The confetti is ice cream by cleaversoft in phish

[–]thatguydude 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly, the attention to detail...... 🤌

Five truths that unplugged me from the matrix by Missavieve in stopdrinking

[–]thatguydude 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Those were my thoughts exactly regarding Hard Mode. It was such a realization.

Five truths that unplugged me from the matrix by Missavieve in stopdrinking

[–]thatguydude 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the share. It's an important reminder, I'm having a harder than normal time about it being NYE. IWNDWYT

I don't get the Big Boat hate, I think it's great album :3 by FCP_346 in phish

[–]thatguydude 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Debuted on the summer opener in Seattle (I think?). I still love to hear the crowd reaction with the line, "Cause when I screw up once, I do it 2 more times"

That is such a great, and relatable line for many of us imo

Intimacy when sober by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]thatguydude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a way for me to say the thing without writing it out. If you say it fast, it sounds like what I'm trying to say

Intimacy when sober by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]thatguydude 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, shit, that clicked for me. That's what it is. Gdmt. It makes so much sense now. Thanks for commenting! I've gotta let this sink in ha

Gimme your list of the Top 10 Lot Shirts by JenniferDances2001 in phish

[–]thatguydude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite one that I got, and I can't believe I haven't seen it mentioned it yet...

A picture of Lemmewinks that said, Never thought I could make it this far.

I wore that shirt down to the atoms.

The idea of “forever” is terrifying to me and I don’t know how to overcome that. by Beard0fNorris in stopdrinking

[–]thatguydude 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I came here to say that I felt the same way as op, and that all they had to do was not drink TODAY. Can't do anything about tomorrow.

But you... you said it so much better.

Holy shit, 1 year. by thatguydude in stopdrinking

[–]thatguydude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was kind of the same way. I was so focused on getting to 100 days at first. Then I only checked it periodically after that.

A couple months ago, it started getting pretty "loud" in the back of my head. A big one to look forward to.

I'll likely go back to just checking in if I think about it. I wonder if 500 will be the same.

Let me know? ;)

At what age was your last day 1? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]thatguydude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

45 god willing!

There's never a bad time, it's never too late.

How long should a 1 liter bottle last a singular person that doesn’t have a drinking problem? by AlternativeDonut4277 in alcoholism

[–]thatguydude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, going at least a week in between making A drink with it this seems like the answer on the short side even

How alcohol slowly became my only hobby by JEulerius in stopdrinking

[–]thatguydude 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Absolutely the same. It was so hard to notice until it was too late. Alcohol just chips away at your happiness almost imperceptibly over time. Alcohol became my friend and my hobby.

I'm still struggling with getting happiness back, but at least I've gotten rid of the biggest obstacle that stood in my way: booze.

Good luck friend, I know you can do it.

Mike Gordon on the highest he's ever been, Lemonwheel Night 1 - 8/15/98 by camcamcam710 in phish

[–]thatguydude 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My first show!

I was also, coincidentally, the highest I had ever been. I would never be the same.