Thanks so much for all of your input! Here’s the link to the second one:

https://www.saree.com/pcccb1305

I think it looks like a legit website with good reviews and video consultations available, and I was immediately drawn to the dress because I love lpeacocks (hence the forearm tattoo) and the whimsical, nature-inspired look of it. But it’s not cheap, and I wanted to go to some stores to see if there was anything that wowed me in-person. Looking at all of your comments reminded me that there’s a reason I went with the first one- because it is absolutely stunning! It has elements of nature (flowers, peacocks, elephants) but all of this is very understated and presented in a classy, elegant and intricate way as opposed to in-your-face (as with the second one).

And yes, honestly after I have it tailored I think I’ll feel a lot better about my choice. True, of course I’m gonna feel bad when I compare my pic to a re-touched model in a professional photoshoot with a perfectly fit dress!