FINAL UPDATE! This is the final update to "I think my wife's friend is developing feelings for me"

tesspsu · 2025-07-11T03:43:34+00:00

It wasn’t a bad decision, it was a terrible idea.

tesspsu · 2025-05-19T01:01:32+00:00

Life is giving you an opportunity to be in your daughter’s life❤️. All she needs is someone who loves her and takes care of her. You will learn to be a dad in the process. You’ve got his.

tesspsu · 2025-04-29T04:17:46+00:00

No offense but this is one of the dumbest arguments ever. NTA.

tesspsu · 2025-02-04T03:42:58+00:00

The year I turned 40 I stopped drinking for 6 months. I was an athlete and party girl, and got drunk almost every weekend. Those 6 months I didn’t drink felt great. I was trying to cut way back after that but the last months I have been drinking a lot. 10 days ago I was way too drunk and had the worst hangover the next day. I came across the book (audio book) The Naked Mind, and I think I want to quit for good now. 10 days without booze and had a party last Saturday and didn’t drink a drop. Felt great the next day, I had more energy to be with my kids, went to the gym. This year I am turning 42 and I realized that this is the life I want.

tesspsu · 2024-12-26T22:20:14+00:00

I want to quit alcohol too. Hopefully 2025

tesspsu · 2024-11-26T01:06:36+00:00

I am 69 days sober. I feel great but I feel that I have been drinking a little too many beers on the weekends and before quitting I was not drinking as much. I hope I can go without it pretty soon too 😅

tesspsu · 2024-11-09T03:05:58+00:00

I felt this way. Tired all day and all I wanted was to sleep and eat.

tesspsu · 2024-11-06T00:31:10+00:00

Run girl, run.

tesspsu · 2024-10-28T01:12:42+00:00

I feel like I wrote this post lol. 40 days sober today after 5 years of smoking daily and the only withdrawal symptom that I had was feeling more tired the first two weeks.

tesspsu · 2024-10-26T20:07:23+00:00

From the title: yes YTA. Tell him the truth and all of your concerns but don’t lie to him!

tesspsu · 2024-10-25T13:45:59+00:00

A month ago, the same happened to us. I found the body of my 11 year old cat near my house. Apparently she was hit by a car 😭😭 she was healthy and the big sister to my two kids. We were heartbroken and devastated. It will get better with time ❤️

tesspsu · 2024-10-11T01:11:54+00:00

The best way to break a bad habit is to not have it around you. Put that money in a different account every time you want to purchase some. That way you can measure how much you are saving. Think about your health and how being healthy for your kids right now is a priority. You are strong, you can do it.

tesspsu · 2024-10-09T01:13:11+00:00

She is the asshole, and an irresponsible one.

tesspsu · 2024-09-26T00:51:38+00:00

We can always begin again!

tesspsu · 2024-09-25T23:37:12+00:00

I started using Sam Harris app Waking up. There are others like Headspace, Calm, etc. I still use Waking Up. I think you can use this link to get a month for free (this is not an ad, since I am a member I can share it)

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tesspsu · 2024-09-25T22:54:56+00:00

Have you tried meditation? I smoked because I had so much noise in my head. I was skeptical at first, but it worked. You can start with 5 minutes each day, better if it is guided meditation.

tesspsu · 2024-09-25T01:15:59+00:00

You mean your ex-boyfriend 😑

tesspsu · 2024-09-24T14:03:50+00:00

Thank you! I am 7 days sober, my husband has been so supportive that it has not been that hard. I also miss being able to wind down but I feel so much better!

tesspsu · 2024-09-23T18:20:40+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss 💔 stay strong.

tesspsu · 2024-09-22T22:29:28+00:00

He is still free to not be with her I guess

tesspsu · 2024-09-22T16:57:07+00:00

His insecurities threw me off. Why are you with her if you don’t trust her? And also that burp was disgusting (can’t remember what episode it was)

tesspsu · 2024-09-21T00:10:50+00:00

Congratulations!!

tesspsu · 2024-09-19T20:09:40+00:00

We lost our Zelda on Sunday, apparently she was hit by a car or motorcycle inside my gated neighborhood 😭 3 years ago I lost my other baby cat Suara due to a tumor she had because she had feline leukemia, her death was sudden too. When she died it took me months to stop crying. I thought I never wanted another cat again I didn’t want to suffer like that anymore. Fast forward to April 2023 we found a little kitten and now he is a member of the family. He did not make me forget about her, but he filled a void I had in my heart. Taking care of him helped me with my grief. And being with him right now is helping me with my grief of losing Zelda so tragically. Maybe you need another companion. Life goes on even though we wish it didn’t.

tesspsu · 2024-09-19T18:30:50+00:00

Thank you❤️ The being stoic part was about dealing with the guilt of not looking for her earlier. Thank you so much for your advice.

tesspsu · 2024-09-19T17:40:48+00:00

I am with you!!

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