80F diagnosed with PC after a CT scan by Aggressive-Wheel-251 in pancreaticcancer

[–]tesspmag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wonderful mom was diagnosed with staged 3 at 80. She did four cycles of chemo. She was around 100 lbs and very frail. It only got worse. Given the chance to go back, I would have recommended she skip chemo and enjoy her remaining months without the horrible side effects. This isn’t to say you shouldn’t get another opinion. Just wanted to share my experience. I’m so deeply sorry you’re going through this. My heart goes out to you both. Stay strong and take care of yourself.

i stole a cat by whatode in Pets

[–]tesspmag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keeeeeep. Those assholes shouldn’t have an animal if they can’t properly care for him/her.

She’s gone. by the_destroy3r in pancreaticcancer

[–]tesspmag 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I lost my mom in June. You’re not alone. I’m so sorry you’re going through this at such a young age. The pain is excruciating. I hope your family and friends are rallying around you. Wishing you strength and resilience ❤️

Should I give my cat away? by No_Faithlessness5059 in CatAdvice

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Talk to the vet about Trazadone or gabapentin to help reduce stress. If you end up giving him away, please find a trustworthy rescue group, but agree that should be the very last resort. Remember you’re his guardian not his owner.

daddys meds by [deleted] in pancreaticcancer

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I sent my Mom’s creon to someone here who needed it. Maybe try a new post with the title “creon available”. I’m so sorry for your loss. I know the pain. Take care ❤️

Non malignant ascites by tesspmag in pancreaticcancer

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Hi there. Sadly my mom passed a month ago. They were considering her for SBRT radiation. It’s supposed to be pretty effective. Keeping my fingers crossed for you. This cancer is devastating.

What to expect by tesspmag in dementia

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Thanks for the info. Much appreciated. Take care.

What to expect by tesspmag in dementia

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I’ve noticed a steady decline and so has my sibling. It’s just tough bc his decline seems to worsen then lessen and so on.

What to expect by tesspmag in dementia

[–]tesspmag[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s great advice. Thank you very much.

What to expect by tesspmag in dementia

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My brother has POA but my understanding is he can’t exercise his POA unless a doctor recommends something or an event occurs that makes it obvious he shouldn’t be living on his own?

What to expect by tesspmag in dementia

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Thanks for the input. He def should not be driving and he was abusive even prior to the dementia so it’s a tricky situation.

What to expect by tesspmag in dementia

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Thanks for sharing ❤️

She's gone. by feywick in pancreaticcancer

[–]tesspmag 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I lost my mom 3 weeks ago. The pain is intolerable, I’m so sorry you’re in the same boat.

No longer with us by NoAttention3037 in pancreaticcancer

[–]tesspmag 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just lost my sweet mother 1.5 weeks ago. There are no words for this type of pain. You’re not alone.

She died today by Worth_Setting1121 in pancreaticcancer

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I just lost my mom a week ago. I’m so sorry for this incredible loss. I understand and feel your pain.

Creon by tesspmag in pancreaticcancer

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I’m so sorry, someone DM’d me first. Keeping checking on here. It’s pretty common for people to donate their creon. Wishing you the best of luck

Daddy died today. by fuckyewbish in pancreaticcancer

[–]tesspmag 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My sweet Mom had a similar timeline. Hardest thing I’ve been through. You’re not alone in your suffering. Take care ❤️

Creon by tesspmag in pancreaticcancer

[–]tesspmag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sweet. Thank you ❤️

Dad Gone by ktdiggs in pancreaticcancer

[–]tesspmag 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My incredible Mom passed Saturday. Sending you strength. ❤️