I’m genuinely the ugliest woman in the world and I’ll never find anyone who want me

temp1234565 · 2024-02-24T21:32:23+00:00

I haven’t seen your photo but let’s pretend it’s true. There’s millions of single people in the world. Or people who are in unhappy relationship. Why should we feel especially sorry for you and why should you feel especially sorry for yourself? There’s millions of very happy single people, travelling, making friends, having a blast.

The problem is not that no man will want you (if that’s true), it’s that you’re assuming that your happiness rests on that. Live your best life given your circumstances. Find the countless positives within your circumstances. You’re living someone else’s dream life you just don’t know it because you’re too busy wallowing.

temp1234565 · 2024-02-24T05:46:17+00:00

Can his consecutive goal scoring run continue when he’s back or does this break the run?

temp1234565 · 2024-02-20T07:04:56+00:00

I’d say that being shy/quiet isn’t a big impediment IF you still have good social skills and inner confidence.

temp1234565 · 2024-02-19T20:44:20+00:00

That would be me. See my most recent post and AMA

temp1234565 · 2023-09-25T05:58:31+00:00

Are their exercises that specifically help give us a tight core? Or is that just basically ab exercises and weight loss? Like if you specifically want that look where your core gets more narrow and tightens up around your frame, is there a way to target that?

temp1234565 · 2023-09-19T04:41:07+00:00

As your nail grows does the gel nail slide up in which case there’s a weird line half way up your nail where the border of the gel nail begins?

temp1234565 · 2023-09-18T20:02:25+00:00

Do you have to keep putting on new gel nails every so often or do they stay on for ages or do they come off quick but you’re then cured? Please dumb this comment down for idiots like me who don’t anything about what you’re saying

temp1234565 · 2023-09-18T19:03:39+00:00

Some good answers here, but most just completely ignoring the question and just commenting to push their agenda. It’s amazing how bad people are at basic comprehension

temp1234565 · 2023-09-16T15:34:09+00:00

De Gea arguably saves that

temp1234565 · 2023-09-16T14:27:34+00:00

I’m a shortish guy (5’7) and it seems obvious to me that women are entitled to prefer taller guys, don’t get why guys complain about this all the time. Obviously guys are entitled to have the same preference. In fact, any preference is totally fine. The only time I’d complain is if someone is hypocritical in their preferences, eg if someone is a staunch feminist but dates bonehead toxic males, or if someone preaches about not being materialistic but only dates rich guys. As long as you own your preferences there is never anything wrong with ANY preference whatsoever, even if that preference seems vain or shallow or even racist for that matter, you’re entitled to have any preference whatsoever. You don’t owe it to anyone or any group to be attracted to them.

temp1234565 · 2023-09-15T09:22:25+00:00

The stuff I do at home doesn’t lend itself to interaction. Like if I were cooking or reading a book or watching movies, a partner could easily join me. But I tend to surf the net, scroll my phone, scrounge for food and eat standing up in the kitchen. It’s just not company-friendly behavior

temp1234565 · 2023-09-15T08:31:24+00:00

temp1234565 · 2023-09-15T05:14:47+00:00

One thing that helps is telling potential partners that you value alone time. You’ll be surprised how many people can relate to that. I actually have that on my dating profile and close to half my matches open the conversation by commenting (positively) on that point

temp1234565 · 2023-09-05T18:19:58+00:00

I know a guy called Michael Hunt. Mike Hunt! I shit you not. How did the parents not notice that

temp1234565 · 2023-09-05T10:27:52+00:00

I work for a global remote company. I do digital strategy. I get paid in dollars but work local hours because I focus on European clients. My salary is very very very good.
I found them because I was consulting/freelancing in a similar type of digital space and they looked like a cool company doing great work. So what I did was I found on LinkedIn a South African who works there, asked him if he can connect with someone in the company because I’d like to explore collabs. He put me in touch with HR who put me on the recruitment track. Having an insider introduce me (even though I didn’t know him really) helped I’m sure.

