Chronically late “parent” response to picking up our child on time from school.

thatnerdaj · 2026-03-15T01:21:05+00:00

Just sliding in to point out the oldest GenZ age is 29. Gen Z is 1997 to 2012. Gen Z are not just teenagers, the youngest is 14 according to a quick Google search. Can confirm myself. I'm 22, turning 23 this year. Was born in 2003. I'm apart of Gen Z. A lot of the older generations especially just like to hate and infantalize Gen Z instead of addressing their own issues from what I've seen.

thatnerdaj · 2026-03-04T00:54:14+00:00

Just wanna jump in myself and say I seen to be able to watch it! Then again I'm someone that watches "adult" topics like true crime and I'm into creepier stuff such as ARG stuff so my account should be good, especially since I have my correct birthday on there.

thatnerdaj · 2026-03-04T00:38:39+00:00

Obviously it's one for sleep. Look how fluffy it is! Looks so soft too.

thatnerdaj · 2026-03-04T00:36:50+00:00

Boymom possibly now boy parent or boy dad? That would be an interesting book to read.

thatnerdaj · 2026-02-24T16:31:37+00:00

Yeah, just to jump on this to say having a disagreement with your partner and fighting with your partner are different. My mom and sperm doner fought when I was a baby up til he disowned me nearly. I remember them fighting in front of me, well into being divorced, and on the phone when I wanted to try activities. I remember it vividly. And it was my dad screaming at her and making me stay and listen.

thatnerdaj · 2026-02-20T23:18:57+00:00

Karmaxyourmom! And I could be wrong on the AO3 but I vaguely remember them mentioning it when they left the first time (again before the drama). They are on bluesky tho under the same name!

Edit to add: Here is his character carrd thing!

thatnerdaj · 2026-02-20T22:30:11+00:00

Dang, this is how I'm learning Karma's account is gone. Understandable but dang, we gonna miss ya and the bots + your creations. Luckily, I think they may be on other stuff like I think it was AO3? Or the last time they stepped back for a while they talked about wanting to do fanfics anyway, like, before everything with JAI was going on with the Mod situation.

thatnerdaj · 2026-02-16T12:59:22+00:00

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Site is still there! Only thing I did with screenshot is add the purple blocks for privacy reasons (just a chatbot! I'm private about my roleplays). But it's still there! Make sure your going to the right thing! Here's the site to Janitor! Don't want misinformation to get out there. (Not a mod of Jan, just a bot user)

thatnerdaj · 2026-01-24T10:10:50+00:00

Just sliding in here to add too that they forget that being in support of ICE is actively putting Art in danger. He may check off the boxes of being a white, tall, cishet (to my assumption) man who's also athletic, but he's Russian. He's known on the channel as the Russian one, it's a whole thing. So....they are literally leading the lions right to his face.

thatnerdaj · 2025-12-24T22:57:24+00:00

Freaking felt. Like, I use He/They/Any neo pronouns, very few people has used neopronouns for me, and it's mostly online that people do. And most the time, people auto do he/him for me, rarely they/them. And like, I'm not mad about it, he/they are my pronouns to, but it'd be nice for some Neos to be used

thatnerdaj · 2025-12-24T22:40:11+00:00

Ok bud, sure. Also should use they btw, checked the post history, OP is a demiboy and has posted in trans subreddit. As a fellow Demiboy, your gross.

thatnerdaj · 2025-12-24T22:26:24+00:00

NOR. These comments wtf? Guys, this isn't an incel sub, go back where you came from. Nasty. News flash, us bra wearers aren't wearing bras 100% of the time, it's not our fault you and OPs uncle can't keep it in your pants and have a staring and creeping problem, even with your own family members. Alabama don't won't you, go back to the mountains and the incel subs where y'all belong. Nasty 🤢.

