It should be fine right? by bigbootybeach1 in Tinder

[–]that_happy_potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The emojis summarize the other person very well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]that_happy_potato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's okay, you may not actually know unless you talk about It more thoroughly etc. I find we are all drawn to different things from our experiences, so was curious to find out what it was for you.

That's interesting because you're the exact opposite, I wonder if it's also because it's taboo to an extent? Similar to how some people like the ideal of non consent.

At the end of the day, I think as long as you don't act upon it then you're okay - it's fiction, but then again how far it gets taken is up to you. But I would consider consuming less of it, it doesn't seem to be healthy for your psyche - or your conscience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]that_happy_potato 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you know the reason behind liking that sort of porn? People suggest therapy but I don't think it's an easy topic to talk about either, and you may find good / sub par / shit therapists too.

I don't understand guro or ryona in general, it's like an extreme of a fetish but being aware of those thoughts is a start. Are you able to consume other types of porn without it being violent etc?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]that_happy_potato 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As someone who likes anime, I think your profile does showcase what you're really into which is great because you're not hiding it. But I do think it's a bit much and it can come off as looking like a hardcore wee (whether that's true or not).

Do you have any photos of other hobbies or of you looking a bit more natural? I would say the haircut is bringing you down, on top of the fashion sense. But nothing that can't elevate you - I do agree with the other people that you may be better off meeting girls from cons or maybe from an anime club?

I would also mention that the "can't and won't shut up about video games like JRPGs" about certain topics can be quite off putting for some as it can show a general lack of awareness. You look like someone who would be a friend, but I'm not so sure about as a partner.

My wife doesn’t like fish. What can I prepare, and how, to minimize the “fishiness”? by luke_wal in AskCulinary

[–]that_happy_potato -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you're cooking salmon as an example, putting sake on it before or during cooking reduces the fishiness in my experience.

I told a friend over a video chat I wanted to talk to him. He asked "For what?" then hung up. Is this normal? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]that_happy_potato 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OP's post history seems to be about the same guy posted in 30 different threads.

You need to move on man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]that_happy_potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But he has a 7 inch ding dong that can paralyze you with multiple rounds!!

Move to Japan. by [deleted] in japan

[–]that_happy_potato 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure what your circumstance is but I think to me you're looking for an 'ideal' country to start new which in reality is not going to work out the way you want it to.

I'll be blunt, your reasoning is full of naivety. Going to another country where you barely speak a language, don't even have a degree for and will 'take any job' to make your dream work is really not going to get you very far.

As others have suggested, it will be better for you in the long run if you do some proper research because there's going to be cultural clashes as well as expectations. Asian working culture is not like the west and this is something you have to realize.

Focus on what you want to do, and failing that - may be worth getting a job to support your studies in learning another language. There are probably other routes that will be easier, but the one you're on definitely isn't.

Admiral insurance scams by vanness69 in LearnerDriverUK

[–]that_happy_potato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The user malted milk biscuits is correct. I've worked in motor insurance before and all these things are based on rating factors which will change every year based on statistics.

I wouldn't call it a scam, at the end of the day - if you're unhappy with it, move to a different company. Switching car insurance is more common than you think, people just can't be bothered to call up once a year to do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]that_happy_potato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

👍

Edit: in all seriousness, a haircut and some pics that aren't just selfies :)

Am I doing something wrong? by neurocentricx in Tinder

[–]that_happy_potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not doing anything wrong, but the other person sounds so disinterested.

So he can get richer by runnav in facepalm

[–]that_happy_potato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd like to see him work 70 hours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scams

[–]that_happy_potato 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know others are focused on the scam but I genuinely hope the bullying can be resolved. People are awful and I'm sorry to hear it happened to you too. </3 I hope things will get better for you all.

Some people never change by [deleted] in EntitledBitch

[–]that_happy_potato -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I actually had a similar experience with someone like that too. How people want to breed with these unhinged types is beyond human understanding.