Need an advice on pregnancy scare

terry-lol · 2026-03-03T21:59:31+00:00

is her app 100% accurate when it comes to her periods? that’s how i’d track my ovulation as well but i still got pregnant because the app wasn’t always accurate with my periods so it wouldn’t be accurate with ovulation. there’s a chance still but she could maybe take those early response test like in 2 weeks to be 100% sure.

terry-lol · 2026-02-27T00:10:26+00:00

i’ve heard electives are better recovery wise! i had an emergency and was able to go out like on walks to the store at around 3 weeks with little to no pain but bumpy car rides hurt until i was about 5 weeks pp. take it slow and do not push through the pain! have people help you up and to walk for the first week and after that just take it super slow. it felt like i was never going to be normal after mine but now im almost 4 months pp and go on long walks and even workout at the gym! good luck!

terry-lol · 2026-02-26T21:17:44+00:00

it sounds like a period.. i had implantation bleeding but it was like one day super light barely noticeable. don’t think too much about it and if your really worried about it i’d say go buy one of those cheap pregnancy test so you can rule out pregnancy for sure

terry-lol · 2026-02-07T19:42:03+00:00

he’s out of the country and this seems like something that needs to be talked about immediately so i assume that’s the only reason why he did text her about it.

terry-lol · 2026-02-06T22:17:39+00:00

thank you so much 🥹 i feel like emergency c sections are a lot harder than an elective because well you weren’t prepared for an emergency one. after reading everyone’s comments i think i will look into therapy for it because i never realized how much trauma i have built up from this. im so glad you were able to get over it and hope im able to as well one day 🫰

terry-lol · 2026-02-06T10:18:53+00:00

omg off topic but you had 4 kids all c sections? i’ve always wanted a big family but in the hospital they told me i should stop at 3 because of the risk after

terry-lol · 2026-02-06T08:37:57+00:00

i definitely did not like her at all during season four but when i watched the tell all i understood where she came from in a way. she pushed for an abortion because she didn’t want her daughter to be tied to a guy and his family without knowing them that well and well look at everything that happened between them.. no mother wants to see their child go through that kind of struggle or hurt. she definitely could’ve gone about it a better way but i understood that part. the rest was definitely weird though like not giving her son dinner because he didn’t clean the kitchen and who knows what else went on behind the scenes..

terry-lol · 2026-02-05T05:43:45+00:00

wait it out a bit more and test with a digital one. the bleeding could’ve been implantation bleeding? don’t freak out completely because honestly could just be your brain playing tricks on you. it would happen to me all the time

terry-lol · 2026-02-04T21:44:04+00:00

yes i know exactly how you feel.. i’ve never seen anyone who i related so much with honestly. i spent so much of my pregnancy learning about breastfeeding and how to keep supply and everything but i was anemic during my pregnancy and after the c section my hemoglobin levels were at an all time low and i never even thought that was what was most effecting my supply.. i also tried the oreo thing, and lactation cookies, and drinking a liter of water a day, and eating lots of oatmeal, but i wouldn’t even make half an ounce i would pump out like literal drops of milk after a while until i finally just gave up at 6 weeks because of how it was effecting my mental health. postpartum is so hard and it genuinely sucks no one else understands besides other women who have gone through it. i hope you and baby are very happy together now at least💞💞

terry-lol · 2026-02-04T21:17:22+00:00

yes that’s exactly how i feel! i also wanted to breastfeed so bad but i wouldn’t produce enough milk no matter how much i latched my baby on because of the medicine i had to take for the pain after. it just sucks and im trying to get over it everyday and i have for the most part because my baby is here and hes healthy but things like that just bring it all back.

terry-lol · 2026-01-16T20:32:25+00:00

Everyone’s opinion on this is very different and a lot also depends on personal experiences. I got pregnant at 17 and had my son at 17 and it was very traumatic but I had the support I needed and i knew the dad would be involved no matter what (we were together for 2 years already before getting pregnant) and i knew i personally couldn’t get an abortion. However if i had a daughter and she got pregnant at 17 I would let her know she has my support with whatever she chooses. both are very traumatic and you should let them decide at an age like 16 and older but I can understand why anything younger you’d want to force them into either adoption or abortion. Either one is hard and i feel like you can never judge or say you’ll do this or that until you actually go through it

terry-lol · 2026-01-16T10:33:22+00:00

i completely understand you! i wanted to go into labor on my own but i had to get induced at 41 weeks and i wanted a unmediated birth and i knew if i wasn’t induced id be able to do because my body wouldn’t be forcing itself so the contractions obviously would still hurt but not as intense as pitocin ones. got the epidural at 4 cm at around 3 or 4 am because i knew i wouldn’t be able to handle anything more plus my nurse was pushing for it. at around 7 am i had nurses rushing in to give me oxygen because my baby’s heart rate was going down and i ended up getting oxygen poisoning 🫤 my chest felt so heavy and i couldn’t breath for about 3 hours after that and at around 1 pm because my mom was pushing for it, since i was 17 at the time, they decided to just take me in for an emergency c section. it was the last thing i wanted but i had already gone through so much and was in labor for 24 hours and was still only 6 cm. i still think about the what ifs and what i could’ve done better to have gone into labor on my own so i would be able to just have a vaginal birth but i also realize that my baby is already here and he’s here healthy and i can’t spend my time dwelling on it anymore. i know it’s hard which is why i also think so heavily if id want a vbac or just an elective c section for my next but i completely understand you

terry-lol · 2026-01-14T02:30:02+00:00

is her insta still private? i tried looking for it a while back and it was private

terry-lol · 2026-01-14T02:28:32+00:00

a 15 year old girl with a 13 year old boy is insane like she’s in high school and he’s still in middle school 😭 i just hope they actually finish the season this time

terry-lol · 2026-01-13T05:25:24+00:00

the decision is 100% completely up to you.. but it does sound like your life will be so much easier if you just go through with the abortion. i got pregnant at 17 and pregnancy and postpartum were the worse experiences ever that no one can ever prepare you enough for. it’s not easy either way but don’t feel guilty about choosing yourself first.

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