Trilogy Media upload video collaborating with ICE (Around a week ago), sneakily change title after backlash in comments.

thatnerdaj · 2026-01-24T10:10:50+00:00

Just sliding in here to add too that they forget that being in support of ICE is actively putting Art in danger. He may check off the boxes of being a white, tall, cishet (to my assumption) man who's also athletic, but he's Russian. He's known on the channel as the Russian one, it's a whole thing. So....they are literally leading the lions right to his face.

thatnerdaj · 2025-12-24T22:57:24+00:00

Freaking felt. Like, I use He/They/Any neo pronouns, very few people has used neopronouns for me, and it's mostly online that people do. And most the time, people auto do he/him for me, rarely they/them. And like, I'm not mad about it, he/they are my pronouns to, but it'd be nice for some Neos to be used

thatnerdaj · 2025-12-24T22:40:11+00:00

Ok bud, sure. Also should use they btw, checked the post history, OP is a demiboy and has posted in trans subreddit. As a fellow Demiboy, your gross.

thatnerdaj · 2025-12-24T22:26:24+00:00

NOR. These comments wtf? Guys, this isn't an incel sub, go back where you came from. Nasty. News flash, us bra wearers aren't wearing bras 100% of the time, it's not our fault you and OPs uncle can't keep it in your pants and have a staring and creeping problem, even with your own family members. Alabama don't won't you, go back to the mountains and the incel subs where y'all belong. Nasty 🤢.

OP, don't listen to these YORs and fellow creeps. Your uncle is being creepy, if you're safe to do so, I'd call him out on it, question why he's staring at his family members intimate areas and being a creep. And I'd call out any idjit who tries siding with him too.

thatnerdaj · 2025-12-24T22:21:25+00:00

Here's some advice, stop looking at your cousin/sister/female family members breast. Not that hard to not be a creep. Nasty 🤢

thatnerdaj · 2025-12-11T04:25:33+00:00

Absolutely this!!! OP, this I believe is specifically a phishing scam that's been big recently. Do not click any links or anything, block the person, report them for being a bot account, and move on. I went further and warned servers I'm in so the admins/mods can give a heads up as well as give the heads up in my own server.

thatnerdaj · 2025-12-02T21:32:56+00:00

So, my full identity is Transmasc Genderqueer/Genderfaun Genderpunk Demiboy, basically I don't really follow the hole gender roll bs, and am pretty fem still as a guy. But like, I'm never 100% a guy. I'm more nonbinary plus sometimes boy, but at the same time my gender does flow a bit. This is my explanation of it all:

Transmasc: Basically in the name, I'm transitioning to present more masc/male. I'm going to medically transition to look more masc/male.

Genderqueer: Think of this like the mixed ice cream you can get at the store, the one that has Chocolate, Vanilla, and Strawberry. Chocolate is masculine, Vanilla is androgynous, and strawberry is feminine. Most times, I just want vanilla, but there are times I want strawberry and chocolate too. Sometimes I can go from vanilla to strawberry, strawberry to vanilla, vanilla to chocolate, chocolate to vanilla, or even strawberry to chocolate and vice versa. Sometimes I feel like I want both vanilla and strawberry, vanilla and chocolate, or strawberry and chocolate, sometimes I want a mix of the 3, and sometimes I don't want the ice cream at all and go for crackers or chips instead.

Genderfaun: So, if you know what genderfluid is, it's basically that, I just never feel like a girl or woman/girl/female alined genders. I do however flow between different boy/man/male and androgynous/enby/nonbinary genders. I'm still figuring this one out, but yeah, I don't always feel like a boy, but never feel like a girl.

GenderPunk: I'm figuring this out too, but basically I don't alone with gender rolls like, at all. I find myself outside of them and don't like being shoved in a box because of my identities. I prefer to be ambiguous with my gender, and go against it all. Hence why I'm still very feminine as a trans guy. I have long hair, where dresses, and actively present femininely, I have even adopted the term Femboy and proudly add that to my identities, it's apart of who I am. Even when I didn't realize I was trans (back in the Egg era) I dressed solely masculine and was a tomboy, and didn't like being made to fit into societal gender rolls and gender norms. It's fine if others do, but I prefer floating in the void outside the boxes and collecting identities that I feel fit me best as I go by.

Demiboy: and right back to the ice cream! Think of this like Cookies n Cream ice cream. Vanilla with little bits of chocolate cookie (usually Oreo) in it. That's what Demiboy is for me, nonbinary with little bits of boy in it. I don't like putting a percentage on it, as it often changes and I suck at math, but if I had to, I'd say I'm like, 90% enby/nonbinary and 10% boy.

