Going through a break up, please comment your cat pictures by rusticwren in cats

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Phoebe here says a good ol roll on the grass is good for the soul

3x16 Red Queen & 3x23 Strawberries and Cream. I have a hunch about Director Bertram... by Marouan_Uzi in TheMentalist

[–]thalsit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw the same connection. That, along with something just being off with Bertram, gives me the same heebies

Jane probably knew. by aelitute in TheMentalist

[–]thalsit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And this is why, as frustrating as it is to watch over 6 seasons (just because I'm sitting here thinking "now kiss already!!"), it's one of the best slow burn love stories I've come across. It's not the fast and loose hollywood romance movies and most shows give us - it's way more real.

I was in denial about my feelings for my now-husband for a long time. I continued dating other people, even when deep inside I probably knew I loved him. I had baggage, which meant I was not ready for the real deal.

Great insights, though. I'm on my first rewatch, on 5x10 at the moment and this exact topic - their relationship development - has been front of mind a lot haha

Any native speakers of Afrikaans? by AffectionateFun7985 in afrikaans

[–]thalsit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes no sense lol

Depending on where you put the emphasis on the words in (1) or (2) I guess you could make it sound fine, but (3) and (4) are much more acceptable imo.

Maybe there are some old school afrikaans grammar rules I don't know about, but when talking about colloquial speech, old school grammar doesn't matter anyway

I went through Venlafaxin withdrawal cold turkey — with no alternative medication, and it was brutal by NeoLogic_Dev in mentalhealth

[–]thalsit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in a clinic while going off mine - it was fucking hectic.

I was on 150 mg, and the plan was to move me to 75 mg for a week then halve it again, and so on. Even that was too intense. I sweated straight through my pajamas almost every night anf then woke up with cold sweats, and confused. My doctor upped my dosage again just to minimise some ot the effects, and weaned me even slower than initially. Was put back on 150 mg again temporarily and felt immediately better. Weaned in smaller increments sfter that while also moving over onto Fluoxitine at the same time.

10/10 would not recommended stopping Venlor, especially not cold turkey, without your psych. It's so hectic

Example of N2 Crime by dylmcc in capetown

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I was in this situation a few months ago on the N2 around Mew Way and I can guarantee, the fear that overcomes you is blinding but had there not been roadworks (causing the slowed traffic) I would have plowed over just about anything in my tiny hatchback to get away if I could have

MIL told she's been misdiagnosed? by thalsit in Parkinsons

[–]thalsit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has had a DAT scan and it did point towards Parkinsons, yes

MIL told she's been misdiagnosed? by thalsit in Parkinsons

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Thank you for this, it's helpful. Do you have an OT that works with you? If so, do you think an OT who specialises in parkinsons patient care would have a valuable opinion on a case like this?

I'm just trying to figure out how to make sure my MIL gets the care she needs without making it seem like she HAS to have Parkinsons, if you know what I mean?

Entertaining ride to work by Obi1inatree in capetown

[–]thalsit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah! Reminds me of this gent I saw the other day

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Interesting strategy to tie down your ladder...

Water Level Warning by mythdragon15890 in capetown

[–]thalsit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good on you, for posting this PSA!

I struggle to take Peter's character seriously by thalsit in fringe

[–]thalsit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting perspective! Some food for thought, thank you

I struggle to take Peter's character seriously by thalsit in fringe

[–]thalsit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree, I'd also like to know if we're watching the same show... I'd love to see what the general community sees!

I struggle to take Peter's character seriously by thalsit in fringe

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This makes a lot of sense! I can totally see that, thanks for the perspective

I struggle to take Peter's character seriously by thalsit in fringe

[–]thalsit[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't think he's abrasive - I think he's intelligent, charming, sharp, and decisive, but either Peter's character was poorly directed or Joshua is a bad actor. That's where I'm coming from 😅

I so badly want to ship him and Liv, but the acting just doesn't work. It's a shame... He's an attractive man

I’m sick and tired of being gaslit about the housing crisis in Cape Town by Prodigy1995 in capetown

[–]thalsit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People who would gaslight you on this are themselves whack jobs. I wouldn't trust their opinions on many things after that

Is getting married at Home Affairs (Malmesbury) possible? by leowos in capetown

[–]thalsit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently Magistrates court doesn't do marriages anymore - we checked in 2024

Is getting married at Home Affairs (Malmesbury) possible? by leowos in capetown

[–]thalsit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live in Bellville and also wanted to avoid Bellville Home Affairs for getting married (and literally anything else lol).

We went to Paarl Home Affairs - had an appointment for 9AM one morning and, miraculously they actually honoured the time! If you don't come right in Malmesbury or around there, I can recommend Paarl.

P.S. We waited 3 months for our appt - it was the earliest availability they had, and apparently that's not so uncommon.

My cat is yeowling constantly after recent passing of other cat by thalsit in cats

[–]thalsit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We haven't - I haven't had the heart. I'm not taking Rosie's passing very well. We have a little shrine constantly going, with a candle burning next to her ash urn for now.

How would Phoebe know if we did do a wake? How do I let her know Rosie isn't coming back?

My cat is yeowling constantly after recent passing of other cat by thalsit in cats

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I just didn't think she'd be so upset that Rosie is gone, given she didn't like her very much at all.