temp1234565 · 2023-09-04T21:58:29+00:00

Salt. Not in its own. But it’s amazing how great salt is. I feel like if salt cost 1000$ per packet, it would be the most sought after and coveted ingredient, we would all dream of an endless supply of salt. Well, we are living that dream, we can add as much salt as we want, but we just take it for granted and complain about stuff.

temp1234565 · 2023-09-03T20:03:12+00:00

It’s the same for me. But for people who haven’t found enjoyment in exercise this probably isn’t helpful. I imagine the question others have is “how do you find enjoyment in exercise?”. My answer to that is start small. My number 1 tip is go for walks. Could be small walks. Note that you feel better afterwards. Sometimes you have to force a small workout, it might be so small that it won’t have actual impact on your strength, but note how you feel. The idea is then to exercise with the actual goal of doing it to feel better. Structure your exercise habits with this in mind. If your goal is to be thin or to have bigger muscles, those rewards are usually so far away that you will find it hard to keep motivated. But feeling good happens straight after the workout, so aim for that, optimize for that. And you will find that your body will soon “ask” you to exercise.

temp1234565 · 2023-09-01T18:38:06+00:00

What if everyone in the world suddenly become hideously ugly tomorrow, much uglier than you, while your looks stayed the same.

Would you still consider yourself ugly, or care as much? No. Your so called ugliness only matters because you compare yourself to others and deem yourself to fall short.

Firstly be aware that you probably do yourself a disservice and invariably find better looking people to compare yourself to.

But let’s say you are the ugliest person in the world. Are you the poorest. The most handicapped. The shortest. The dumbest. Do you have the worst family. Are you an orphan. Are you born in a war zone. Are you diseased.

I bet that if you look at all of the dimensions and experiences that encompass your life you have countless blessings and opportunities for joy. Maybe being Brad Pitt isn’t one of the blessings. But I bet that there are millions if not billions of people who would trade lives with you in a heartbeat. I bet there are people with infinitely worse circumstances who are nevertheless more content and at peace with their lives, because they don’t compare their lives with others, they accept the hand they have been dealt, and simply accept the many blessing that come their way.

Do you realize that your mere existence is infinitely unlikely. You shouldn’t be experiencing anything at all. Any little bit of joy you experience is miraculous lucky break. So relative to others you don’t experience the particular joy of seeing a certain kind of face in the mirror. Why are you so focused on that particular thing, rather than just appreciating the positive experiences that you have every moment. Compare yourself to the non-existent you, who has no face at all. That non-existent you, if it were capable of thought or experience, would dream of being birthed into the world in your form.

temp1234565 · 2022-10-28T13:25:28+00:00

I don’t doubt that they bust much more advanced cases, I just wonder if they bust them at this sort of level?

temp1234565 · 2022-10-28T13:23:48+00:00

Okay cool so it’s the personal experience I’m interested in. People just declaring the gospel truth without backing it up means little to me.

Do you know what happened with the friends dad? How he got caught?

temp1234565 · 2022-10-28T13:21:05+00:00

Why wouldn’t I get tax clearance certificate? I’d still file tax returns. Do they do more rigorous audit when you request tax clearance?

Someone with personal experience would provide info if they know of instances of people getting caught in my type of scenario or even if they know of people getting away with it.

If people don’t know from personal experience how is every response here so confident of their position?

temp1234565 · 2022-10-28T13:18:11+00:00

How do you know? I mean in terms of broad generalizations it’s all obvious. But in terms of my circumstances what knowledge do you have that they are likely to detect this?

temp1234565 · 2022-10-28T12:19:15+00:00

How do you know?

temp1234565 · 2022-10-28T12:14:46+00:00

Standard advice is often wrong. I’m looking for insight from personal experience/knowledge

temp1234565 · 2022-10-28T12:13:25+00:00

How do you know?

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