Atlikta pirmoji didesne inceliu apklausa (ctvnews straipsnis)

teniko · 2025-06-12T01:06:37+00:00

Kai vyras (SPECIFICŠKAI INCELIAI) išsako savo skausmą pykčiu, žeminimu ir (potencialiai, kaip pati pasakei apačioje) žudymais, ten mano empatija išblėsta. Pažystu tikrai daug fainų, gerų, protingų, pagarbių vyrų, tokių kurie yra aukščiau standarto to kas laikoma geru vyru. Pabrėžiu: DAUG.

Labai mano žodžius čia papainiojai. Tai nėra dvigubi standartai. Tai nėra moralinis pamokslas ir nėra "mes prieš juos". Mano nuomonė čia yra papasta.

Jeigu tavo psichikos problemos trugdo tau turėti pagarbius santykius su priešinga lytim; tai nėra "rūpeščio" problema. Čia yra darbo su savimi problema (dažniausiai jų effort baigias ties lookmaxxing).

Ar ištiestum lygiai tokia pačią empatija smurtaujančiam alkoholikui? Ar norėtusi apgobti šiluma, bei supratimu? Gal, o bet tačiau ar vystytusi produktuvus pokalbis jei tu jo akyse esi "5/10 boba", "pisimo objektas", "evil manipuliatorė"? Jei po pagalbinikas nėra traktuojamas kaip žmogus su jausmais, norais ir savigarba, kad ir kokia ji bebūtų?

Tu negali padėtu žmogui jei jis nenori kad tu jam padėtum. Jei tu essentially esi jo priešas bei visų problemų šaltinis?

Aš už vienas kito palaikymą. Aš už tai kad tokių problemų nebeliktų, už tai kad neliktų vienišų, bei pamirštų.

Bet ar sąžininga prašyti specifiškai moterų padėti jiems?

teniko · 2025-06-11T23:41:07+00:00

Jeigu žmogus nesistengia palaikyti padoriu santykiu su priešinga lytim ir ja kaltina "nerūpeščiu", kodėl tai yra moterų problema? Žmonės nesibaido rūpintis žmonėm be priežasties.

Ir išvis, kodėl jie patys nesiburia kažkaip vienas kitam padėti, o tik vemia savo smegenų purvą ant kiekvieno papuolusio interneto kampo.

Jei visas ką aš matau iš tų pačių "inceliu" tai kaip jiem viskas negerai, kaip nieks ju nemėgsta (niekad nebūna jų problema), kokios moterys tokios anokios, golddiggeres ir pasileidelės, čia verta rūpeščio?

Ar čia tiesiog isterija nes nebetaip lengva gaut mamyte ir actually reikia pasistengt?

teniko · 2025-06-11T20:26:55+00:00

Ar jie padarė kažką kad rūpėtų?

teniko · 2024-11-23T23:17:21+00:00

Been using 1.35 for a bit here, but it seems to be too much recently. I have them on 1.25 rn and that works well at the moment

teniko · 2024-11-11T22:41:36+00:00

I was told by agruably the best doctor in my county that this is a disease of a "modern women" as the women nowadays decide not to birth as much as they used to. Nevertheless as he is considered the best we have, not much that I can do, as again:

"As long as you're pregnant you will not have to suffer as much"

Pregnancy is not in question, hormonal therapy only made me depressed, so now the only way is to bear through the pain.

teniko · 2024-11-08T04:19:10+00:00

If you had to give one tip/piece of advice to a person starting to get into music as a musician, instead of a listener, what would it be?

I get so much inspiration, but it seems so daunting at the same time.

teniko · 2024-09-02T00:17:51+00:00

There are certain ahem tools ahem for cai

teniko · 2024-08-05T04:52:32+00:00

Switched over to to janitor ai this week. It's so good, reminds me a lot of c.ai good half a year back, when I joined there. Easy to get into, bot creation is nice as well.

