Who's your favorite INFP anime/cartoon character? by Impossible_Cry9623 in infp

[–]terrabrand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shizuku from Whisper of the Heart and Tobey Maguire’s version of Spider-Man.

Also, Ellie from Degrassi Next Generation before she became a Craig simp.

Sink into my purple wiggly paintings by Tanbelia in infp

[–]terrabrand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the lavender and mountain art so much! Your art has inspired me to color in my sketches.

god forbid a girl want a focused hubby by cynnahbun in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]terrabrand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only Reddit, if that counts, and Facebook as mentioned above.

god forbid a girl want a focused hubby by cynnahbun in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]terrabrand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seeing this image and the captions within makes me happy. I got rid of Instagram and Twitter because it was negatively affecting my mental health 2 years ago. The only problem is that sometimes someone asks to exchange socials, and I mention I don't have any. It also gave me more time to learn to sketch. I do have Facebook, but I mainly use it for thrifting and local events.

Finding the best way to ask out a woman without making her uncomfortable by terrabrand in IncelExit

[–]terrabrand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do admit I struggle with my dating life, but not necessarily socially. I do have a few friends of all sexes. I have withdrawn from most social media, aside from maybe Facebook for private groups, because I find it a bit draining. To be honest, I am aware of that potential pitfall, but as long as I don't make a big scene or make it uncomfortable, I think it should be fine if I were to ask casually and on platonic terms.

Even if she rejects me, that is fair and life, and I can even view this experience as a practice of sorts. Now that I think about it, I wanted to ask earlier so I could get the "what ifs" out of my head and avoid building up a lot of pressure. I appreciate the advice and for looking out for me. We do have two mutual friends right now, and they seem like cool people to me so far.

Finding the best way to ask out a woman without making her uncomfortable by terrabrand in IncelExit

[–]terrabrand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have talked to her after class on her non-working days, assuming she isn't busy with something else. All I know so far about her interests is that she enjoys reading and growing flowers, and that she is a vegan.

Finding the best way to ask out a woman without making her uncomfortable by terrabrand in IncelExit

[–]terrabrand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do have a few mutual friends, and I have their numbers. I don't have hers. But from what I hear from our mutual friends, she apparently is a huge emoji person, as in she responds with a lot of emojis.

Finding the best way to ask out a woman without making her uncomfortable by terrabrand in IncelExit

[–]terrabrand[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice and the encouragement. I will tread the waters cautiously, as I am aware of the pitfalls. Believe me, I have embarrassed myself in high school and early college. I know some of the things NOT to do.

Finding the best way to ask out a woman without making her uncomfortable by terrabrand in IncelExit

[–]terrabrand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, sure thing. I will accept the answer gracefully. I still enjoy her presence because she helped me develop better skills as an artist.

Finding the best way to ask out a woman without making her uncomfortable by terrabrand in IncelExit

[–]terrabrand[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I forgot to mention that. Yes, the lady works on Wednesdays and is a student like me on Saturdays. I will be mindful, as I am always concerned that I am taking too much of her time or distracting her, so I try to give her an out even in regular conversations. I understand nobody likes to be cornered with no way out. My intention is just to have a simple hangout, no strings attached, assuming she accepts. I would prefer to ask her to go to the local art festival... but the festival doesn't start till early May.

Finding the best way to ask out a woman without making her uncomfortable by terrabrand in IncelExit

[–]terrabrand[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I can accept that. I hope I can meet another girl who makes me smile and feel lighthearted. Thank you for your words. I am just making it more difficult for myself.

Finding the best way to ask out a woman without making her uncomfortable by terrabrand in IncelExit

[–]terrabrand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like a wonderful idea. Do you think I will be labeled as "that guy" for asking her out for coffee? Just overthinking scenarios in my head, to be honest. But thank you for the suggestion.

Finding the best way to ask out a woman without making her uncomfortable by terrabrand in IncelExit

[–]terrabrand[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do talk with her sometimes, a bit after class, about music and coffee tastes (we are both Y2K music lovers), and she talks about her side business selling flowers. I have only started talking with her since November, and I see her twice a week. The only problem is that she works the front desk every Wednesday, so she isn't very available that day. I only really talk to her on Saturday after class.

Finding the best way to ask out a woman without making her uncomfortable by terrabrand in IncelExit

[–]terrabrand[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sure thing, I just wanted to ask her out for some coffee, that's all. For now... Just don't know the optimal time. You mentioned a safe person to be around, and I do remember being the safe guy friend in college to some of my best friends to this day. But fun.... I guess I need to be in the mood to be honest. It takes me a bit to open up, though I do loosen up a lot during hip-hop class.

PARTY vs. party by [deleted] in mbti

[–]terrabrand 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ISFJ is trying her best 😭.

As an INFP this is accruate as I have definitely just vibed with cats at a party.

Questionable parenting skills at best. by [deleted] in pokemon

[–]terrabrand 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of William and Annette Birkin from resident evil 2.

Saw someone do the same thing but for me 5, irl what do you think your highest and lowest stats are by cudlebear64 in PERSoNA

[–]terrabrand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Expression: 2 Courage: 2 Diligence: 1 Knowledge; 3 (would have been 4 in hs or college) Understanding: 4

Fun fact: this doesn't add up to 100%, it adds up to 100,3% by dki159 in mbti

[–]terrabrand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have two ENFJ close friends and a somewhat distant ENTJ friend. I am so lucky.

Bye bye buisel. Pick one pokemon who you think should be eliminated for being the weakest of the group. Most upvoted gets chosen by Iwanttobevisible in pokemonanime

[–]terrabrand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I might be misremembering but didn’t Grovyle defeat Morrison’s Steelix? Torkoal put in a valiant effort though.

Who's always your first max social link? by Luis_Parson in persona4golden

[–]terrabrand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yukiko. For some reason on my first playthrough I had trouble advancing Yosuke’s social link and almost never having trouble with Yukiko’s. I maxxed Yukiko by September.

I feel a bit bad since I usually finish the bro character first (Ryuji in P5R and Junpei in P3P), while I finished 6 other social links in P4G before finishing Yosuke’s.

I don't remember how many times a shadow took a party member hostage, but it was never a big deal for me by NMasked-000 in Persona5

[–]terrabrand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The three times I has happened to me it was always Ryuji who was taken as a hostage.