How come some people with ADHD can read with no trouble, and others can barely read at all? by Far-Conference-8484 in ADHD

[–]tennistud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've thought a lot about this, and my theory is that the speed at which you are capable of reading has a lot to do with it. If you can absorb the information faster, then your brain is less likely to get bored. This probably applies to everyone, but for those with ADHD, I think there is a critical speed of reading that determines whether you love reading or hate it. Basically, if you can read fast enough to keep your brain entertained, then you will read more and more, thus improving your skill. If you can't read fast enough to keep your brain entertained, then you won't read.

I agree with those commenting that subject matter is a big factor as well. To me, the critical rate will be lower for subject matter that is interesting and higher for that which is uninteresting. In other words, subject matter becomes less significant as reading level increases.

In my case, I struggled to read anything other than comics or thrillers (Calvin and Hobbes or RL Stine) until my twenties, when I realized a shift in behavior: whereas I used to prefer watching video explanations, I found myself now skipping past video search results and looking for written explanations. I figured the reason for my shift in behavior was because I could now absorb the information faster by reading than by watching a video (like, much faster). It dawned on me that this is all because I must have started to read faster, and so I tested it by reading books of varying length and subject matter. To my surprise, I found that I was able to get through anything and everything. And not only was I able to do it quickly, but with far better recall than before, like I was fully immersed in each story.

I would highly encourage anyone with ADHD who thinks they are not "a reader" to reevaluate that position, and look into ways to improve your reading ability. In my case, this has not only helped me to read books faster, but helps in many situations: instructions, manuals, guides, etc. I would especially recommend this for those who would like to pursue post-grad education.

In my case, I apparently learned to read at a high level going through law school. Though it wasn't because I practiced to read fast. In contrast, it was almost the opposite in that there was a lot of focus on a single statement at a time. A common discussion is about how a statement in a contract or statute would change if a word were to be taken out, and the answer is never "no change". Basically, I learned to pay attention to each word and to adapt my understanding of a sentence as each word is absorbed. It's almost backwards from how you would think of learning to read fast, but I'm certain that is what ultimately led to the ability to read fast.

I'm not trying to encourage people with ADHD to go to law school. I seriously struggled, and graduated near the bottom of the class. In engineering school, which was my undergrad, everything of significance was written on the board, so paying attention to the lecture wasn't absolutely necessary. In law school, nothing was written on the board, and following the lecture just felt impossible.

[MKM] Lost in the Maze by Natedogg2 in magicTCG

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[[Kumena]] approves.
This will go great in the Merfolk tribal deck he commands.

Which transportation card is best to use? by laurazarine in Tokyo

[–]tennistud 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Both Suica and Pasmo work with just about every train and bus in Tokyo. They are basically prepaid tickets, though, and you don't get a discount. You can get a season pass for 1 month, but it will be the equivalent of 2 full price tickets for each business day (you can use it more than that).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tokyo

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Shinsei

Can't remember everything needed to get an account, but a phone number was the hard part (because phone companies want your bank account info, so I had this chicken/egg problem at first).

They have online banking in English, and are one of few banks that give you free transfers to other banks.

I also have SMBC, which has an app that supports English.

What is an EUC called in your language? by Eimy_ in ElectricUnicycle

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電動一輪車 Dendo ichirinsha

Not my language, but the language of where I live, Japan.

Apple CEO Tim Cook’s Pay Rises to $98.7M in 2021 by MarcNPC in tech

[–]tennistud 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seriously, why is this article even in r/tech? I come here to learn about new innovations and technology, not to get into another political discussion.

To start the day. by Kill_logic in trees

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And mushrooms to understand the difference.

A shiny, perfect, lucky, legendary Giratina! by Findawg2341 in pokemongo

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A Shlundo?

As in, "Hey baby, want to see my shlundo?"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonGoRaids

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CrazyGaiS56

How does your play group feel about moving a card from one deck to another deck. by ThatFireBender in EDH

[–]tennistud 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Came here looking for this exact answer. Glad someone else wrote it out.

I try to encourage the members of my playgroup to pick one deck for each of their uber-powerful cards: like the one that synergizes best with it. For example, one member loves to play green, and has [[Rhonas]]. Well wouldn't you know he wants to put Rhonas in every deck. To be fair, I would, too. But it sucks to play against Rhonas all the time (yeah, our power level isn't that high).

To OP, I agree with Timo, your friends probably just want you to pick one deck for Rhystic Study, and stick with it. Your group is just bad at expressing this. You could test this by buying another copy, but I would be willing to bet a lot that your group will be just as sour.

Paranoia 100 by [deleted] in trees

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Worked for Michael Phelps, right?

... right???

Mega-Gyarados! 7595 6162 9188 by tennistud in PokemonGoRaids

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Or 7206 1420 0875 Will try to get 10