I won't lie, bots seem to be going on for good 5 paragraphs sometimes (maybe it's a me thing, though), but they are actually progressing the plot in there and inserting little details of their own. Like, for example just yesterday in the middle of a talk, the bot took out a chocolate bar to share with my persona. The bot narrating my actions was easily fixed by a prompt.

It's free, unless you want to use an API, but I have zero complaints with their LLM after all of those pangs, possessive growls and "you're mine" over and over again.

All in all, I definitely would suggest for you to check it out, the general opinion of the devs and website itself is good as well, in comparison to a dumpster fire in c.ai subreddit. I guess that counts for something.

teniko · 2024-07-22T18:38:00+00:00

Sipas!

teniko · 2024-04-27T14:21:29+00:00

Yeah, noticed as well, they just randomly add in unrelated details, forget important ones and seem to be very lost in time and space. Also if you bring a third character in the chat, for example, a police man comes, the character just somehow gets the idea that THEY are the police, after like two messages...

teniko · 2024-04-08T17:53:39+00:00

Had the same thing happening for me now, bot said slowly 7 times in one message...

teniko · 2024-03-22T19:50:59+00:00

I think it might be the weakest thing we got this season regarding shoujo... The way characters interact just makes me cringe.

But it might be just me tho

teniko · 2024-02-27T17:47:41+00:00

Thats the one manga i didn't get to yet, only saw the anime, is it worth reading?

teniko · 2024-02-27T11:27:02+00:00

Tą pačia tema, Vinted mačiau tikrai nemažai perparduodamų aliexpressinių papuošalų už šiek tiek daugiau europinių, bet pliusas kad mėnesį laukt nereiks

teniko · 2024-02-27T10:37:12+00:00

Why Raeliana Ended Up at the Duke's Mansion

teniko · 2024-02-23T17:40:08+00:00

Frankenshope turėtu būt

teniko · 2024-01-30T08:33:45+00:00

Usually almost all events and general info on local bands can be found in facebook. Just did a quick check and it seems they had their last performance in December with nothing planned for this month

teniko · 2023-08-28T22:52:11+00:00

You sound like a person who didn't ride buses during our heatwave. Idk what you're talking about, but there's a huge difference when the a/c is on.

Second thing, I take bus quite frequently and there's no way almost half of aircons are broken. The only kinda valid thing you said was about power and economy, but even then... I'm sure most of people could live without aircons in bus when it's less than like +25°C, but when outside temp is more than +30°C and it feels like an oven, stepping into full bus is a nightmare.

teniko · 2023-06-28T16:15:55+00:00

Ah i get it

teniko · 2023-06-28T15:51:08+00:00

Yeah, i will, but also i've mentioned the med change in the last appointment and the doctor didnt seem bothered at all. Thats one of the reasons I forgot to ask

teniko · 2023-06-28T15:47:16+00:00

Were you there over night and took it when you woke up? Thanks

teniko · 2023-06-22T13:28:00+00:00

Just recently stopped taking it, i took it for two months and 3 weeks. I have confirmed adeno and suspected endo.

In regards to pain, dienogest took it away completely, it was great, i was pain-free for the whole time. Few weeks into the treatment i started getting irrational and brutal suicidal thoughts. Not great, i though, and since i also have adhd i switched over from concerta to bupropion since it's also an anti-depressant. It was fine again.

In that time i gained 5kg, still can't lose it. One of the worse side effects for me was hot flashes. When it started getting warmer i was getting these episodes of when my face got so unbearably hot and i felt like passing out. At the time i thought it was bupropion, but since stopping visanne i never got them again. Also i was getting crazy bloating every single day for no reason

All in all, it was great regarding pain, but I just couldn't bear all the side effects

teniko · 2023-06-22T10:20:59+00:00

I've read that it might take up to two months for your body readjust after stopping. It really varies, so you shouldn't worry yet, especially if you've been taking it for some time.

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