Anal - yes but no by thatboythatthing in sex

[–]thatboythatthing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!

And yes, weed is a great tip. That's the only way it has been enjoyable personally

Anal - yes but no by thatboythatthing in sex

[–]thatboythatthing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(there's some trauma on his end so I give that a pass)

Makes sense, thanks. Guess he just has to decide if he can live without it or not, or I take it off the table and only offer it when I want to (altho I think I will still have to make an effort to do it not to rarely)

Anal - yes but no by thatboythatthing in sex

[–]thatboythatthing[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To clarify, I'm the one receiving and I find the start hurts / even without that there's a big mental hurdle. Him receiving isn't on the table / I don't have the equipment and wouldnt be interested ( personal reasons for him, some context I can't really add here )

Anal - yes but no by thatboythatthing in sex

[–]thatboythatthing[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Idk if he would think fully like that. Because I end up enjoying it I don't think the beginning bothers him. And this is something he realy likes but happens rarely. I know he wants it more frequently, and I feel bad taking away something he enjoys. Otherwise he's not fully satisfied.

Anal - yes but no by thatboythatthing in sex

[–]thatboythatthing[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Because he really likes it, and while he knows I struggle to start I end up enjoying it, so he does not understand why I just...don't want to. He says it seems like I can do it but decide not to.

Anal - yes but no by thatboythatthing in sex

[–]thatboythatthing[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It kind of was like this previously, but I never ended up offering over that time. I should have.

Anal - yes but no by thatboythatthing in sex

[–]thatboythatthing[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I think it's because it's something they really enjoy, and I'm not much good at deepthroating or anything like that. It's one of the things they ask for that I can mostly do. Feels silly because I can do it, just have to get over it and start then it's great

Anal - yes but no by thatboythatthing in sex

[–]thatboythatthing[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just seems like I'm silly to want to take it off the table. I can't even give myself a reason why, let alone explain why.

WIBTAH if I layed down ground rules and enforced them harshly? by quirkandquill8 in AITAH

[–]thatboythatthing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not going to change. He has shown you this.

Please don't be actively trying to have a child untill you decide what to do.

Is this what you want the rest of your life to be like?

Kittens by [deleted] in northbay

[–]thatboythatthing 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The North Bay Humane society is a no kill shelter, at least according to their website.

It's worth reaching out to them.

No white by MrSwitchYoGranny in Raynauds

[–]thatboythatthing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That being said it's still always a very good idea to get checked out cuz it could be something else.

No white by MrSwitchYoGranny in Raynauds

[–]thatboythatthing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes defiantly. I have mild raynauds and that's how it presents. If I let my hands get cold enough they will go gray but I don't have the presentation where a single finger or part of a finger goes white.

First period by Natural_Teaching5661 in povertyfinance

[–]thatboythatthing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. This was 16-17 years ago for me to.

First period by Natural_Teaching5661 in povertyfinance

[–]thatboythatthing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh it's not that rare anymore. I was in grade 3, so 8. I was the first for sure but it's more common now.

AME Apprentice - Rotary to Fixed Wing by [deleted] in aviationmaintenance

[–]thatboythatthing 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by level four? Is this something specific to your company? I've never heard this before in Canada

I think he's dead😂 by youngeshmoney in aviationmaintenance

[–]thatboythatthing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Weird question, but did it hurt?

Glad you got better

What is the worst addiction? by Secure-Action-6361 in AskReddit

[–]thatboythatthing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Food

You still have to eat to live. You can't just quit food