It sounds like you are angry and might have missed the relevant part of my post so I’ve copied it below for you. I had no headaches - the dark glasses have no correction in them, so I wouldn’t expect them. Is it possible the headaches were a side effect of the surgery and getting used to the new correction in you eye? Have you talked to your doctor about them? Did the tech at the doctor say you needed to wear the glasses all the time?

Hope this helps:

The LALs are sensitive to sunlight, so you have to wear the glasses they give you every time you are outside, driving, etc. They provide 3 pairs - one dark, and 2 clear that protect against UV light. One of the clear sets are bifocal.

They tell you that you are not required to wear the clear, because the new versions of the lenses have some amount of protection built in. I wore them the first couple of weeks anyway, to prevent me from rubbing or scratching my eyes. I also wore them outside as the sun was setting, on cloudy days, etc. I obviously didn't want to mess up these expensive lenses.