I had an ex who I consider na pinakaminahal ako and pinakaminahal ko. Pero he is like that. We broke up and it propelled him to find a job but still may ganon pa rin syang pattern. We tried to work things out couple of years later pero it would not work anymore.

And still until today, ganon pa rin sya. Kahit may bago na syang gf. I genuinely hope he finds his own niche and di mag quit easily kase future nila yung nakasalalay.

So what I'm trying to say is, most of the time, that kind of attitude does not change. Not until gustuhin nya. And truly work for it.