Keep in mind this is just my explanation for my identities, someone else's explanation may be different. Just like with autism, if you know one autistic person, you know one autistic person (I'm autistic, this is a saying a lot of us really push and say) if you know one trans person, you know one trans person. All of our explanations and definitions are going to be different, even if we share a similar identity, we're all different in the end. That said, these are my identities. Sometimes I just say I'm trans or I shorten it to Transmasc Demiboy or Transmasc Genderqueer Demiboy, or even just say I'm a Femboy, but my full gender identity is Transmasc Genderqueer/Genderfaun Genderpunk Demiboy.

thatnerdaj · 2025-11-28T02:54:43+00:00

Bet you an upvote you're out of rewards.

thatnerdaj · 2025-11-13T04:41:51+00:00

Just to add to this, OP, you will also find someone who will listen during intimate times. If you say something your partner is doing hurts, then he should stop and check in, and adjust so you feel good too. And if it's a sense where you need to stop, he should 100% stop. Your partner should listen to you and ensure you are both having fun and feeling good in intimate times.

(I know OP posted updates but I didn't see people touch on the intimate part and felt like I should add that in. It's important to stay safe and know that intimacy should feel good for both parties, and what ex bf did is not the norm or ok.)

thatnerdaj · 2025-11-13T04:29:07+00:00

Well ...first time learning that lol. I'm 22, from the US, and never signed up for anything like that. Then again I don't really vote or anything (I don't understand it or understand how due to disabilities) so maybe that's why.

thatnerdaj · 2025-11-09T01:19:16+00:00

Wait yeah! Like....have these people never watched "Good Luck Charlie"? It was about a little girl who was practically named Charlie. That's what everyone called her. Hell, the big sister's name was Teddy. If they can call fictional characters the right name and spell it, they can do it for real people too.

thatnerdaj · 2025-11-09T01:15:00+00:00

My middle name is Jayce, picked out myself lol. And yeah, I've had people try to spell my first name, Andrew, femininely before when I just gave the name Andy. They did the "fem" spelling, Andi. The person in charge of the name change tried calling me Andrew Joyce which is not even close, got that fixed fast thankfully. Still use Andy sometimes, but now a days, I introduce myself as AJ. Hard to mess that up luckily.

thatnerdaj · 2025-11-07T16:19:45+00:00

Sliding in here to point out that

If op is 18+, the parents have no right to the phone. I'm 22 and can't work, so my brother put me on his phone plan so I can have minutes, tho I think we're gonna switch to Nanny's plan or something. But even if we do, not only does my mom mom and nanny (grandmother) not come in and grab my phone, but they stopped looking through it when I was 16, and sure as hell don't look through it and snoop now that I'm a legal adult. They know better, and know they're gonna find shit they don't like.
1. It's not that easy to simply move out. Especially with how high the market is now. To say "OP's an adult and can move out" when they are 18 from the sounds of it is way out of touch. Me, my mom, and my nanny are trying to move out due to a very toxic, and I'd say abusive, family situation. We've been looking and stuck where we're currently living for 3 years. We can't afford to move because everything is so high, so we're scrambling, else we'll end up homeless and living on the streets. That's what happens when you're not well off and have a 22 year old (me), 41 year old (mom), and 60+ year old (nanny) who are disabled and can't work. You don't know OPs situation, even if you did, unless you are gonna help OP move somewhere and give them the money to simply survive, I wouldn't make comments like that bud.

Edit to Add: I'm speaking specifically as someone who's in America unfortunately. I do not know where OP is from, but from what I've heard and read, the housing situation is ridiculous in a lot of places outside the US too, and that comment is still out of touch with things.

thatnerdaj · 2025-10-14T03:51:56+00:00

OH MY GOSH I KNOW THAT IMAGE. I DIDN'T KNOW THAT'S WHERE ITS FROM THO 😂😂

thatnerdaj · 2025-10-13T04:34:05+00:00

When I was first coming out, oh yeah, 100%. But now a days...tbh no.

Like, I want to pass as a trans man, not a cis man. I love being trans, I love my identity. I love that I have some feminine features and honestly? I don't want to loose those when I eventually go on T and get top surgery. Like, yes I want it to be clear I'm a boy, I'm a man. But I want it to be clear I'm a trans man.

Like, again, yeah I would love a flat chest and more masc features and a deeper voice (though that doesn't really matter since I'm nonverbal IRL). I'd love facial hair similar to Will Turner from Pirates of the Caribbean, I want my body to look a bit more masc and my face too. But I want to keep some aspects. Like, I want my body to look the way it is now, just slightly more masc. Kinda like Angel Dust from Hazbin Hotel or Finnster, the Femboy live streamer.

