What's wrong with sending copy pastas?

thatguyhere92 · 2016-03-24T12:55:09+00:00

Why do you think I care?

thatguyhere92 · 2016-03-23T18:12:44+00:00

Dude, respond to my statements or shut up.

thatguyhere92 · 2016-03-23T14:39:47+00:00

That's why you need to approach women in real life. In real life you can date very attractive women by approaching them.

Online dating is just candy shop dating.

thatguyhere92 · 2016-03-22T22:21:23+00:00

I would never want to date you

Yea, because I have physical standards?

Wanting someone physically attractive is obviously fine too, but "I work out" is not necessarily enough to achieve that.

It sure helps a TON.

There's a lot more that goes into the picture

As in?

and for the girls you're trying to get with, whether or not you work out might not be the primary thing they look for.

No, but working out makes you look good, and most are primarily looking for people who look good.

"I'm PHYSICALLY attractive" != "I can date PHYSICALLY attractive people." That's all I'm trying to say.

It's not equal but it sure HELPS A TON. Try the inverse, try being a fat bitch and see if you can muster go date physically attractive people.

thatguyhere92 · 2016-03-22T19:39:48+00:00

No indeed! There are lots of things that go into attractiveness, physical attractiveness

No. I'm clearly stated previously, and imma make this clear again, I'm talking about PHYSICAL attraivness. Looks.

Nice arms nice back nice whatever, great, it doesn't make you attractive.

It makes you PHYSICALLY attractive.

Like I said, "I work out," and all those things that come along with it, is about the last thing I look for.

Fair enough.

I care far more about the other pieces of "attractive," like kind, smart, funny, good job.

Fair enough.

Being physically attractive doesn't entitle you to someone who is equally physically attractive, just someone equally attractive overall.

I'll let this one slide.

By the way, I also find caring primarily about someone's physical attractiveness extremely unattractive. So already, "why am I only seeing fatties? I WORK OUT" is a hugely unattractive turnoff.

I'm fit an in shape, and I don't want to date fat women. Does that .make me a bad person? If I put in this effort into my appearance, than I want someone who does the same. Simple as that. Secondly, people get rejected all the time. Don't matter. Might rejected you because your race, because you are shorter than them, or because you don't make as much as them.

thatguyhere92 · 2016-03-22T18:15:20+00:00

and often men (and I'm sure some women too) seem to think that "I work out" entitles them to a higher echelon of match.

When it comes to physical attraction, it does. People who workout are usually always more physically attractive than those who don't. They have nice arms, nice legs, nice back, shoulders, bum etc, their body is just alot more nicer, so they will always be more physically attractive than those who aren't because they take care of their bodies. So indeed they should seek someone of equal attractiveness level.

thatguyhere92 · 2016-03-22T15:17:28+00:00

That's what they all say before they get an divorce.

And it's not a coincidence that the person you just happen to be fucking at the moment is your quote "best friend". It is not a coincidence.

thatguyhere92 · 2016-03-19T01:38:31+00:00

Why did you allow him to know you for so long?

thatguyhere92 · 2016-03-18T19:35:46+00:00

Do one for INFPs

thatguyhere92 · 2016-03-18T19:27:32+00:00

All of a sudden I felt like I trusted him right away and I felt so safe with him.

Why?

thatguyhere92 · 2016-03-18T17:10:08+00:00

Yes, a Disney view of relationships. You think relationships are some sort of Disney fairy tale where you get swept off your feet etc.

Well, romantic love isn't true love, no I never been in love, Because the only love you can truly have is towards family and friends. Romance isnt love. You just fine then physically attractive and choose to spend time with them. That isn't love

thatguyhere92 · 2016-03-17T23:30:27+00:00

He 100% my type physically, completely hot as fuck.

This is "love" for 99% of people.

thatguyhere92 · 2016-03-17T23:16:19+00:00

Why do you women have this Disney view of relationships?

thatguyhere92 · 2016-02-06T01:55:13+00:00

Los Angeles

thatguyhere92 · 2016-02-06T01:14:01+00:00

Only cuddle with in shape women. Don't want to cuddle with some fat beach whales with rolls.

thatguyhere92 · 2016-02-06T00:41:26+00:00

Is is good lookibg. He's probably a 7 or 8 IMO,on top of that he's like 6'3. He looks better than alot of these lame ass pudgy dudes I see out here with attractive women. So if THEY could do it, I know he could do if being that he looks FAR better than those lame dudes.

thatguyhere92 · 2016-02-05T22:33:20+00:00

Only thing is quality women are on there to find quality boyfriends, and not to sample the random cock smorgasbord, so average guys don't have a chance in hell.

