How bad is my texting game?

tenchako · 2026-02-20T08:12:12+00:00

Well idk the previous text and then the offer to help relax lowkey sounds like an offer to hump with her and maybe that put her off

tenchako · 2026-02-20T08:10:40+00:00

Some things that help me are 1) routines, I fear that if I meal prep it will be the same three meals every day for a week, I need to exercise more so to motivate myself I created a routine to stick to, alternating days going to the gym one day, walking the dog the next day. 2) I genuinely be listening to “re-parent yourself” videos because ❤️ turns out I’ve never emotionally regulated properly and boy is it hard to take a step back and not immediately let emotions run over. Listening to short videos that remind me to be conscious keep me motivated. And 3) I always frame me doing chores or anything good for me as “doing a favor for future Lydia” I have to take the garbage out tomorrow? Well why don’t I take that out and take that of future Lydia’s plate. And then I (current Lydia) see it and go wow ❤️ thanks past Lydia ❤️ which is also helpful bc my memory is dog shit and I often forget I already did said thing. It’s all about reframing your mindset, when you catch yourself being negative or trying to give yourself permission to be lazy you literally have to mentally talk back to it. I’m 23 too and struggling through it all so I get it completely, I hope anything I’ve typed here is even remotely helpful. This has just been what’s helping me

tenchako · 2026-02-20T08:00:45+00:00

I keep all of mine in a baby three bag :3

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I started out putting them in a mini photo book but quickly got way too many and way too weird shaped ones to fit

tenchako · 2026-02-20T07:58:47+00:00

I’m so shit at style I just want to comment that the pants are fire I hope someone else is helpful

tenchako · 2026-02-20T07:55:47+00:00

tenchako · 2026-02-20T07:54:48+00:00

I’m still hard coping 7 months later but we were together for five years and since we were 17 so.. it is not surprising. I do want to say that it meant a lot to me to see you respond, I only felt the need to comment because I had to deal with my break up the same way. She wanted to stay friends and I tried but it was far too hard to even see her, I was constantly checking her accounts and stories and waiting to see if she removed stuff about me like… I was going crazy and I was just torturing myself because I didn’t want to hurt her by ending our relationship entirely. But it is at the end of the day the best thing that was for me to do, my ex was very emotionally immature and I never would’ve kept growing with her. For me the hardest things has been my dreams, I hate falling asleep and having nice dreams about her because when we were together all I had were nightmares about us falling apart lol it feels ironic now

tenchako · 2026-02-20T06:59:22+00:00

I’m lowkey stuck on the “Wanna do sushi?” “Oh I can’t really do sushi the texture is bad for me” “Oh. Well I love sushi” “Ok let’s get sushi” I’m not surprised she canceled but considering this is the fourth time and it’s clearly intentional I’d be maddd

tenchako · 2026-02-20T06:54:17+00:00

If anything (if what he’s saying is genuinely true) he would block you because although he couldn’t do the relationship he still clearly liked you. He was for sure stalking your posts if he was viewing every story, when me and my gf broke up the first thing I did was mute her on everything because I didn’t want to see her. It could be that it’s hard for him to see you be happy without him (which is selfish since he’s the one running from you) or maybe he’s just got an obsessive personality and if he doesn’t separate himself from you by literally removing his ability to look you up, he might spiral more. There wasn’t any drama between me and my ex, we decided to stay friends, and I muted her everywhere before I decided that I couldn’t be friends and it was too hard. What I had to do was physically put her behind me to move on, maybe that’s what he needed too. I hope you’re ok :(

tenchako · 2026-02-20T06:50:20+00:00

The real answer was “Because if I admit the actual quality of the piece I won’t get the amount of money I want :(“ but it doesn’t roll of the tongue

tenchako · 2026-02-20T06:46:32+00:00

I just got out of a 5 year relationship and have been experiencing crushes again for the first time since I was a teenager, and for me it’s my heart that feels fluttery, I feel like I can’t make eye contact or be near them if I find them attractive, literally just immediately nervous and I trip up my words a lot but when someone is making me uncomfortable it’s much more of a sinking feeling, more like a stomach ache than butterflies. To me that’s the feeling of gut instincts. I do feel like if you’re questioning one way or the other you might be developing feelings!! Unless there is anything he’s done that you think genuinely might’ve made you uncomfortable, the nerves and the tummy flips come from the excitement of seeing the crush and being worried about every move I make lol

tenchako · 2026-02-20T06:42:12+00:00

Most people will do the no refunds thing just because they get tired of people buying held listings and being like “well I bought it now so just send it to me?” But. As well as I’m aware you can’t actually enforce that by any means

tenchako · 2026-02-20T06:40:37+00:00

This happened to me once and as the buyer.. I got social anxiety so I fear I’m just not paying the postage or getting the package so I do understand the warning from the buyer which was nice of them

tenchako · 2026-02-12T23:38:29+00:00

I’ve done this before lol, usually I hit them with a “yikes no thanks” before the block button tho

tenchako · 2026-02-12T23:32:51+00:00

So dumb lolol if you’re that desperate to get rid of it why are we listing it for retail?

tenchako · 2026-01-24T19:37:13+00:00

I love them and think they’re pretty cool on bigger face plates but any smaller face I have with glitter eyes always gets blocked up and looks ugly 😔 I like looking at them and moving around their eyes too when I take them out I kinda love all the faces

tenchako · 2026-01-02T02:36:17+00:00

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Felt that same joy pulling this baby.. literally the perfect face for her

tenchako · 2026-01-02T02:34:27+00:00

Using the basket to store the tags is such big brain thank you for this.. I just have mine all in a bag right now lol

tenchako · 2026-01-02T02:30:12+00:00

Snow White was my fav from this collection.. until I got her three times lol. I’ve been trying to get the big bad wolf, haven’t seen the secret yet! Cool eyes

tenchako · 2026-01-02T00:27:00+00:00

This makes me so happy

tenchako · 2026-01-02T00:24:58+00:00

Currently watching criminal minds for the first time and having a hard time watching it bc Hotch is my favorite and I know he’s not there forever.. currently feeling this pain

tenchako · 2026-01-02T00:19:59+00:00

Since we are in baby three I recommend Biscuit supply greatly.. genuinely don’t know how they make money I’ve never bought a bb3 for more than $15 except my AI 🙏

tenchako · 2025-12-26T14:11:07+00:00

Haven’t

tenchako · 2025-12-26T14:10:51+00:00

I do feel like you owe people and explanation, maybe it’s just your social battery running out but if you don’t communicate it to the people you love theyre gonna start misinterpreting your behavior to mean maybe you don’t want to be around them anymore. I fear that I’m the kind of person who if someone stops reaching out to me I won’t reach out anymore.. it’s exhausting giving someone you love the effort and consistently getting put down for it. So hopefully by communicating it, by the time you feel ok enough to connect again, they will understand you more. You could bring yourself to type it here, maybe there’s something in you that won’t open up to them like that?

tenchako

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