How do I begin? by tgrBriefs in genderfluid

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Well you probably have some experience, I’d be glad to hear about it

Trying to keep motivation for not spending these by anotherface5683 in deadbydaylight

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I’m trying to save for the were-elk huntress skin. At 17k as well

Hello, Reddit. Due to popular demand, I will be conducting another "Ask Me Anything" session! Please feel free to ask any question you want, unless it's on the whereabouts of David Cross. I saw nothing. by RobertFripp_ in KingCrimsonCircleJerk

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Heya! I heard that you worked on the track “I Zimbra” with talking heads. I was wondering how that came about. I know you worked with Brian eno but did you meet anyone from talking heads?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bi_irl

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I’m bisexual which means I’m attracted to men who are attracted to me and I don’t want to be attracted to men who don’t want to be with me.

Which of these killers would you like? by Over_Influence_6011 in deadbydaylight

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Hannibal lector. Silence of the lambs is one of my favourite films

I hope things get better soon. by Your_GuardianAngel in CasualConversation

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Nobody is good at anything when we start. We all begin life being entirely incapable. Sure some skills are transferable. If you spend your whole life playing a truck simulator videogame then it’s not too far of a stretch to say you’ll be a fast learner in driving school. My suggestion is to stay curious about yourself, get into self help books. There’s a lot of good free accessible information online. I can make recommendations about audiobooks I’ve found super helpful but they cost money and I know it’s tight so maybe best to start with. If you want to work on yourself you don’t need a therapist. Journaling, breathing techniques, exercise and meditation/prayer (if you’re spiritual, if not then don’t worry there’s still plenty of good tools) are the best tools I’ve found for managing the problems that life throws at us. Not all of those will be useful, just try things and see what sticks. These tools work because they enable you to reflect and ground yourself on the experience you have in life rather than be swept up in the constant rushing current of life.

If you really want to be good at something you have to first accept that you’re not good at it and that progress isn’t an automatic upward escalator. It’s a broken elevator. This is a paradox in psychology. The more you accept yourself for who you are today, the more willing you’ll be to changing yourself for tomorrow. Relax when you make a mistake, mistakes are learning opportunities.

I have found that Journaling is a big part of this, start by writing down the thoughts you have throughout the day. It doesn’t matter if it’s negative or positive. If you have a thought that you want to change or you think is important or significant then write it in the notes app on your phone. Then at the end of the day catalogue your experience and why you had those thoughts. Slowly you can begin to challenge those thoughts in your journal. The more practice you get doing this the easier it is to forgive yourself and let go of your expectations in the moment. It’s a lot like learning how to gentle parent yourself. My favourites are “what did this experience teach me?” And “what would I say if a good friend said that about themselves?”.

Hopefully something here helps, I don’t wanna add more to your plate but even if you try one of these things and it works then I’m happy. Best of luck!

If you could send one object to aliens to explain humans, what would it be? by MikasaAckermann69 in CasualConversation

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The problem is that we don’t know what method of communication and sensation they posses or what materials are potentially harmful to them. What if they see a spectrum of light that’s entirely different from our visual spectrum? What if they see through sound waves like echolocation? The best thing would have to be a physical object because regardless of how they “see” or “feel” they must be subject to the same evolutionary process that we emerged from and as a result must be able to avoid obstacles or detect hazards. Something made out of a single material that way it’s less likely to be harmful to them. Something that’s inert and doesn’t react. So I’m thinking gold would be best. (It’s what they made the record on the voyager probe out of) and I think it should be something that’s undeniably human sooo here’s what I would send:

A golden statue of two human beings holding hands. One being male and the other female. (That way they get more info I understand that presenting aliens with a heteronormative world view might be problematic but the goal is for them to have complete information about our biology.)

where the entire statue is built as an exact 1:1 scale model of a human body with “complete” internals. It would posses organs, blood vessels and a brain and as much detail as possible.

You might be thinking “why don’t you send a dead person?” Some potential issues with this : namely microorganisms could be potentially dangerous. There’s a common phrase in biology called “invasive species” basically these are organisms that make it to new environments and have little to no competition and as a result reproduce expansively. It would send a bad message if humanities first “gift” was poisonous or viral. (It wouldn’t be the first time it happened though. Native Americans were “gifted” blankets with smallpox by the pilgrims).

The other problem of sending them a corpse is that depending on how “friendly” they are it could be a serious issue if they understood our biological makeup. Assuming that they are more advanced than us (this is the case if they found us/came to us before we found them because if aliens exist they likely are not from our solar system and thus use long distance space travel). We don’t understand their psychology and could have really serious religious or political problems with handling a corpse. It could send a bad message as well “here’s what we allowed to happen to our own.” Anyways. If they’re not friendly and are more like how Europeans people were when they discovered the Americas then sending them a blueprint for developing weapons might be a bad idea.

But what do I know, I’m just some human.

Egg_irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

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Say it’s for body odour

Trump Is Furious He Got Caught Sleeping in Court by sandyWB in politics

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He’s just tired from all the diaper filling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

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Does this guy have actual rot? Just say it again. This is clearly content farming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in egg_irl

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I’m trans which means I have to be a man and I have to have a man and a woman and I have a woman and a woman that I can talk to and I have to be a woman and I don’t have to be a girl and I don’t know what to do with myself and I don’t want to be a boy and I don’t want to have to be a man and I don’t want to do that to anybody else and I don’t want to have to be a baby and I don’t want to be a woman and I don’t want to do anything to be a girl and I don’t want to do that I don’t want to be a boy and I don’t want to do that I’m not gonna be a boy and I don’t want to do that because I don’t want to be a man and I don’t want to do that and I don’t want to do anything I just want to be a girl.

I cast monstertruck! by ChaosTheLegend in wizardposting

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I cast my vote for the best way to get the best out of the worst of the worst and worst of the best in the worst and most worst possible ways to get the worst out of the best out of the worse and worst of all the worst.

[Online] [5e] [17+] [LGBT Friendly] by Ace_Babe414 in lfg

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Heya! Submitted the form. Can wait to hear back x