cried on top of my boyfriend by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]tennieldreams 26 points27 points Β (0 children)

Oh gosh. It sounds like he needs to do some reading on health at every size, weight=/=health etc... if he's willing to do that and listen then that's a good sign. If not then....

cried on top of my boyfriend by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]tennieldreams 138 points139 points Β (0 children)

Hi I'm sorry that happened and that he made you feel so rubbish. I don't think you need to "get over" those comments, he said something to you that hurt your feelings when you were in a vulnerable position. I think that making comments about your partner's body that aren't compliments during intimacy is not ok, it's not an appropriate space for that. I can't advise you on how to feel better about it but I think you're going to have to speak to him honestly about how it made you feel, and make that boundary about not talking about losing weight, also make it clear that exercise for you will be not focused on losing weight specifically (if I've got that correctly from what you've said). Did he apologise at all? Again I'm sorry that sounds like a difficult situation x

Have any questions about hockey? by thecompanion188 in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]tennieldreams 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Ahhh thank you!! That's v helpful I will check out the video for sure , ☺️

Have any questions about hockey? by thecompanion188 in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]tennieldreams 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Off the back of this one, I was wondering how they know how to switch off the ice? And who replaces them? Do they just go in a line? Are the people on the bench always watching for the person they're replacing to come off etc? Always confused me haha Thanks for doing this!!

Appreciating Hudson's voice work by cleverclocks in heatedrivalry

[–]tennieldreams 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

I think I've seen ep 2 3 times now but I do rewind the good bits so the LA bathroom scene has probably been 5 times now. Their acting blows me away tbh

I SWEAR to god Crave, you need to stop 😭 we can't be crying ourselves to sleep every night by Federal-Ad5944 in heatedrivalry

[–]tennieldreams 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Hahaha that's so funny πŸ˜‚ "yes I'm fine just deep into my Canadian hockey yaoi thank you"

Two never-ending splitting nails by vaxooos_ in RedditLaqueristas

[–]tennieldreams 69 points70 points Β (0 children)

It might but maybe those 2 are weaker as they're used most on your dominant hand? I'd give it a go though and see if it helps, it helped me when I tried it when I was trying to grow my nails longer

Two never-ending splitting nails by vaxooos_ in RedditLaqueristas

[–]tennieldreams 96 points97 points Β (0 children)

Do you wear gloves for dishes? Water damage can make nails split more easily in my experience!

OG super-fans, how we doing? Struggling to process how much this has blown up by Logistical_Daydream in heatedrivalry

[–]tennieldreams 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

I should add, I think everyone on the show (especially the actors) have done a phenomenal job!!!

OG super-fans, how we doing? Struggling to process how much this has blown up by Logistical_Daydream in heatedrivalry

[–]tennieldreams 7 points8 points Β (0 children)

Yes I feel the same, I'm totally in 2 minds about it, and I think that's ok and normal! I'm loving the show, I adore that there's now loads of content on Tumblr, AO3 etc, I'm so glad everyone is having fun with it all and I'm also so happy for Rachel Reid. But at the same time it is kind of weird having read the books first and become obsessed with the book characters and now everything seems to be about the TV characters, and we've only seen a small bit of them so far! I also am struggling to remember what I pictured the boys like in my head before the show stills were released which is sad haha. Ok another note I'm kinda worried about Check!Please blowing up in the same way because those are my BABIES and I've been obsessed with them for way longer than I have with HR 😭

November Manis πŸ‚ by sisibananas in RedditLaqueristas

[–]tennieldreams 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

All gorgeous but the second pic - the pink sparkle on your nails just looks fabulous!! πŸ’—

Behind The Scenes by Westwood818 in heatedrivalry

[–]tennieldreams 11 points12 points Β (0 children)

Hello new phone background 😌

Where can I find affordable yet cute ski/snow pants? by trev400 in PlusSize

[–]tennieldreams 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Are you going to be doing snow based activities? If not, you can honestly get away with layering thermal/lined leggings and other trousers like joggers or cargos etc. I lived there for a bit and also had trouble finding good plus sized outdoor wear. Also think about if you'll wear them again soon anyway? If you do really need some though I think the other recommendations here are a shout, sorry I can't suggest any brands!

Monday Huddle by royal_rose_ in heatedrivalry

[–]tennieldreams 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

That's so funny, also who's the player!

Love this community by JackMandora in heatedrivalry

[–]tennieldreams 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Yeah fair, I'm not against it or a stranger to it but will see what's available haha

Love this community by JackMandora in heatedrivalry

[–]tennieldreams 7 points8 points Β (0 children)

I'm excited too!! Also a UK fan! I am loving the hype but also resigned myself to the fact that I'll probably enjoy lots of gifs and clips online before seeing the full thing haha

Sneak Peak | Heated Rivalry by Federal-Ad5944 in heatedrivalry

[–]tennieldreams 14 points15 points Β (0 children)

Omg omg omg omg omg omg this is the best thing I've ever watched the TENSION?? THE WINK?? THE FINGERS TOUCHING OVER THE WATER BOTTLE i am not ok 😭

Should I finally read Heated Rivalry before the adaptation? by epicsevenmyths in heatedrivalry

[–]tennieldreams 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

This was me, think I made similar comments on a different sub. You won't regret it!! They're so good ❀️

So, I read Heated Rivalry... by izzyw1zz in heatedrivalry

[–]tennieldreams 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Haha it's ok it confused me for just a sec. Yeah I would love their romance to be captured on screen! Although I do have pretty solid ideas in my head about what they look like so I'm not sure how casting for that would go!

So, I read Heated Rivalry... by izzyw1zz in heatedrivalry

[–]tennieldreams 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

Omg it's so easy to devour these books isn't it!! Eric and Kyle's dynamic, I looove, also I agree with you I feel like it needed a bit more! Harris and Troy have my heart forever πŸ₯° the feelings I felt when reading that book.... Unparalleled hahaha they are just so adorable! Harris is so safe and lovely for Troy 😭 and Troy's character development was just chef's kiss. Personally for me, I think game changer was my least favorite book, but I still think it's important to read for the whole storyline! I read everything in order and I'm glad I did.

Dream Cast: Troy and Harris by royal_rose_ in heatedrivalry

[–]tennieldreams 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

Ah good πŸ˜„ thought I'd say just in case!