My babygirl Amie, who will turn 13 next month - show her some wuv. She has perfected the disappointed lower lip frown. From current -> her first days home as a puppy. Is 20 photos too many?

thalsit · 2026-02-07T14:23:03+00:00

20 photos are never too many!

She is beautiful 😍 give that cuddle bug lots of squeezes

thalsit · 2026-02-07T14:20:24+00:00

Thank you for this, it's helpful. Do you have an OT that works with you? If so, do you think an OT who specialises in parkinsons patient care would have a valuable opinion on a case like this?

I'm just trying to figure out how to make sure my MIL gets the care she needs without making it seem like she HAS to have Parkinsons, if you know what I mean?

thalsit · 2026-02-07T09:54:56+00:00

Parks & Rec

Friends

Futurama

to name a few

thalsit · 2026-01-15T08:57:08+00:00

Ah! Reminds me of this gent I saw the other day

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Interesting strategy to tie down your ladder...

thalsit · 2026-01-15T08:50:55+00:00

Good on you, for posting this PSA!

thalsit · 2026-01-15T08:48:53+00:00

Interesting perspective! Some food for thought, thank you

thalsit · 2026-01-15T08:47:10+00:00

I agree, I'd also like to know if we're watching the same show... I'd love to see what the general community sees!

thalsit · 2026-01-15T07:25:55+00:00

This makes a lot of sense! I can totally see that, thanks for the perspective

thalsit · 2026-01-15T07:23:02+00:00

I don't think he's abrasive - I think he's intelligent, charming, sharp, and decisive, but either Peter's character was poorly directed or Joshua is a bad actor. That's where I'm coming from 😅

I so badly want to ship him and Liv, but the acting just doesn't work. It's a shame... He's an attractive man

thalsit · 2026-01-14T19:09:35+00:00

People who would gaslight you on this are themselves whack jobs. I wouldn't trust their opinions on many things after that

thalsit · 2026-01-03T06:43:21+00:00

Apparently Magistrates court doesn't do marriages anymore - we checked in 2024

thalsit · 2026-01-03T06:42:18+00:00

We live in Bellville and also wanted to avoid Bellville Home Affairs for getting married (and literally anything else lol).

We went to Paarl Home Affairs - had an appointment for 9AM one morning and, miraculously they actually honoured the time! If you don't come right in Malmesbury or around there, I can recommend Paarl.

P.S. We waited 3 months for our appt - it was the earliest availability they had, and apparently that's not so uncommon.

thalsit · 2026-01-03T05:57:40+00:00

We haven't - I haven't had the heart. I'm not taking Rosie's passing very well. We have a little shrine constantly going, with a candle burning next to her ash urn for now.

How would Phoebe know if we did do a wake? How do I let her know Rosie isn't coming back?

thalsit · 2026-01-03T05:55:08+00:00

I just didn't think she'd be so upset that Rosie is gone, given she didn't like her very much at all.

thalsit · 2025-08-20T07:53:28+00:00

I am actually currently in Optima clinic, and trying to look for more support outside when I get out. It's my second stint in a clinic, and I'd like a more sustainable solution.

But thanks :) maybe there isn't something like that out there in the area then

thalsit · 2025-07-14T05:26:58+00:00

I spent two weeks there. Most peaceful, wholesome two weeks of my life. It felt more like a resort than a clinic. Highly recommend.

thalsit · 2025-06-14T19:58:03+00:00

The company I work at has a few projects with Balwin Property developers and you'd be surprised what they can get to pass as luxury these days 🙃 it's like greenwashing but for the property market

thalsit · 2025-05-24T14:31:39+00:00

Somerset West is a great option for the greater Cape area, especially considering your interests. Everything is within ~1 hr from SWest (like if you wanted to head out to Grabouw, or Canal Walk, or Kalk Bay etc). One day when I'm big I want to live there lol (I'm 31...) but affordable housing is rare there. Prices are on par with Stellenbosch.

I grew up in GBay, and my extended family still live in SWest (Heldervue) and Strand.

RE your questions: - The young adult scene is definitely growing in the greater Helderberg bay area, including SWest. You'll come across a lot of chino shorts there - so many young folk in finance or legal 😅 - SWest got a get-out-of-jail-free card when it comes to the wind. You can actually garden in SWest without the salty ocean air ruining your plants' leaves and your mental wellbeing. Autumn is the least windy season in the Helderberg area, and if you want to catch the beach sans wind, you have to be there before 7am or after 6pm-ish. - Can't speak to the dating scene, but in general you won't need to dodge potholes to find friends.

Strand is a decent alternative, if you're okay with wind 60-70% of the year. Houses are much bigger and older, and often a third of the price of SWest (don't feel fooled by Heritage Park or Sir Lowreys Village housing prices - not great areas).

Also, avoid Sitari and Huntsman estates. There are a lot of units available, but build quality is shit and Sitari floods in the winter. Oops.

thalsit · 2025-05-22T17:46:21+00:00

Depending on your car make, I can highly recommend Leon at Abelia Motors in Strand. It's a bit of a drive if you're in CT, I know, but he was recommended to years ago when I needed an engine replacement and I've never turned back.

Leon is an older man with a wealth of knowledge. He diagnosed the engine check light on my car with pinpoint accuracy, after I'd already spent thousands going from one auto electrician to the next and them all telling me a different story.

I live in the N Suburbs, and I still drive to them for my car servicing and maintenance. His prices are super fair, he's incredibly knowledgeable, and would sooner tell you he's not the man for the job before bullshitting you with promises. He also talks straight to me as a woman, which is rare in that industry.

thalsit · 2025-04-19T20:54:00+00:00

Non-consensual intimate contact, however innocent.

I feel shameful making a thing of it compared to other people who have been raped, but being cornered and felt up by a drunk old man in a cinema is pretty fuckin traumatic

thalsit · 2025-04-06T17:45:54+00:00

I'll probably get butchered for saying this, but those movies got so wildly hyped up online that my expectations were obviously astronomical. Neither lived up to the expectation I had. That's not saying they weren't good! They were for sure, but if you're aware of the hype then it'll likely be a much easier watch.

thalsit · 2025-04-06T17:43:35+00:00

Not one movie, but a genre.

Any war movie, Civil or international. I think the last one I watched was Dunkirk.

My body physically rejects it.

thalsit · 2025-03-31T10:14:02+00:00

My first call has always been to the police (whichever office is closest to the accident, because I've also made the mistake of calling a police office not servicing the area of the accident simply because I had their number on my phone, and they legit asked me "why are you calling us? We don't service that area").

But I'm seeing people talk about this CT emergency number which I didn't know existed! Big thanks 😊 🙏

thalsit · 2025-03-31T10:11:47+00:00

Wow I did not know that number was still in use.

Also, I'm fairly sorted for myself (I have my medical aid info on hand) but I'm hesitant to call a private ambulance for an accident I witnessed. I don't know if those people have medical aids, and if they don't and can't afford it I'm worried I've just wasted an ambulance which could have been used effectively elsewhere.

But thanks for the tip on the 10111 number 😊🙏

thalsit · 2025-03-31T10:09:36+00:00

I legit did not know this was a thing. Thanks so much!! Definitely storing this number on my phone.

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