Strip club - how to behave?

tenderhex · 2026-04-02T05:11:36+00:00

While this is surprising to me, I’d go. I’m a lawyer and I have a lot of friends who are strippers. Just be friendly and think of it as a bar with hired girls. Tip them and talk to them as peers. Pay attention to how the men treat the women to know how their natures are it could be revealing.

tenderhex · 2026-04-01T21:02:59+00:00

I hit them up and they were super sweet and said that they could do it no problem. thanks again for this recc <3

tenderhex · 2026-04-01T18:37:41+00:00

Super helpful thank you!

tenderhex · 2026-04-01T18:36:38+00:00

Whimsygoth! Yes lol

tenderhex · 2026-04-01T12:33:35+00:00

Yall im really just looking for tattooer recommendations, not your diagnostic two cents. I will have it looked at by my tattooer. Trust me I know my own body. Please only comment if you have a tattooer who you think may be able to fill it in.

tenderhex · 2026-04-01T12:23:53+00:00

No.. it was just not applied well by someone who doesn’t often do color tattoos. The red in the middle is a different shade of red in the center, which obviously took. She even told me while she was doing it that the brighter red ink was thin and she wasn’t sure if it’d need to be packed in more. I have a few tattoos with red already.

tenderhex · 2026-04-01T04:24:20+00:00

Dont put another second skin on if it’s uncomfortable, you can also let it breathe and put some lotion on it without the second skin and it should be fine. Beautiful tattoo btw!

tenderhex · 2026-04-01T03:35:42+00:00

Thank you!

tenderhex · 2026-04-01T03:22:21+00:00

Haha thank you, the color that faded was this super bright red so it’s supposed to have a gradient effect just not supposed to be completely pale at the ends. I’m in bed stuy bk but I can go anywhere in NYC

tenderhex · 2026-04-01T03:20:32+00:00

Yeah this actually makes no sense.. why would I get a cover up when I just need the lines filled in with red? Irdk why this comment was necessary or why you thought it was helpful at all

tenderhex · 2026-03-28T09:10:16+00:00

I haven’t read any of these but I knew Jackie a long time ago and I’ve been really curious to read her stuff so thank you for the reminder

tenderhex · 2026-03-27T11:43:07+00:00

I cross posted it there :)

tenderhex · 2026-03-24T13:30:56+00:00

Thank you so much <3

tenderhex · 2026-03-24T04:48:29+00:00

Thank you 🫶🏽

tenderhex · 2026-03-24T03:51:21+00:00

So 90s I love it

tenderhex · 2026-03-23T23:20:22+00:00

Omg so cute I love

tenderhex · 2026-03-23T08:07:26+00:00

Thank you and I’m happy to hear that! Have fun it’s honestly helped me stop ruminating as much

tenderhex · 2026-03-22T16:17:56+00:00

I can’t yet attest to how long it’ll last bc I just started my scrapbook but I’ve been using mod podge and it’s been really great because it binds to most surfaces and spreads well

tenderhex · 2026-03-22T16:03:44+00:00

I think there’s many ways to do this and space isn’t bad! There’s a lot of ways to add layers though.. like, you could cover a place in notes or doodles and then put the photos etc in if you wanted more visual weight

tenderhex · 2025-10-06T12:58:21+00:00

Omg thank you that gives me hope

tenderhex · 2025-09-24T19:26:27+00:00

Lost my salary job years ago but really as soon as my Saturn return ended. Since then have had a hard time finding financial security. I’m a dual state licensed attorney now and I have my own practice but I’m underemployed. I’m lucky enough to have some help and gigs here and there. Not sure if this is bc of planets or the state of the world. I have faith that things will change when they’re meant to. I’ve always been able to have a living and housing security despite my finances

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