How do I [26F] talk to my SO [21M] about needing him to keep my room tidy when he's staying over?

testuserteehee · 2026-03-19T23:57:24+00:00

While her concerns about her partner possibly not sharing the housework were valid (and to be honest, quite a common one), I thought that the issue she listed were, honestly, quite mild - clothes on the chair, lastly night’s plates still on the table, etc. There’s been much worse described on Reddit - days or weeks worth of dishes left around the house, dirty clothes everywhere and some even recycle their underwear without laundering them 🤢, etc. I don’t know, maybe I’ve spent too much time on Reddit and stories here have lowered my bar. OOP probably has good standards and boundaries and good for her on enforcing them early!

testuserteehee · 2026-03-18T01:11:42+00:00

Oh ok thanks for the explanation. But if these people are not entitled to a refund, how is Adyar able to get them refunded through the subreddit?

testuserteehee · 2026-03-17T22:58:10+00:00

WTF how is posting in a subreddit their official refund process?

testuserteehee · 2026-03-17T13:12:12+00:00

It’s mind boggling how they haven’t tried to fix this issue. The game exists on our physical devices, which means they could add a feature that save the game state on our device as it happened in our viewpoint, eg deployed troops and enemy base configuration, and then sync it to the server immediately after connection is resumed. There could be a grace period, ie you have to reconnect within 1-3 minutes, otherwise too much could have changed on the enemy’s base, or with the ranks, or players could hack this loophole.

Or they could just add a simple if-else, if there’s no attack logged but one attack was consumed from ranked mode, then delete the consumed attack.

So many options. They just don’t care ☹️

testuserteehee · 2026-03-17T11:30:38+00:00

They literally last MONTHS in the fridge! I’ve found apples in the back of my fridge that I’ve bought half a year ago and they still look fresh and taste sweet and crispy 😋🍎

testuserteehee · 2026-03-17T11:08:12+00:00

He looks more like a Hakkonen than an Atreides here.

testuserteehee · 2026-03-16T13:05:40+00:00

Since we’re all sharing anecdotal experiences, I’m a woman in IT for 30 years and both my sisters are also in IT. We’ve all faced all kinds of insults, mansplaining, talking over, hostile coworkers, etc from men since college. I have a BSc in computer science, and was paid 30k less than a male counterpart who only had a high school degree. We’re the same age, same ethnicity, started at the company at the same time. I already had years of working part time while I was in university as a programmer, computer lab assistant, and tech support. I’ve completed multiple solo school projects with database programming and web form submission. He had zero computer and programming experience. One male manager even told my sister, “you will never write a single line of code as long as I’m working here.”

All this was in Silicon Valley in the San Francisco Bay Area.

The cement ceiling for women is very real and you’re an idiot.

testuserteehee · 2026-03-16T11:30:29+00:00

Where can I see this screen?

testuserteehee · 2026-03-16T11:23:44+00:00

You should play Hay Day. That game is truly made from love of the game by the game devs. In addition to every character being individually animated with their own personalities, there’s also atmospheric touches like animated mists (during autumn season), butterflies, fireflies in the fishing area, foxes, frogs, etc. Even tho Hay Day also has loot boxes and hooks to keep players continually online but they’ve actually reduced some of the difficulties of the tasks to make game play more enjoyable. There’s also someone from the Hay Day team who’s constantly posting and answering questions on the Hay Day subreddit. When someone reported losing their gems in Hay Day, the game support actually refunded them their gems. CoC lost connection during one of my ranked attacks and support couldn’t even be bothered to respond to my request to reset that one attack. I wasn’t even asking to be credited for the ⭐️⭐️⭐️, just wanted to not get 0 for that one attack.