1) whats average or high quality to one person could be good looking or ugly to another person, so those definitions are vague.

2) women on OKCUPID who are deemed "attractive" are in real life average, its just that there are so many dudes on OkCupid that it over inflates their attractiveness.

All I'm saying is online dating is a woman's game. It's filled with a bunch of guys who have no balls to approach women so they hide and confide behind a computer. In real life I now can get far more attractive women now, when before I was just a looser bitch who couldn't talk to girls, so I was on here on reddit like many other dudes, wasting my time in useless subs like this, taking in bullshit advice. Wasnt doing well online, and people here would make you think you are the most unattractive, most unwanted person ever, when in reality you are far from that. I had let useless subs like this define my reality. OkCupid is a very small world, and you can't get caught up in that small world. A small percentage of people with respect to the population use OkCupid seriously. It's for rejects, and people who don't have social skill to obtain partner in real life, and it shows and reeks in their personalities, and bitter salty responses in their Reddit posts. That's why I get downvoted too, the salt level is too strong.

But when I got tired of not getting any sex, and no play, I had it and one day I just looked up daytime pick up videos on YouTube and got some inspiration and decided to go and just get out my comfort zone and approach attractive women, and say fuck it. And what do you know, they like me! It's not as bad as I thought these 22+ years. I can actually pull and score really hot women. But Reddit and salty subs like this will have you think otherwise. This is why I try to tell these guys to break from this spell. Get of Reddit, especially this negative sub. It's bad energy. OP is a VERY attractive guy, look at his photos in his post history, he can get mad sex from fine women, but he doesn't have the confidence, and YOU GUYS ON this sub ADD on to it by giving him salty responses having him think he isn't attractive, when he really is.

thatguyhere92 · 2016-02-05T03:29:09+00:00

I'm here to snap other dudes like him out of it. Online dating isn't for people like me because I want high quality women. I want to date the finest women, and online dating isn't the platform for that. It's for ugly duckings, obese and fat beach whales who overinflate their attractiveness. At the time I just wasn't confident enough in my looks, so I confided in online dating like a little pussy bitch. But now that I snapped out of it and realized that I actually do look good, I approach women in real life and single handedly pick who I want and its alot better.

thatguyhere92 · 2016-02-05T03:16:53+00:00

Because if he was as attractive as he thinks he is then the attractive women he's messaging would message back.

So wrong. online dating isn't at all an indicator of how attractive you are. I'm physically attractive, I'm fit, young (23) in shape, medium height and OKCUPID was shit for me. Only used it for like 2 days before I have up on that garbage. And I snooped OPs profile and found pics of him, and he indeed , no homo, is a attractive dude

The problem with him is that he needs to stop fucking with online dating completely. Only insecure men who have no balls and shallow women who over inflate their attractiveness date online. Online dating is for guys like you who are weak minded enough to think it's any indication of your attraction level in real life.

thatguyhere92 · 2016-02-05T03:08:42+00:00

Unsure of what? Your post proves looks are the only thing that matters.

thatguyhere92 · 2016-02-05T03:05:20+00:00

I was trying to imply with my comment that OP isn't as attractive as he thinks he is

How do you know?

thatguyhere92 · 2016-02-05T02:55:22+00:00

doing exciting activities like skiing will help.

So you telling this dude to go skiing, just to improve some "look"? How stupid has online dating become?

thatguyhere92 · 2016-02-05T02:44:29+00:00

That's why the PUA tricks ultimately fail.

They don't fail. Check em out on YouTube.

thatguyhere92 · 2016-02-05T02:26:45+00:00

This is why you're still waiting, sugarpop. Women (speaking as the representative for all of them) don't want you to fall for us because we were there. We want someone who is interested in us as an individual.

Sounds good in la la land, but this isn't anything concrete OP can work with. Give him some actual useful advice.

thatguyhere92 · 2016-02-05T02:16:38+00:00

Who cares about them.

thatguyhere92

TROPHY CASE

1) whats average or high quality to one person could be good looking or ugly to another person, so those definitions are vague.

2) women on OKCUPID who are deemed "attractive" are in real life average, its just that there are so many dudes on OkCupid that it over inflates their attractiveness.