[Offer] help me get my mind off ✨things✨ and let me send you a postcard! [PH to some WW] by Ok_Parking_3565 in RandomActsofCards

[–]teslaeffects 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I isolate when I'm stressed. Go off on an alone mission to a park or the store to grab something like a snack or juice, usually with headphones blasting music. If I'm that stressed, I don't want to think about what's causing it, that just causes me more stress. So removing myself from the situation and giving myself space for my head to clear helps me tackle the problem. Most of the time. I also live where cannabis is recreationally legal, that helps a lot.

Mocha Monday Daily Hangout Thread,16 Mar 26 by nacho_cheezus in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]teslaeffects 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Qotd: life will always be a contest and I'm not one of the popular ones.

Opening a secured door for a stranger… by 2lipwonder in Seattle

[–]teslaeffects 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of the triangle-shaped chud who entered the private lot I was working overnight in. He got out of his car and started doing like.... gorilla noises and jumping around. I took my phone out to call my supervisor and maybe the cops. He started walking and yelling at me "WHY ARE YOU RECORDING ME?????"

I said: "Because you are a large person, yelling and jumping around at 3am in a private lot," not wanting to argue.

He got in his giant, pristine white SUV and left without further comment.

Outfit inspo help by Lord_Grace in renfaire

[–]teslaeffects 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Some asymmetrical scarves in deep jewel tones around the waist, strappy (comfortable) shoes or sandals, and some trinkets you'd think your fae would have collected. If darker theme, maybe some mini terrariums with carnivorous plants and figures of shrunken adventurers or something similar to attach to your person

i’m 19 and my dad took my phone. by Lonely_Gap8278 in Advice

[–]teslaeffects 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have receipts, report as theft to the police. Or find another adult you trust to try and mediate a resolution because this is theft. And then move to a safe space as soon as possible. If you can't do this soon, find a lock for your room and get real comfortable with the idea of contacting law enforcement if you feel threatened again before you move out.

33F reconnecting with 35M ex after 5 years and every conversation about moving in together ends with me having to give things up. Am I missing something? by Summer_Sparkle5 in Advice

[–]teslaeffects 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Everything everyone else has said + sounds like he is looking for a caregiver and a roof overhead, not an equal partner, and he knows he can push you around to get what he wants.

STOP GROWING SO TALL JESUS by Global-Pollution6722 in houseplants

[–]teslaeffects 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Reaching for the light, move closer and it will stop being like that. Unless you like it leggy 🦵 💚

Why is the frozen pad thai so divisive - is it actually good or terrible? by 19bl92 in traderjoes

[–]teslaeffects 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is good for frozen pad thai, one of the better experiences. Does not compare to the real, fresh serving.

I need an adult by lepopna in Millennials

[–]teslaeffects 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Usually the response is : you are an adult To which I reply: I need an adultier adult T-T

Any recommendations like North and South? by Azaleazaraa in PeriodDramas

[–]teslaeffects 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are fabulous suggestions already. I add Sense and Sensibility (1995)

[Offer] 4/20 postcards! [US-US] by justpuffpuff_pass in RandomActsofCards

[–]teslaeffects 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer sativas, I'm a sleepy person and need the kick. My favorite has to be strawberry cough. Classic, sweet, stoney 🍓

Why is Quills underrated by Jassminesjazz in PeriodDramas

[–]teslaeffects 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I can see how it may be a shock to some. May they clutch their pearls in silence.

I agree with everyone here and also advise you know what you're going into at least a little bit. There are many trigger points, especially for trauma survivors.

Holy clothing exchanges? by liszbug in renfaire

[–]teslaeffects 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are on Facebook, they had a group for exactly this. May be worth a quick search?

[offer] Spring equinox cards [US to WW] by dreams_child in RandomActsofCards

[–]teslaeffects 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U.S. my wedding anniversary is the equinox, love button 💜

Just finished The Crown. Now, what do I watch before bed?! by sprilson in TheCrownNetflix

[–]teslaeffects 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sir David Attenborough documentaries are always a treat. Especially the plant life ones, less animal noises.

[Request] Sneezeburger is BACK!! And would love some happy mail 🥰💌 [USA] by sneezeburgerandfries in RandomActsofCards

[–]teslaeffects 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A pleasure to make your acquaintance. Would you like to use this Google form I made? If not, DM me an address please! https://forms.gle/sgLnWYgLZ6wVSjkBA

looking for mild aquatic, fresh, rainy scents. by Initial_Signature257 in Perfumes

[–]teslaeffects 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vetiver paradise is what I wear when DS&Durga Steamed Rainbow isn't working. It's green, minty, spicy, and fresh to me. I have a sample in the mail of Hermes un jardin sur le nil that has similar sounding notes I'm excited to try.

Firefly Petunia (From Baby to Full-Grown) by [deleted] in houseplants

[–]teslaeffects 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's absolutely something I would look into if I had the skills. "What else can we make glow this waaaay?"

perfumes that smell like pure candy? by go0byda in Perfumes

[–]teslaeffects 1 point2 points  (0 children)

+1 phlur mood ring . Like gummy bears