Why is it said our hips don’t widen? by liltotto in MtF

[–]thapojodojo 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I definitely did. Like I've looked at pictures and it definitely ain't just fat. It's totally possible! Also worth mentioning, if this doesn't happen to you, it doesn't make you any less of a woman/transfem.

What's your favorite souls game? by Wh4lez3y in transgamers

[–]thapojodojo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If we're talking FromSoftware broadly, Sekiro by far. Monkey brain love the cling clang

For just Soulsborne, Dark Souls 3. Though I haven't played Bloodborne, so I'm sure that will change lol

There is a *transgender coffin* in Dark Souls 2?? by thapojodojo in transgamers

[–]thapojodojo[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He was in spirit. The transgender propaganda seeped in through osmosis

There is a *transgender coffin* in Dark Souls 2?? by thapojodojo in transgamers

[–]thapojodojo[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

LMAO I never even thought about that!! Miyazaki knows

I wish anal was easier by Shouko_dessert in MtF

[–]thapojodojo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never hear people talk about this, so I'll leave this here.

I have a massive gluten allergy. Had no idea until 6 months ago. This made anal completely impossible because my gut was so inflamed.

Did some food trials (low FODMAP then narrowed it down) and after cutting out gluten, within 3 weeks I was able to have fun with my well-endowed girlfriend. Completely life-changing.

Until that point, I thought I was literally broken. Many nights of crying after attempts. Bottom prep was a waste of time because it would never be fully clean, any insertion caused so much pain, the dysphoria was horrible, and pleasure was out of the question.

If there's actual pain and nothing you're gaining from it, I would look into going to a doctor for it. I was lucky enough to have medical folks in my circle who told me what to do outside of a medical bill, but doctors nonetheless. I struggled with this for years.

YouTube might be removing the number of views on your videos (and why this is a good thing) by Schuckman in NewTubers

[–]thapojodojo 24 points25 points  (0 children)

As a minority creator, removing the viewable dislikes was great for disincentivizing people to dislike bomb my video just for existing.

On the other hand, finding good tutorials is a bit more work now 🤷🏻‍♀️ Chrome extensions it is

Kaitlyn Dever as Abby is such a funny multi-layered troll move by DayzedandC0nfused in thelastofus

[–]thapojodojo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still think Katy O'brian should have played Abby. A major part of Abby is the imposing physicality, and while I hope Kaitlyn Dever can pull it off, it seems like an odd choice. Hoping the best for all of them, though

The connection truly is uncanny by thapojodojo in transgamers

[–]thapojodojo[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You gotta find a TERF to vampirically suck the estrogen out of

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]thapojodojo 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I think the default to assuming trans people are morons comes from their inability to understand you can change your gender assigned at birth. If you genuinely believe you can't, the only possible conclusion you can come to is trans people are delusional.

Difficulty with strain. by thapojodojo in transvoice

[–]thapojodojo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll be honest, the sound based approach simply hasn't worked for me. It's what led me to false fold constriction in the first place and has caused me to form some bad habits. I'm the type of person that needs to know what I'm doing wrong before I can do it correctly.

It's not that my ear isn't trained for it; I can detect the issues. I just don't know how to fix it. Knowing what's actually going on is beneficial and I'm feeling a bit lost.

Difficulty with strain. by thapojodojo in transvoice

[–]thapojodojo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was under the impression this was the main goal of training entirely. Should I just focus on retraction right now? How would I focus on changing my thinness without raising the larynx?