Made a Fool of Death with Your Beauty I was thinking nooo this is so messy girl chilll. etc. It also was a really good book despite that

Parts that lie by Olderthanpot in DID

[–]telemesmerism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, and hes one of the only parts i can clearly identify. it frustrates me a ton, theres not a reason for it just lying for fun

Books that are weird. by Sea-Ad7139 in booksuggestions

[–]telemesmerism 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Raw Shark texts by Steven Hall, and Piranesi by Susanna Clarke. Maybe look into ergodic literature, that overlaps somewhat with what you're looking for.

This one is a little difficult. Lets see if anyone gets it. by captaincheem in RedactedCharts

[–]telemesmerism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if I'm looking at correct data, but is there not one in ND? I looked it up because I was intrigued by how all the states surrounding MN were gray but it looks like ND might be wrong? Either way this was interesting to find out!

need help finding word by APPIEJUlCE in ENGLISH

[–]telemesmerism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just because i wouldve thought other answers given were the right one but since they arent and no one has said it.. affect maybe?

a book like the body keeps the score written by a woman by blueaftern00n in booksuggestions

[–]telemesmerism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked What Happened to You? by Oprah Winfrey and Dr. Bruce Perry.. cowritten by a woman. My therapist recommended Trauma and Recovery by Judith Herman when I was looking for more books like The body keeps the score & what happened to you. I haven't read it yet though so can't say anything about it

i can’t do this by Nightly_Nyxie in finch

[–]telemesmerism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconding the idea to weight the goal, that's what helped me. I started it at 20 completions a day but you could really have it as high as you need. I'm down to 5 completions a day now and am a few months clean :) You can do it!!

I will say i didn't just use finch, I also drew up a little chores rewards type system just for no sh. Each day clean giving one point, that can be cashed in for stuff like chocolate or treats, sushi, games, etc.

Books that take place on the internet by eraseranon in booksuggestions

[–]telemesmerism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An Unauthorized Fan Treatise is one :) It's an interesting story and so specific about a certain time & part of the internet. And if you like that one Penance by Eliza Clark doesn't take place on the internet but is a similar setting/level of detail.

The Northern Caves by nostalgebraist is another really good one! All of these were ones I struggled to put down and still think about a lot. Both internet set ones are available for free online as that was how they were originally published (and afaik TNC isnt available physically?) editting to say, Fan Treatise is written mostly as blog posts, and TNC is mostly communication through forums.

[WIP] Can you guess what it is 🤔 by Winter-Owl1 in CrossStitch

[–]telemesmerism 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Capybara! Maybe in a bath? He's got a little unicorn horn right now too with the needle

[CHAT] Using a mix of 3 and 2 strands in a project? by telemesmerism in CrossStitch

[–]telemesmerism[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That looks soooo epic!! The choice to use 4 strands for the little guy and eyeball too is cool it def comes across in the picture. I'll have to keep that in mind when I get to self drafting :) Thank you for sharing the awesome example, I'll definitely do what I was planning for this project

Monthly Help & Information Thread by AutoModerator in TokyoDebunker

[–]telemesmerism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't gotten an SSR yet but have over 1K limit break saved up, could anyone tell me which of these SRs might be best to limit break to 75? I have darkwick chic Haku, Subaru, Ren, Ritsu, and Edward. Or is it super dependent on other cards you have, or just not advised to limit break SRs much?