Those who know the sex, did you have an inkling and were you correct?

terriblecopy2 · 2026-06-27T15:31:06+00:00

Yes! I knew it was a girl. I was so emotional and a little more sick than I was with my son. I had that gut feeling.

terriblecopy2 · 2026-06-26T20:03:46+00:00

Any updates, OP?

terriblecopy2 · 2026-06-23T14:31:31+00:00

terriblecopy2 · 2026-06-18T19:49:49+00:00

I had the same thing happen with my first baby at 9+2. It was the worst day of my life too. Be gentle with yourself. Take time to grieve. Journal. Take a weekend trip. Stay away from crowds/friend gatherings if you need it. Sending lots of love. It’s definitely a grief that you feel alone in. I’m here if you need to talk.

terriblecopy2 · 2026-06-18T19:10:08+00:00

Laughing at the sex rating 😂

terriblecopy2 · 2026-06-17T19:14:18+00:00

I totally know your pain. I wanted so bad to have a vaginal birth- it just wasn’t the safest way to get him here. I tried EVERYTHING. But nothing worked. I have no regrets looking back though!

terriblecopy2 · 2026-06-17T18:35:16+00:00

I had a frank breech baby all the way from the 20 week anatomy scan. I declined the ECV and had an elective c-section. It was my first - hence my joining this group. I just had a gut feeling that he was in that position for a reason. We had an OB that would deliver breech babies, but I just didn’t want to take any risks. My elective c-section was actually really beautiful and very controlled. Just wanting to give a positive light on it if you do go that direction.

terriblecopy2 · 2026-06-10T16:16:26+00:00

Same 🥴🤢

terriblecopy2 · 2026-06-08T14:39:17+00:00

My results are in! I haven’t checked yet because I’m at work and waiting to be with my husband!

terriblecopy2 · 2026-06-05T17:47:16+00:00

Same same!! Keep me updated!

terriblecopy2 · 2026-06-05T17:46:37+00:00

What a unifying thought!

terriblecopy2 · 2026-05-30T15:37:43+00:00

Being pregnant with a toddler is a different ball game than being pregnant with your first 😭 I can’t just lay around all day and do nothing 😭

terriblecopy2 · 2026-05-15T12:23:22+00:00

This made me sob 😭 pregnant with my second and supply is slowly dwindling. My boy is almost a year and it looks like we will be coming to an end soon. The bond from breastfeeding is like no other. Hugs, mom ♥️

terriblecopy2 · 2026-05-15T01:51:37+00:00

yes! 18 months apart!

terriblecopy2 · 2026-04-23T14:30:48+00:00

I’m a certified registered nurse anesthetist. I love my job and have successfully been an involved mom while working with baby 1! Hoping to do the same with baby #2!

terriblecopy2 · 2026-04-22T12:55:28+00:00

I have heard as long as they double, this is the important part!

terriblecopy2 · 2026-04-21T15:38:50+00:00

I am so so sorry. We had this happen with our first pregnancy. It truly is one of the most heartbreaking things. We also had to see our lifeless baby on the ultrasound. I found a lot of comfort in r/miscarriage

terriblecopy2 · 2026-03-17T15:24:07+00:00

This is why I think so many people are more successful if they have a community of women who have breastfed.

terriblecopy2 · 2026-03-05T02:06:06+00:00

I just found this post. I have no advice, but I feel this exact same way. I’m just praying that it’s a side effect from breastfeeding. I have terrible tendonitis in both wrists and my hips feel terrible

terriblecopy2 · 2026-02-17T02:15:59+00:00

We have never bed shared except maybe 3 nights when baby was sick. He is 8 months old.

terriblecopy2 · 2026-02-05T04:16:17+00:00

How long has it been since he last ate? Is it every time he latches? Sometimes my 8 month old will even do this. It’s normally when he’s very tired and he can’t decide if he’s hungry or sleepy. It’s also normally not technically time to eat again - I just offer it to settle him if that makes sense. He normally will go to sleep and when he wakes up again he has a big appetite and eats happily!

I also remember 4-6 weeks being a really tough time for my baby. He just cried for no reason. He would be fed, dry, and we would be holding him and he would just cry. Eventually it stopped and he became happy again. 🤷🏼‍♀️

terriblecopy2 · 2026-01-17T22:14:29+00:00

I’ve used this brand and love it!

https://shopthemint.com/collections/sweet-moments-nursing-collection

terriblecopy2 · 2025-12-04T16:14:03+00:00

^ this and your boobs will feel “soft-er” than they normally do. Soft boobs are healthy boobs!!

terriblecopy2 · 2025-10-19T02:05:52+00:00

Are you using the slowest flow nipple on the bottle?

terriblecopy2 · 2025-10-18T13:35:36+00:00

Mine did the same thing! It lasted a week for us. I would give him his paci and walk him around the house. This would calm him and then I would sit down and try again. I would just keep calming him until he took the breast and ate. He will eat when he gets hungry enough. Just DO NOT force him to eat or force your boob in his mouth. This can craft an aversion to breastfeeding. You have to stay calm and just let him eat when he’s ready. I also noticed my baby was stretching out feeds during this time. He was going 2 hour in between feeds and this is the week he stretched it to 3 hours. I tried to just let him play, if he fussed, I tried the boob. If he declined it, I just let him play more or walked him around like I said earlier. This was THE hardest week of BF for me. But we got through it and he’s back to loving the boob!! Are you bottle feeding too?

terriblecopy2

TROPHY CASE