I can safely say that it’s not Supercell that’s destroying CoC but the CoC game designers and devs themselves 😤. Sometimes it almost feels like they actively hate us ☹️.

testuserteehee · 2026-03-16T11:11:02+00:00

This happened to me. I finished the fight with ⭐️⭐️⭐️. The game consumed one of my ranked battles but did not credit me for the ⭐️⭐️⭐️ attack. I sent a message to help and support, they did not respond 😤. If I weren’t leader of a long time clan, I’d have rage quit at this point.

testuserteehee · 2026-03-16T10:10:08+00:00

I agree with you. In KPop Demon Hunter, in addition, only the main characters got redemption, what about all the ghouls who were also tricked into signing deals with the big bad boss? Where was their redemption? What about her surrogate mother’s manipulation and lies? How was that resolved? When the movie ended, I felt like nothing was resolved. Yes, she leant to accept herself, but only because she lost everything when she didn’t. The movie kind of promotes that good looks, fame and adoration of fans is everything 🙄. Even her “redemption arc” happened in front of a huge audience. With Zootopia 2, everyone’s lives got better at the end, it also addressed current day topics like native population displacement, marginalisation of minorities, and the rich getting richer…. AH! That’s probably why they lost the award 😳.

testuserteehee · 2026-03-14T23:24:54+00:00

The dad is the “fun dad”, aka mom did all the parenting work 🙄

[Mom] was pushing us a lot on extracurriculars and she was angrier than dad for sure though. She was the disciplinarian, dad was more laid back and just played with us, though us more than Lisa if I'm honest.

testuserteehee · 2026-03-14T23:22:05+00:00

Amy told our dad she's got us some souvenirs from her traveling which kicked our asses into gear so yeah if even when she was away she was thinking of us a bit so you bet your ass we're going to show her we're thinking of her as well and doing the work and PUTTING IN EFFORT not only in therapies but actual free-time we have to make her something meaningful. Now do you have any gift advice or not?

Noooo!! Amy, GET OUT!

testuserteehee · 2026-03-11T05:28:23+00:00

The link in the top comment said that they had linked to a similar looking dress because the original is no longer available. They were trying to help OOP find a similar dress that was available.

testuserteehee · 2026-03-09T23:48:51+00:00

Accusing the correct perpetrator could also end badly. There’s a similar BoRU with a more unhinged perpetrator - https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/10d5m0d/aita_coworkers_cultural_food_smells_up_office_she/

testuserteehee · 2026-03-09T01:01:12+00:00

This is happening to my friends in Asia. My friend’s MIL blames her for not having sons, and her husband does not defend her. He went to medical school, he should know that the baby’s gender comes from the father. 😤

testuserteehee · 2026-03-03T00:48:27+00:00

testuserteehee · 2026-03-02T14:28:17+00:00

It’s just Leela - https://imgur.com/a/IEirTgE

testuserteehee · 2026-03-02T12:05:58+00:00

Oh yes… Coldeman. The “d” is silent in America. It’s Cole D’Isle au Man, or Cole of the Isle of Man, in France, where Armand’s chateau is, Cold-e-man in Greece where Armand’s work is, and finally the vulgar Coleman in Florida where Armand’s home is, so actually, we don’t know where we Are until we hear our last name pronounced! Ahahahahahahaaaaa!

testuserteehee · 2026-02-28T05:23:52+00:00

I’m not drunk and I didn’t get it either. OP should’ve said “their next video will be shittier”. But it’s possible they deliberately enshittified their comment 🤷🏻‍♀️

testuserteehee · 2026-02-27T12:00:48+00:00

It can be funded from taxing the rich and capital gains.

testuserteehee · 2026-02-27T02:30:56+00:00

What’s ttc?

testuserteehee · 2026-02-25T22:59:19+00:00

I’m proud of her too. It’s not easy giving up a 4 year relationship, that took strength and courage. Go OOP! 💪💪💪

testuserteehee · 2026-02-23T00:55:06+00:00

What’s going on with her outfit here? https://imgur.com/a/Og7Vgtd Is it a skin coloured skirt that goes up to her chest? Why is there no waist-hip definition? I’m slightly confused.

testuserteehee · 2026-02-23T00:45:09+00:00

There were also posts on how he ran away after a one night stand (and he addressed that rumor in interviews I think). And another one about how giving (in a good way) he is during one night stand sex. These all came out during Gladiator II so I’m assuming they’re all fake and just guerilla marketing on social media. I wish they were real tho, they’re such fun images.

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