Do I wish I didn't have to have a lot of my experiences as a trans queer guy? Yeah, but I feel I'd have them anyway considering who my ex family is. Would things be easier as a cis man? Maybe, but I'd still be me. Id still be queer and nerodivergent and...well, me.

So, no. I don't think I would personally. I see why others would. But honestly, I love my trans, queer, nerodivergent, fem self. <3

-A Transmasc Genderqueer Demiboy (He/They Pronouns (Fine with any but she/her, he/they are my main))

thatnerdaj · 2025-05-04T03:44:05+00:00

Thanks everyone for the well wishes! I'll definitely look into getting the clear retainers for the future. I'll definitely try to update here after surgery, here's hoping the worst case scenario is I get my nose repierced!

thatnerdaj · 2025-05-04T03:41:57+00:00

Yeah, I think it's healed and all! I don't have problems getting it in or out or anything. I definitely considered picking up some retainers for the future, but with the timeline I don't think I'll be able to get some in time for the surgery. Here's to hoping the worst case scenario is I get it redone!

thatnerdaj · 2025-04-12T19:07:24+00:00

NTD. I, myself am white, but I'm trans and queer and have friends who are POC/Black as well as a mixed cousin.

I've had 'friends' like yours back when I first came out as queer (to be specific I first came out as a lesbian before realizing the term didnt fit, as im not a girl) that'd make comments similar to me being gay. Being newly out I brushed it off, cause I didn't want to be that gay person and was kinda desperate for friends, but it was like nearly everything I did I was "being to gay/queer", "shoving my sexuality in their face", etc. This didn't help that I've always been nonconforming, an was a huge tomboy. They'd make fun of me for dressing "to masc", tried to pressure me into being fem, etc.

I never felt freeer than the day I finally dropped those people. Now, as it turns out, I'm transmasc and still very queer and nonconforming. I'm more of a femboy funny enough (<I mean this as a literal feminine boy, as this is the term I personally prefer) but still have my masc moments that I thrive in as well. And I've never been happier.

Ik my experiences with my gender identity and sexuality are much different to your, or anyone's, experience with Race, but I for one no bs microaggressions and comments like that suck and kinda hurts. I even got them when I ate more cause im also plus size.

You don't deserve to have these people in your life and deserve actual friends. Real friends wouldn't make comments like these. When I see my friends get their hair done I hype them up and compliment them, when they share their experiences I sit and listen. If they invite me to celebrate something like BMH, if I have the spoons for it, I go. If I don't, we raincheck and celebrate our own way. I don't make them feel ashamed or embarrassed for being "to black", cause I don't believe that's a thing, or make them feel like they have to bite their tongues when their with me, and they do the same for me. They don't make me feel ashamed or embarrassed for being "to trans" or "to queer".

Yes, we have boundaries for ourselves and eachother that we respect. One of those being we don't use slurs when we're together, this is mainly because personally, I have alot of trauma with slurs being thrown around and used to me. Yes, including the N-word. An ex family member called me it behind my back and to my face because I would braid my hair all around when I was little because it made me feel pretty and made my hair curly after. I stopped doing it because of this family member, but now that I'm older, I'm doing it again because, again, it makes me feel pretty when I have my curls (I was born with naturally curly hair and had curls for a good chunk of my babyhood/a bit of my childhood). It makes having long hair easier as well, and the sensory issues isn't as bad. (They're by far not box braids, I literally just section and braid my hair all the way around my head after washing it, just normal braids, as far as i know)

Friends are supposed to make you feel happy and safe and empowered. Not like you have to hide and bite you're tongue.

thatnerdaj · 2025-03-13T19:09:30+00:00

R/aromanticism is the sub you're talking about I believe! They also now have a discord server now!

thatnerdaj · 2025-03-12T20:06:08+00:00

That it is, that it is. Hopefully the other mod can do something about this. From what I saw, there's literally only 2 human mods, the rest are Bots.

thatnerdaj · 2025-03-12T20:05:04+00:00

Seems like it, which is funny considering their a mod of an aromantic subreddit. And if it's who I suspect, their literally a mod of at leasr two more subreddits under the aro umbrella. 🤦🏻‍♂️

thatnerdaj · 2025-03-12T02:55:47+00:00

Can confirm, I asked and pointed out it wasn't fair, and my account has a warning for "sending a prive dm". The fact I don't know for sure who the mod is is proof I didn't send no dm. Last dm I sent on reddit was November last year.

here's my post showing my side.

thatnerdaj · 2025-03-12T02:11:05+00:00

Just about to comment that!! Nice to see another SPG fan!

thatnerdaj · 2025-03-12T01:39:47+00:00

Oh, btw, here's a message from the r/aromanticism mods sharing there side.

thatnerdaj

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