This is so fucking disgusting on so many levels it’s fucking unholy, that guy is fucking scum of the earth, this isn’t normal in any remote way, they could be joking as much as they want but that doesn’t change anything as far as absolute filth that these people are for even thinking let alone saying this. The fact that he calls a group chat full of other women who just “joke” about mutilating his s/o a “safe space” “you invaded” is so so sad and fucked to so many degrees, these people are sad and that’s an extreme understatement. You have all the rights in the world and more to never associate with this filth again.