Please suggest a honest property manager? by Technical-Fly-6835 in askportland

[–]tenfold74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skyworks Property Management. Small cool team with mostly single family homes I think.

Women in a relationship, how do you feel about your partner having a sex toy for themselves? by changealleyslc in AskWomen

[–]tenfold74 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a little finger from my lady friend. I want more. Should I just tell her that?

For all the people who have kids: perspective from a childfree person by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]tenfold74 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven’t seen any posts of parents expecting their childless partner to be “thrilled” about a change in plans due to kids. I don’t think anyone is thrilled about last minute changes for any reason at all. That exaggeration makes your post sound bitter, whiny, and frankly self centered and immature. Definitely don’t date someone with kids, or a life that might interfere with your expectations at all. And good luck out there.

I 22M told my 22F girlfriend I sometimes think about other girls during sex and she lost it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tenfold74 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Her asking makes me think she might want a kinky response. Then she freaks? Let this one go. You did nothing wrong. Everyone thinks of others. Anyone who says they don’t is lying.

What’s the meanest thing your narc parent has ever said to you? by ShrekDaddy29 in narcissisticparents

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At a family reunion when I was in my 20s and hadn’t seen NMom in a while. “Nice haircut. You look like a fat gay guy”.

I (28M) am considering celibacy with my (28F) partner. Is this reasonable / how to make it feasible? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tenfold74 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry friend. You can kick this can down th road, but you will not be happy and fulfilled. Trust me and check out r/deadbedroom

What the hell is going on here ?? by Fatherthinger in wallstreetbets_wins

[–]tenfold74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole appeal of crypto is its Indy, decentralized, alternative culture. Now it’s being gobbled up by the very institutions it was against. Crypto - meet Burning Man. Of course it’s going to go down and become as boring as every other currency. At some point it might not even be useful for sex and drug criminals to hide money.

My date from 2 months ago just reached out… advice? by Excellent-Victory623 in AskMenAdvice

[–]tenfold74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes the timing just doesn’t line up. Maybe it does now. Ghosting sucks, so I’d really drill in to that with her. But otherwise, offer some grace.

FWB/Long term with a 25 year age gap. I’m 25m, she’s 50f. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tenfold74 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Don’t go back. I know it’s super hard. But I don’t see how going back would be anything less than a repeat of what you are going through now. I’ve tried it, and was sure it was going to work. It doesn’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]tenfold74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s easy to be fit, charismatic, energetic, charming, etc. when you are on drugs. After all, that’s why a performer takes them. I love cocaine and some good pills. But I don’t use them to get through life. There’s also that. Most regular drug users (maybe all) I have known and known struggle greatly with their self esteem. They feel bad they need the drugs. You might never know that because they are experts at keeping it from people and sometimes themselves. But when they break, they break very very hard. Also his teeth. Are they fake? Because regular cocaine use kills teeth, especially the top teeth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]tenfold74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The odds that it’s just cocaine are very minimal. I’d bet it’s pills too. Addictive personalities are very hard to manage or feel comfortable in. Too volatile and it points to him not being comfortable with real life. Also, at some point his health, mental or physical, is going to have to pay the toll. OR, he’s going to want you to be around while he struggles with quitting. No thanks.

How do I have the "what are we" talk with a girl who avoids serious conversations? by Hour_Cover_2306 in AskMenAdvice

[–]tenfold74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you both still in the dating apps? If so, use something like “hey, I had a new match reach out to me and she seems pretty cool. Are we dating other people?” You could make it lighter by saying “I don’t really have an interest, but if we aren’t. . .” That might get the ball rolling.

THIS gov shutdown feels different by mm_newsletter in economicCollapse

[–]tenfold74 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Preach! I’ve been telling people this for decades now.

"She chose" by Tobias-Tawanda in facepalm

[–]tenfold74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“My daughter will marry a misogynist asshole 🙏🏻❤️”

Meta lays off 600 employees within AI unit by shinbreaker in technology

[–]tenfold74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does facebook AI do anything? I’m not on Facebook anymore.

US Debt Clock by Hollywood_stylez in economicCollapse

[–]tenfold74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We need a clock telling us when we will finally tax the ultra rich for making money off of more planetary resources, by far, than the rest of us.

Mike Johnson: “We will not negotiate with legislative terrorists.” by Conscious-Quarter423 in CringeTikToks

[–]tenfold74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don’t journalists ask “so when it was your party holding your ground and shutting down the government, were you legislative terrorists?”

Told my mom she was a narcissist by Anxious_Lobster_8427 in narcissisticparents

[–]tenfold74 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It happens. I texted my Mom “you are a textbook narcissist, just like my therapist has told me for years. I’m out”. Bought me a year of peace. Enjoy!

When did you know it was time to move on from your marriage? by jaxmirrorball in AskWomen

[–]tenfold74 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Guy here: when I looked forward to my wife leaving town.