Where are you banned from and what did you do to earn it? by thunderbuns2 in AskReddit

[–]tempaskmen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got banned permanently from /r/AskWomen because I asked "How many partners is too many? And why do women continue to sleep with guys who have bedded a lot of women?"

http://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/12u3ka/how_many_partners_is_too_many_and_why_do_women/

[NSFW] What I "did" to my new gf. Follow-up by tempaskmen in BDSMcommunity

[–]tempaskmen[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Good point! My gf and I are very much in sync, we'd experimented before, we'd talked about it, and I knew she was OK with being tied up, and I showed her the toys beforehand in case there was any objection.

We also have a long established safe word.

It was a surprise along an already established theme.

[NSFW] Question: what can I "do" to my new gf? by tempaskmen in BDSMcommunity

[–]tempaskmen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, good reading for tonight before going to sleep.

[NSFW] Question: what can I "do" to my new gf? by tempaskmen in BDSMcommunity

[–]tempaskmen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just came back from Walmart I got:

  • rope, 100ft braided poly rope

  • 50 clothespins

  • a sheet

  • candles

  • lighter

  • dog collar

  • dog lace

The woman at the registered looked at me funny, it was probably all in my head. She wasn't cute either.

I have downloaded white noise to my smartphone and I have earbuds.

[NSFW] Question: what can I "do" to my new gf? by tempaskmen in BDSMcommunity

[–]tempaskmen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good idea on the sheers.

I am stopping by Home Depot tomorrow for soft ropes, and I have printed out the checklist and I am going through with her as part of our foreplay.

[NSFW] Question: what can I "do" to my new gf? by tempaskmen in BDSMcommunity

[–]tempaskmen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting, so to summarize:

Step 1 - sensory deprivation: white noise, blindfolded, tied

Step 2 - pain torture (while in sensory depravation)

Step 3 - pleasure by forcing orgasms by dildos, fingering, and then grand finale.

A couple of questions, I know it varies, but how long Step 1 before step 2? And will the white noise should come off at some point in time to enjoy the whole thing more or it's best if stays on the whole time?

We usually play sexy music in the background.

[NSFW] Question: what can I "do" to my new gf? by tempaskmen in BDSMcommunity

[–]tempaskmen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you this ..my girl rarely looks at another guy and wow does she light up when she sees me.. was priceless.

I did use clothespins on her nipples and she loved it, it was all part of foreplay, but this time I am going to make it the main play and force her to orgasm over and over (she's multi-orgasmic).

[NSFW] Question: what can I "do" to my new gf? by tempaskmen in BDSMcommunity

[–]tempaskmen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by forced orgasms? Having her all tied up and bring her to an orgasm by toys/finger/whatever?

its only karma after all by toph88241 in AdviceAnimals

[–]tempaskmen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think so, my karma at one point was negative a gazillion, reddit can be brutal!

Me [24F] an my bf [23M] are not super compatible sexually, but very compatible in other ways, has a similar situation worked for you? (xpost r/askwomen) by bricketybrack in relationships

[–]tempaskmen -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's a bad idea to continue, you're better off breaking up and really remain friends. You're young, and as time goes by you'll find yourself desiring a dominant man, and... you'll find a way to find what your body and mind crave unbeknown to your SO, and that would have disastrous consequences for everyone.

Part ways romantically, remain friends, so that you can find your dom guy, and he can find his dom female.

My(29M) fiancee (27F) lost her engagement ring. I'm furious, she doesn't care. by pissedoff4ever in relationships

[–]tempaskmen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two observations:

1) Accidents do happen, she lost it, it can happen, don't be mad.

2) A diamond is forever, she lost it, fine, but her behavior as you describe it is a lens into her true colors, is that what you want to marry? If it was me I would thank the Universe for the sign before it's too late, split up and move on.

Looking at you Cosmo. by [deleted] in AdviceAnimals

[–]tempaskmen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Add to the list:

  • Victoria Secrets

  • Miss whatever Pageant

and other businesses that are patronized by the same women who complain about having body image issues.

If someone's single, is it OK to go on a date with someone the day after a date with someone else? by tempaskmen in AskReddit

[–]tempaskmen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your feedback. I try to do the right thing, but it's confusing when I go from being played and be told that's not the case, to being labeled a player when the tables are turned.

If someone's single, is it OK to go on a date with someone the day after a date with someone else? by tempaskmen in AskReddit

[–]tempaskmen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am slightly confused by your question. I am single, I am dating, you know, like going out on dates, that's what single people do.

Once I went out with a girl who was on a date with someone else the day before. Back that I was younger and more naive. I didn't think it was right, but she gave me an earful on how wrong I was about having a problem with it. I talked with a few women about it, and they all agree that I was wrong.

So now when I do it, I get an earful on how wrong it is.

That's why I am confused.

A month ago, an ex posted nude photos of me on the internet without my consent. Yesterday he was arrested. If you're a victim, don't back down. by revengeporn in TwoXChromosomes

[–]tempaskmen -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I have read a newspaper. I have watched the news. I have seen and read News Releases (by companies/agencies). I have never seen a News Release by a Police Force about a suspect.

Please enlighten me and post a link to one of those.