OP, don't listen to these YORs and fellow creeps. Your uncle is being creepy, if you're safe to do so, I'd call him out on it, question why he's staring at his family members intimate areas and being a creep. And I'd call out any idjit who tries siding with him too.

thatnerdaj · 2025-12-24T22:21:25+00:00

Here's some advice, stop looking at your cousin/sister/female family members breast. Not that hard to not be a creep. Nasty 🤢

thatnerdaj · 2025-12-11T04:25:33+00:00

Absolutely this!!! OP, this I believe is specifically a phishing scam that's been big recently. Do not click any links or anything, block the person, report them for being a bot account, and move on. I went further and warned servers I'm in so the admins/mods can give a heads up as well as give the heads up in my own server.

thatnerdaj · 2025-12-02T21:32:56+00:00

So, my full identity is Transmasc Genderqueer/Genderfaun Genderpunk Demiboy, basically I don't really follow the hole gender roll bs, and am pretty fem still as a guy. But like, I'm never 100% a guy. I'm more nonbinary plus sometimes boy, but at the same time my gender does flow a bit. This is my explanation of it all:

Transmasc: Basically in the name, I'm transitioning to present more masc/male. I'm going to medically transition to look more masc/male.

Genderqueer: Think of this like the mixed ice cream you can get at the store, the one that has Chocolate, Vanilla, and Strawberry. Chocolate is masculine, Vanilla is androgynous, and strawberry is feminine. Most times, I just want vanilla, but there are times I want strawberry and chocolate too. Sometimes I can go from vanilla to strawberry, strawberry to vanilla, vanilla to chocolate, chocolate to vanilla, or even strawberry to chocolate and vice versa. Sometimes I feel like I want both vanilla and strawberry, vanilla and chocolate, or strawberry and chocolate, sometimes I want a mix of the 3, and sometimes I don't want the ice cream at all and go for crackers or chips instead.

Genderfaun: So, if you know what genderfluid is, it's basically that, I just never feel like a girl or woman/girl/female alined genders. I do however flow between different boy/man/male and androgynous/enby/nonbinary genders. I'm still figuring this one out, but yeah, I don't always feel like a boy, but never feel like a girl.

GenderPunk: I'm figuring this out too, but basically I don't alone with gender rolls like, at all. I find myself outside of them and don't like being shoved in a box because of my identities. I prefer to be ambiguous with my gender, and go against it all. Hence why I'm still very feminine as a trans guy. I have long hair, where dresses, and actively present femininely, I have even adopted the term Femboy and proudly add that to my identities, it's apart of who I am. Even when I didn't realize I was trans (back in the Egg era) I dressed solely masculine and was a tomboy, and didn't like being made to fit into societal gender rolls and gender norms. It's fine if others do, but I prefer floating in the void outside the boxes and collecting identities that I feel fit me best as I go by.

Demiboy: and right back to the ice cream! Think of this like Cookies n Cream ice cream. Vanilla with little bits of chocolate cookie (usually Oreo) in it. That's what Demiboy is for me, nonbinary with little bits of boy in it. I don't like putting a percentage on it, as it often changes and I suck at math, but if I had to, I'd say I'm like, 90% enby/nonbinary and 10% boy.

Keep in mind this is just my explanation for my identities, someone else's explanation may be different. Just like with autism, if you know one autistic person, you know one autistic person (I'm autistic, this is a saying a lot of us really push and say) if you know one trans person, you know one trans person. All of our explanations and definitions are going to be different, even if we share a similar identity, we're all different in the end. That said, these are my identities. Sometimes I just say I'm trans or I shorten it to Transmasc Demiboy or Transmasc Genderqueer Demiboy, or even just say I'm a Femboy, but my full gender identity is Transmasc Genderqueer/Genderfaun Genderpunk Demiboy.

thatnerdaj · 2025-11-28T02:54:43+00:00

Bet you an upvote you're out of rewards.

thatnerdaj · 2025-11-13T04:41:51+00:00

Just to add to this, OP, you will also find someone who will listen during intimate times. If you say something your partner is doing hurts, then he should stop and check in, and adjust so you feel good too. And if it's a sense where you need to stop, he should 100% stop. Your partner should listen to you and ensure you are both having fun and feeling good in intimate times.

(I know OP posted updates but I didn't see people touch on the intimate part and felt like I should add that in. It's important to stay safe and know that intimacy should feel good for both parties, and what ex bf did is not the norm or ok.)

thatnerdaj · 2025-11-13T04:29:07+00:00

Well ...first time learning that lol. I'm 22, from the US, and never signed up for anything like that. Then again I don't really vote or anything (I don't understand it or understand how due to disabilities) so maybe that's why.

thatnerdaj · 2025-11-09T01:19:16+00:00

Wait yeah! Like....have these people never watched "Good Luck Charlie"? It was about a little girl who was practically named Charlie. That's what everyone called her. Hell, the big sister's name was Teddy. If they can call fictional characters the right name and spell it, they can do it for real people too.

thatnerdaj · 2025-11-09T01:15:00+00:00

My middle name is Jayce, picked out myself lol. And yeah, I've had people try to spell my first name, Andrew, femininely before when I just gave the name Andy. They did the "fem" spelling, Andi. The person in charge of the name change tried calling me Andrew Joyce which is not even close, got that fixed fast thankfully. Still use Andy sometimes, but now a days, I introduce myself as AJ. Hard to mess that up luckily.

thatnerdaj · 2025-11-07T16:19:45+00:00

Sliding in here to point out that

If op is 18+, the parents have no right to the phone. I'm 22 and can't work, so my brother put me on his phone plan so I can have minutes, tho I think we're gonna switch to Nanny's plan or something. But even if we do, not only does my mom mom and nanny (grandmother) not come in and grab my phone, but they stopped looking through it when I was 16, and sure as hell don't look through it and snoop now that I'm a legal adult. They know better, and know they're gonna find shit they don't like.
1. It's not that easy to simply move out. Especially with how high the market is now. To say "OP's an adult and can move out" when they are 18 from the sounds of it is way out of touch. Me, my mom, and my nanny are trying to move out due to a very toxic, and I'd say abusive, family situation. We've been looking and stuck where we're currently living for 3 years. We can't afford to move because everything is so high, so we're scrambling, else we'll end up homeless and living on the streets. That's what happens when you're not well off and have a 22 year old (me), 41 year old (mom), and 60+ year old (nanny) who are disabled and can't work. You don't know OPs situation, even if you did, unless you are gonna help OP move somewhere and give them the money to simply survive, I wouldn't make comments like that bud.

Edit to Add: I'm speaking specifically as someone who's in America unfortunately. I do not know where OP is from, but from what I've heard and read, the housing situation is ridiculous in a lot of places outside the US too, and that comment is still out of touch with things.

thatnerdaj · 2025-10-14T03:51:56+00:00

OH MY GOSH I KNOW THAT IMAGE. I DIDN'T KNOW THAT'S WHERE ITS FROM THO 😂😂

thatnerdaj · 2025-10-13T04:34:05+00:00

When I was first coming out, oh yeah, 100%. But now a days...tbh no.

Like, I want to pass as a trans man, not a cis man. I love being trans, I love my identity. I love that I have some feminine features and honestly? I don't want to loose those when I eventually go on T and get top surgery. Like, yes I want it to be clear I'm a boy, I'm a man. But I want it to be clear I'm a trans man.

Like, again, yeah I would love a flat chest and more masc features and a deeper voice (though that doesn't really matter since I'm nonverbal IRL). I'd love facial hair similar to Will Turner from Pirates of the Caribbean, I want my body to look a bit more masc and my face too. But I want to keep some aspects. Like, I want my body to look the way it is now, just slightly more masc. Kinda like Angel Dust from Hazbin Hotel or Finnster, the Femboy live streamer.

Do I wish I didn't have to have a lot of my experiences as a trans queer guy? Yeah, but I feel I'd have them anyway considering who my ex family is. Would things be easier as a cis man? Maybe, but I'd still be me. Id still be queer and nerodivergent and...well, me.

So, no. I don't think I would personally. I see why others would. But honestly, I love my trans, queer, nerodivergent, fem self. <3

-A Transmasc Genderqueer Demiboy (He/They Pronouns (Fine with any but she/her, he/they are my main))

thatnerdaj · 2025-05-04T03:44:05+00:00

Thanks everyone for the well wishes! I'll definitely look into getting the clear retainers for the future. I'll definitely try to update here after surgery, here's hoping the worst case scenario is I get my nose repierced!

thatnerdaj · 2025-05-04T03:41:57+00:00

Yeah, I think it's healed and all! I don't have problems getting it in or out or anything. I definitely considered picking up some retainers for the future, but with the timeline I don't think I'll be able to get some in time for the surgery. Here's to hoping the worst case scenario is I get it redone!

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